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Boy Next Door
Well the happiest thing happened to me... I found the love of my life... I love his family his family loves me vise versa... But the only problem is he lives next door... Ya some people are like thats the tightest thing ever... But it is a hassle sometimes when i wanna go out with the girls and its like i have 2 sets of parents... One weekend i went to a party with my friends and i came home at 12:30 and his parents were all pissed cause he wasnt with me... I dunno... But i love him though... And his parents think we are getting married... They told him to wait till after graduation to get married and we have been going out for like 2 months? that kinda creeps me out... What should i do??
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The parents... sometimes freaky sometimes cool. Just ignore them if they say something like that. If you love him, then you can argue with his parents. Just put your attention on the guy, not his parents.
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if you love him, it doesnt matter what his parents have to say. If they're creeping you out tell him, he might be able to talk to them and tell them to lay off a little.
Also, it's not like you guys are going to get married right after graduation either, so dont worry about it. And as long as your parents dont care about where you were, who you were with, and what time you were out until.. its none of their business
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well l'am just gonna give you my best advice for this situation. My first boyfriends was smutherring me too much and my friends didn't want to hang around with me because he was always around . So heres what l did. l told l still want to be your girlfriend but sometimes we are kind of with each other 24/7 so we need to create space, and he was so sweet enough to understand.
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Well only after 2 months of dating my bf, his parents and the whole rest of his huge family were calling me their daughter-in-law and that they can't wait til me and him get married and have kids. At first it was very overbearing hearing that when I had only been dating their son for about 3 months, but after a while I kinda felt comfort in hearing that. I really liked his family alot and they all treated me like their daughter, which was nice, since me and my mom don't really agree on much (she was the good kid in highschool, and I was the one going to parties like his parents were when they were my age). Take it as a compliment that they like you that much that they could picture you guys being married. My bf actually asked me after 6 months to marry him and I told him straight up that I didn't think that was a smart idea, given we had only been dating 6 months, and that it would probably be best to wait years from now and see where our lives take us. Marriage is a big deal. And make this clear to him. It's a fact that only around 50% of marriages now-a-days actually last without divorce. That is horrible. So let him know that right now you and him are young and just started dating and shouldn't be thinking that serious just yet. Tell him that when you do want to get married you want to make sure it isn't rushed and is the right time. Tell him that when you say your marriage vows that you really want to stay married for the rest of your life, til death do you part. Marriage is a big deal and a life long commitment so tell him how you feel. Just don't be too harsh about it. He obviously loves you, and maybe just sees you as being his wife someday in the far future. It's not like he is buying a ring this very moment. Now that would be kinda creepy. lol... Hope I helped.
~Sherah
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omg yeah thats kinda like really werid
if i were you i would talk to him and make sure he knows that you arent thinking of marraige yet since its so early in the relationship, and that you want to wait until your positive you want to get married to him. hopefully hell understand!
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Talk to them about it. Tell them that you've only been dating for 2 months, and that marriage is too soon. Marriage is a nice thought, but not so early. Tell them how you feel, I'm sure they'll understand.
♥TiNA
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