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Is losing your virginity on prom night the worst thing ever??
cause me and my boyfriend are staying in a hotel with his bro and my best friend... but with 2 rooms?
Im a good virgin but i love my boyfriend... and i dunno if im ready...
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No its not. if you are not 100% percent sure you are ready do not do it. i waited to have sex with my boyfriend for two years before i gave him my virginity. if your boyfriend loves you then he will not push you. and if he doesnt except it then you made a great decision of not giving it to him.
guys on prom night are like a lion with a steak. they want it so bad they will do anything they can to have a story to tell there friends when school starts again. so make sure you make a good decision because you virginity is something that you should hold dear to you.
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dont do it if your having doubts about it then it means your not ready please dont do something youll regret save yourself for your wedding night make it even more special
hope i helped +jesusfreak+
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There's a big thing about losing your virginity on prom night and I must admit it's something I have never been able to understand.
Here's the thing, you should NEVER have sex until you know that you are ready and this is even more the case when it comes to losing your virginity. Why give it up until you know you're ready to? Sex is a big deal and even if you know you love your boyfriend, it doesn't mean you have to be ready now. If he loves you, he will understand this.
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if you love your boyfriend and you KNOW you want to do it, then go for it. if your ready and you feel like hes the one you want to lose your virginity to then i guess you can
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i would say do whatever YOU want to do. don't go farther then what YOU feel comfortable with. some people think loosing your virginity on prom night is bad because it's what your expected to do or whateverr. but don't care about what other people think .. do what YOU want to do. if your not comfortable loosing your virginity, then DON'T. if you & your boyfriend are serious enough to have sex, your serious enough for you to be able to talk about it and say, "im just not ready yet." also .. dont feel pressure because of his brother & your best friend are doing something. above all just do whatever you feel comfortable with. and think of the consequences when having sex .. getting pregnant, STD, etc.
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I'd say that you should wait until you are married! Share your body with the one that is supposed to be with you.
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If you are not a 100% sure don't give your virginity up cause you think it will make HIM happy and that it's MAYBE the right time. Trust basically really you should be on the dance floor with your boyfriend and girlfriends spending your last night as a kid before going out into the world or college. I mean after that dance that's it you an Adult. Just stay a kid as long as you can and have fun at your prom. Don't end up making a regret on yourself becuase i don't think that's the way to remember your Prom. Hope i helped!!!
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Errr this is kinda a tough call.If you honestly think your not ready DONT do it,youll most likely regret it in the long run.Having sex is a big decision you dont want to lose your virginity to just anyone.If you feel its the right time then go for it.If youve been with him for 3 plus years,then i think its okay for you guys to have sex but i mean if youve only been together for a couple months its not a good idea,especially if the guy has a reputation with what he does with girls.Dont let your boyfriend pressure you into doing something you dont want to do either,if your really not ready tell him.If you do do it,talk to each other about it like if you get pregnant what are oyu going to do,are you going to go on the pill or use a condom not use a condom you know that kind of stuff,the important stuff.I wouldnt recommend doing it on prom night i dont think its really THAT special and usually well the people at my school who do it are the sleezballs and the sluts so its not kinda ehhh that great i guess you could say since everyone seems to do it that night.If you dont want to have sex,you can have oral sex which is still sex but much safer or you know just makeout.If you do just have oral sex make sure you or him wear a condom okay?But honestly its how YOU feel and what YOU think is right,all we can do is give you the facts and our opinions.Have Fun At Your Prom! it should be really fun!
♥ danielle
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If your not ready, your not ready. Dont do anything you dont want to do, and dont let anyone push you to do it either. Most likey your boyfriend will want to, just tell him no. he should be able to understand, if he gets mad, you know that he's only thinking of himself, he needs to know whats good for you as well.
So basically, if you dont want to lose your virginity, dont do it. As long as you know what you want and what is good for you thats all the matters.
Hope that helps!
x0x Kaci
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if you dont know if your ready or not, it means youre not ready. Dont do anything you dont want to do. Besides, losing it on prom night is REALLY over rated
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If you aren't sure if you're ready, but think you may be, then you are NOT ready. If you have even the slightest doubts, then you are definitley not ready. Now if you truly love him, and you are not having any doubts, then go for it. Just remember to have some form of birth control like the pill or condoms and such. But also remember, the pill, and many other variations take time to kick in and work to their full potential.
I don't really see a problem with losing your virginity on prom night, but as long as you're ready and can handle the consequences. You never know what could happen, you could be as safe as possible and still get pregnant. As long as you really truly love him and know you could handle any consequences that may come along, then I zuppose you should do it.
In my personal opinion though, I don't think that you're quite ready. Asking a question to this site shows some sort of doubt, even if you don't know it.
I suggest waiting a little longer. I'm not sure how long you have been dating, or what age you are (though age shouldn't matter) but if you haven't been dating for a very long time (like at least a year) then you don't know how long you two will stay together. I think it's a little risky, but if you really really want to, I can't stop you, in the end it will be your decision.
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If you don't know for sure, don't take the chance.
In my opinion, your first time is a big deal, you don't need to make it any bigger by putting it on a very special night like prom. I strongly advise that if/when you are ready to take this step, take it slowly and calmly someplace you are comfortable, not some foreign hotel room. Being able to relax is the difference between a clumsy icky first time and an enjoyable one.
Besides that I have seen far too many girls ruin their prom for themselves as they sit there and worry about the sex they'll be having afterwards rather then enjoying the party.
Whatever you decide though, decide before you get to the hotel room and tell your boyfriend your decision up front. Don't let the question of sex or no just linger, shove it out of the way so you can have a stress free night.
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well if you don't know them obviously you aren't ready and if he loves you back he will understand and wait till the time is right for you. Instead of going to the hotel maybe you can go out for a fancy dessert or something after prob instead of having sex. Its not the worst thing ever but it is not the best in any means
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dont do it if your not ready!! plus to loose your virginity is so predictable on prom night. i think that the night every1 looses their virginity. but the chioce is all urs. well i hope this helped && have fun at ur prom.
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If you don`t know if your ready then most likely your not sweetie..Losing your virginity on prom night wouldn`t be bad in my opinion espcially if you love your partner..But if your doing it because its prom night then NO its not a good idea..Just because you guys are going to be alone doesn`t mean you have to have sex..You could just enjoy your time alone with kissing,watching a movie or something else..
Hope i helped && have fun at prom..♥Dez
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hey! ok if you "don't know" if you are ready, then you are deffinitely not. it's not something you should have any doubts about. when you are ready you will know it.
having sex on prom night is the most cliche thing ever... i think it's done in books and on tv waaayy more than in real life. i mean, my prom was until 5 am and no one was allowed to leave early because they wanted to prevent people from drinking or having sex.
you will have more fun at prom night if you only do things that you are comfortable with!! plus, don't forget that if you are ready for sex you are also ready for the responsibility that comes along if you end up getting pregnant! that might spoil your prom night a lot more than it would be spoiled if you chose not to have sex! :) good luck and have fun!!!!!
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if your not ready dont do it. you should be preasured into doing that. when the time comes it will happen. i mean if you preasure urself in it then you wont enough it as much. have fun at prom.
♥ Steph
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If you are unsure you are probably not ready.
There is nothing wrong with that.
Here is a site that may help you decide if you are really ready or not.
Whatever you decide, Have a great prom! :)
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