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there is this guy and he is the sweetest cutest guy in the world. one of my friends told me that he thought i was really pretty and that he was thinking about asking me out. but the thing is is hes popular and i am not and he is a sophmore and i am a freshman but i really really like him and i want him more than anything how can i get him to ask me out??? (link)
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Try to wait it out. If you really want to go out with him but he's not asking you out, just try to talk to him casually and maybe it might get him to ask you out. Try not to be too obvious, though.
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not perfect category but oh well..
mmkay so my friend invited me to go to the mall with her and a couple of my other friends. the only problem is that my mom is worried about the fact that shes never met my friend of her dad (and her dad is driving me there) and shes not sure if she wants me to go. but the stupid me already told my friend that i CAN go cause i thought my mom would say yes.(yes, i know my mistake)
so what can i tell my mom to make her let me go??
thanks muchho! (link)
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Assure your mom that the mall is perfectly safe (there are plenty of innocent bystanders if anything happens). Also carry a cell phone and promise your mom that you'll call her regularly.
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I've been going out with Michael for almost three months. Its crazy, we spend hours talking about absolutley nothing, just laughing at the stupid jokes we can make up. Just seeing him makes my heart pound. During class, I can't stop thinking about until the next time I'll get to see him, which affects my grades unforunatley. When I hug him goodbye, I already miss him. If we just hung up on the phone, I get sad like I haven't seen him in months. Sometimes, my mind just races about thoughts of him, and I absolutley dread the weekends when I can't see him.
Why is this? How can I get my life somewhat back to normal? (link)
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It takes a while to get out of this trance. Try to regulate how much you talk to him. Don't IM him and call him every day. He might not appreciate your intense devotion to your relationship. Try to also appreciate this time too, you're at the height of a relationship.
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i recently like an hour ago spray painted the ends of my hair black. i really wanted the ends black and i couldnt go to a salon or do it myself cuz my mom wouldn't let me die it black it had to be a light color. so trying to be a rebel i took my sisters spray paint and used it as a hair product. not a good idea. i washed my hair like twice to make it not as stiff but then i brushed it a million times and it made my hair a puff ball! so now i am stuck with puff ball hair and is super stiff at the ends. the only thing i can think about doing is cutting off where i sprayed but thats like 2 or 3 inches and i really dont wanna cut my hair. what can i do to get it out or if i leave it in how can i make it not as stiff? HELP! (link)
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Wait for a while (a day) to see if the paint will come off by itself. Hide it by wearing it in a bun or something so the ends won't be visible. If it doesn't come off, then cutting it might be recommended. You might just consider telling your mom.
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I found out that my brother smoked pot and I saw that he kept doing it so I told my mom (who doesn't believe me) but now my brother is being a jerk when all I wanted to do was help him what should I do?
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Try to catch your brother doing pot with your mother by your side. Also check for symptoms of smoking pot. If your mom is still refusing it, then bring it to another adult.
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does anyone know a website that has a carer test on it to see what careeyou should persue? (link)
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The website http://similarminds.com/ has numerous tests to take, and I believe some of them involve careers.
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13/f i had surgery like a month ago because i had a cyst in my left ovary. i am feeling some pain and i really need help. i didnt tell my parents because i did that before i was gonna have surgery and they rushed me to the emergency room...so i dont wanna worry them, but should i... i guess what i'm asking for is some advice on health so if theres any doctors or nurses out there PLEASE help me!
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Tell your parents. Because you just had a surgery the pain might be because of that, but it doesn't hurt to be hesitant. It's always better to be safe than sorry, to quote numerous people.
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I really like this kid i.ve never met him or talked to him. im really shy........how do i start a conversation when the only class we have together is Physical education????????
Help!!!!!!!!! (link)
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If you've never met him or talked to him, it'd be pretty hard to like him. Try to get to know him first. PE is a good class for that kind of stuff. While you guys are waiting for the ball to be passed or something, just ask him a question about school or a teacher.
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how do i put a layout on xanga?
and where can i get one?
What are some other cool codes for it?
thankss! (link)
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In your Xanga, there's a Look and Feel section. Depending on the layout (there should be details), it should probably go in the Custon Header. Some good sites are createblog.com and blogring.net
There are always plenty of blogrings dedicated to those things. Search "layouts" or "HTML codes" in blogrings.
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Theres this guy that I think likes me, but I don't like him that way. What should I do if he asks me out or something? I don't want to hurt him (emotionally) because he is a nice guy, but I also don't want to be caught off guard and end up saying yes because I can't think of a nice way to say no. (link)
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If he asks you out, I would suggest trying to break it to him lightly. Rejection is a part of life that nobody can avoid and pity dating can end up badly. Tell him that you think he's cool and everything, but add that you don't feel like getting into a relationship.
