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moms worried for no reason
not perfect category but oh well..
mmkay so my friend invited me to go to the mall with her and a couple of my other friends. the only problem is that my mom is worried about the fact that shes never met my friend of her dad (and her dad is driving me there) and shes not sure if she wants me to go. but the stupid me already told my friend that i CAN go cause i thought my mom would say yes.(yes, i know my mistake)
so what can i tell my mom to make her let me go??
thanks muchho!
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Well, when your friend & her dad come over to pick you up, have your mother come outside with you so she can meet them. Or, have them call you & talk to your mom. :] If your mom talks to her dad or meets him, you'll have a better chance of her letting you go. :]
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Assure your mom that the mall is perfectly safe (there are plenty of innocent bystanders if anything happens). Also carry a cell phone and promise your mom that you'll call her regularly.
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tell her you will have a cell phone with and you will call her anytime she wants i mean they need to trust you sometime right???
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Tell your mom you're going no matter what she says and run out of the house with a wild, maniacal grin on your face, cackling loudly:)
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Well, can't your mother drive you to the mall this time? Maybe if she does, then she can meet the girl and her father face-to-face and talk with them, so she feels more secure with you being there and driving in the car with them in the future.
Or, just have your friend give you her father's phone number so your mom can talk to him about all of this, and then see if she feels secure with you in the car with him, then. He'll understand why she's being so curious and worried and everything - he's ( obviously ) a parent too, so that might work out good.
Also, if you're getting picked up at your house, which I believe you are, then why not just have your mother wait outside for them with you, and then whenever they come, your mother can walk over to the car with you and meet them and have a quick talk with the father, and get to know eachother so once again, she can feel more secure about the whole situation.
Once she meets the father and everything, she'll be less worried. My mom's always worried about me whenever I go out with people she doesn't know, because she doesn't know what that person does or how that person acts and she doesn't know how good or bad the father drives, I would be worried too, if my kid was in the hands of strangers.
I hope I helped.
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