ok..so..i like this guy..we'll call him kv. well he turns out to be my brothers best friend..i eventually told him, and it didn't bother him at all. i told my friend jordan, who was kv's age (they r 2 years older then me)and kv's friend, and asked her if i should ask him out. she told me no, because he had a girlfriend, and his grifriend was her best friend. i had absolutly NO clue kv had a girlfriend. i immeadiatly felt emmbaresed. i remembered his old girlfriend (lets call her dee)dee, and wondered if they were still together. she moved to florida. i found out they were still together... a couple days after i told kv, he IM'd me and told me he needed to tell me something that was private, and not to be said to anyone else. he told me that he really liked me, and his girfriend, and he was confused. he told me that she would be coming back to where we live on june 21st to visit. he said they would probobly break up...but i'm not sure if i believe him...what do i do???
x0_kaci_0x answered Tuesday June 20 2006, 10:43 am: Well i can definitley see why your confused! Guys are like that, if you know that kv is a nice guy, and wouldn't lie to you, you most likely know that hes telling you the truth. But it's always hard to tell with guys. Im kind of in the same situation right now...just a bit different, so i can see where your coming from. You'll just have to wait this one out and see what happens. Just kinda try to stay out of things with him for a while until your certain on whats going on.
x3candiigrl answered Tuesday June 20 2006, 2:34 am: Just wait it out. If he doesnt break up with her then back off for a little while, and make sure you like him too. If he does then you guys should go out especially since this guy said he liked you. Just remember that dating your friends brother has its pros and cons... like if you break up it could ruin your brothers friendship with this guy. [ x3candiigrl's advice column | Ask x3candiigrl A Question ]
tRuEe_lOve answered Tuesday June 20 2006, 1:01 am: okay this sounds like drama waiting to happen haha.. but i would deff wait to go out with him if anything, i mean if she lives far away then this relationship will not last at all, so just wait & see if hes telling the truth about breaking up with her, & if he is telling the truth & asks you out AFTER they break up then totally do it.. if he really likes you hed wait.
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clearlypink428 answered Monday June 19 2006, 11:34 pm: just keep things on a friendly basis. it'll be real hard especially when you see him in person- but as long as you stand your ground- he'll know that its wrong to be wanting two girls at once. let him know(without telling him, of course)- tht he needs to choose- you or her. hope i helped./ IM me ifyou need more help on this. [ clearlypink428's advice column | Ask clearlypink428 A Question ]
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