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I'm 17 years old, and my ex boyfriend is 15. We went out for a little bit and then my boyfriend broke up with me because he said he wasn't ready for a relationship and that we may get back together when he's ready for a relationship in the future. We'll a month went by and today me and him were talking about things and he told me he has been doing alot of thinking lately and maybe wants a girlfriend. First, I thought maybe he wants to get back together with me and then after he's like well.. i want to ask you something and tell you that i met another girl and she wants a relationship and i like her but i dont want to hurt you because i broke up with you cause i wasnt ready for a relationship and now i am and i dont have strong feelings for you anymore so would it bother you if i went out with her. It truely hit me like a brick and I told him "well what i dont understand is that why you would break up with me and then just get over me so quickly and now when your ready for a relationship and you dont want to be with me anymore?" after he looked sad and guilty and just stopped talking about it. my question is.. what should i try to say to him? and do you think i should try to get him back before he goes out with that girl? Thanks in advice. (link)
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There's always other guys. You should let him go. It takes a while to get over a guy but the initial shock is the hardest. Try to be happy for his new relationship (as odd as that sounds), so he can let go of some of his guilt.
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I am 26 years old female...My boyfriend is a great guy the best boyfriend ever when he is SOBER....when he drinks hes a different person...hes mean to me and throws me around when i dont wanna deal with him....he has never hit me but he gets real rough with me and hits the door or will smash something...I'm scared i dont know what to do...he always says im the mean one or i hurt him but when hes on top of me i have to push him away he pins me down...i have talked to him about this but i really dont know what to do...i just got a place with him just 3 months ago and now i feel trapped...what should i do...does this happen to anyone else...how can i help him? (link)
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When he is sober, put on your most serious face and talk to him. Don't be hesitant or anything. Just talk to him. If he denies the fact that he's hurting you, then you'll probably want to end the relationship. Having a good friend by your side is always a good idea.
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im fed up!! my best friend nicole, her other best friend is always hogging her and i never get ot hang out with her, they are either having a sleepover or wont let me talk to them. I have also known nicole for waay longer. what should i do? (link)
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If Nicole is reluctant to hang out with you, you should talk to her about it. Tell her that you think the friendship is falling out. If it happens her 'other best friend' is trying to keep her away from you, try to confront them. Also, try to make more of an effort than you are right now to spend time with Nicole.
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There is this guy that I like,he says he likes me too, but the one time i hung out with him he was kinda tipsy, and the second time he WANTED to hang out he was totally drunk so I didn't. but he says he doesn't usually do stuff like that. but I dont know.. should I just forget it...? [btw,I don't drink]
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If he isn't sober, then I'd advise you to be cautious. Drunk/tipsy guys can always lead up to trouble, but if you really feel you guys have a strong relationship you should talk to him about it next time you encounter him like that.
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I have this friend who used to be like the nicest person ever until one of our best friends moved and now she is acting all depresed, snobish, and rude. I know that it is hard to have a friend move but when ever I talk about it she's always like you weren't as good friends with her as I was. But the truth is that I had been best friends with the person for like 4 years. What should I do we used to have so much fun together! (link)
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Give it some time. If she continues to act like this, just tell her how she's acting and that you really feel as if she shouldn't dwell on it.
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So, to make the long story short.. My teacher did not enter in a grade for an essay I turned in, and told me I never turned it in the first place. So I have a failing grade for the class. I told her I turned it in, so she told me to just bring the paper in the next day to see it. I told her I would, but one problem.. I accidentally threw it away! I just realized it later on. And not thinking it wouldn't be entered in my grade average, and thought it was already entered in. And finding this out, I was pretty pissed about it. I told my dad to e-mail her that he saw the paper, and that he accidentally threw it away. But instead he told her he saw the paper, but said I could turn it in, after I TOLD HIM that it was thrown away accidentally by me. So my teacher told him there would be a sub the next day. He told me that when the teacher comes back, to tell her I already put the paper on her desk even though I didn't, just to pretend I really did turn it in. I told my dad he should of stuck with my idea of him saying he threw it away but my parents are saying just to keep the plan that we are going with now and tell the teacher you put it on her desk the other day.
I REALLY want this grade to be entered in, so I don't fail, but then again I don't wanna lie to a teacher because of the fear of getting caught. I don't wanna go back to it and tell her this whole time it was accidentally thrown away. What should I do? (link)
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Lying to a teacher is a rite of passage. If you really did turn it in, then it might turn up somewhere. Is it saved anywhere on your computer? Or try doing it over again, if possible.
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is an ipod nano "too fancy" or "too much" of a gift to get my bf [of 5 months when it comes] for christmas?
im not rich i mean im pretty average-class i guess but i dont have a job yet although i may have one by then.. but i dont want to get it for him if it seems like too big of a deal.. i hope that makes sense! (link)
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It really depends on how you feel about the relationship... if you think that it's strong then you might consider it. But I think you might want to go a bit lower in the price range.
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okay im getting older and my birthday is coming up soon.and im taking piano lessons.but every week when the time comes around for me to take them.i never want to. Is it that i don't like piano?? or do i think im too old.
i've been playing for 7 years and i don't want to give it up.but theres a feeling inside of me that never wants to play piano..maybe my teacher.idk.please help me.i really don't want to give it up. (link)
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I had the same exact situation last year, and I ended up quitting. What I decided was that it was getting old for me, and that I don't need lessons to play piano. If you've got the gist of it (which I think you do, considering you've been playing for seven years), you can probably quit lessons but still play in your free time.
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