Q: ok here is the second boy. well the second boy i have known forever just like (S). We were always just friends intill last year when we dated and i loved it and we were so close but then i got scared. I am a loner by nature and so it was hard for me to open up to someone except him. he is the only ione that can read me completly. Well i got scared because of how close he got to me and how alive the feelings rose. I also had the problem where it would take time for me to do anything(like we never kissed although he was used to that in all his relationships) so i was worried he would get tired of waiting. Well so i caled it of while i was stil madly in love with him but because of how long we had been friends(7 years)we stayed friends. Well he got closer still so i gave him to my best friend then pushed him out and that about kiled me and him. Well when schol started back we started talking and come to find out he was dating one of my old friends. well i fell for him in no time and i think he did the same. He is close to breaking up with my old friend and i am woried if he will want to date again. I wouldnt mind it cause i still like him. the only thing is that if we did i would realy be woried about kising or anything cause he has been all over two of my past friends( it was my fault for the first one and he didnt even know that me and the new one used to be friends) Well also i want him now but idk it is just dificult help me.

Q: OK so there's this boy and I like him a little bit and he's alright. But, when he is aroudn his friends he gets really mean and calls me names and everything. But he is really sweet and nice. Then when his friend isn't around he'll tell me bye after school and things like that. Is it just he doesn't like me or is it just his friend?

Q: not perfect category but oh well..

mmkay so my friend invited me to go to the mall with her and a couple of my other friends. the only problem is that my mom is worried about the fact that shes never met my friend of her dad (and her dad is driving me there) and shes not sure if she wants me to go. but the stupid me already told my friend that i CAN go cause i thought my mom would say yes.(yes, i know my mistake)

so what can i tell my mom to make her let me go??

thanks muchho!

Q: There's a really really REALLY hott guy in my class...let's call him...tim. Well, Tim is a really popular guy who is really nice and well, HOT :)...basically, if you looked at him, your heart would melt...lol. And, well i'm not a popular person..It's not like i'm a total geek or anything but i'm not the most popular girl in my class...im just normal...

ANYWAY...

At my friend's halloween b-day party, my friend told him "You and Em would make a great couple...you should ask her 2 dance"...
Tim didnt ask me or anything so I thought that he didnt like me....

Since then, he's talked 2 me a little bit and I even saw him looking at me a little bit...does this mean he likes me? I doubt this but what do you think? He broke up with his girlfriend a while ago but at the party i saw them dancing together...

Should I give up now while I'm ahead? Any advice would be GREAT!!!

Thanx!!!
*~*EM (13/f)

Q: 15/f. i have 5/6 class with a really popular guy named Nick. He is popular, hot, nice, and shy. i reallly like him because he doesn't act like he's popular (he just is) and he's really hot. i don't have a big crush on him, just a little one (kind've like most girls do with him). well i've never really talked to him much or anything, so we don't know each other that well. but since i have so many classes with him, i've noticed him looking at me alot. especially in social studies. i don't know if this means anything, but can someone tell me if it does? he tends to look at me at semi-quick glances, and sometimes we make eye contact.

what should i do about this? because i kinda like him looking beause i kind've like him.

what does all of this mean?

Q: so i met this guy ryan and we started talking and he asked me a bunch of questions and he was like do you have any questions for me? but i couldnt think of any so i was like ummm who do you like and he goes i like you and i go i like you too and he asked me out and i said yes but the problem is it doesnt seem like he likes me like we dont talk alot and he just doesnt seem interested at all whats up with him? does he like me or not?

Q: What do you do when your boyfriend tells you he wants to take a break because he has so much going on with work and homework and school and basketball and with his parents fighting all the time? but he still says he likes me and loves me and wants to be with me forever? I feel like i should respect what he wants but at the same time i feel i should be there for him and help him through it becuase after all thats what girlfriends are fo to help you through hard times and to give you advise and stuff. i love him to death and i dont know what to do! HELP im DESPERATE IN NEED FOR ADVISE!!!

Q: Okay so heres the thing my best-friend is going to the movies with me and her boyfriend is bringing a friend who happens to be my biggest crush...its only going to be us four and he already knows I like him and stuff and we talk all the time n always hangout but I have no idea what to say to him....should i just start talking to him or should there be sometimg specific i should say to him because i dont want to embarrass myself or make him think anything bad of me...

Q: My friend lou's haloween party was a blast and i made out with this boy i never though i would get the chance to talk to and that i thought was cute during spin the bottle. everyone of course at school found out and for the past 2 days my friend jasmina and mensur make fun of me about it in art where him and his other friend are! its REALLY funny but embarassing. they asked him questions like did you like it? was she good? would you go out with her? do you like her! and he answeres yes/yeah!/mhhmm to all of them! we even exchanged Numbers and he has my s/n (i THINK)but i barely talk to him and i dont really kno him but hes SOO cute but he doesn't do ANYTHING about it. WHAT IS HIS PROBLEM why doesnt he put in the effort to talk to me some more! should i talk to him on AIM? HELP should i go for it myself and if so waht do i do? or ditch this kid who won't make a move?

thanks majorly!

Q: 14/f. really complicated Q.
This guy who I've known for three years likes me as more than a friend. One year, I suspected he liked me (and I had an almost-reliable source tell me so) and I liked him. The next year, I completely did not like him. (I've never told him how I felt about him one way or another) and now we finalyl got to talking again and his best friend (who might be right or might be trying to start trouble) said that this guy like, loves me and is a great guy says I should give him a chance and kiss him.
Well I said that I'm not allowed to date and therefore nto allowed to kiss. (since it's true) and he was just like oh well.
Honestly, I don't think he's a great guy. I mean he's not like bad, but he is a couple of mont younger than me, I don't really think he's cute, he's interested in weird things I'm not interested in, and... I don't know.
I mean, I'm not gonna date him but can we still be friends even though he likes me?
He's told me a couple of times that he likes me but then he always tries to take it back and then says he actually does but blah blah blah blah.......
What to do?

Q: im fed up!! my best friend nicole, her other best friend is always hogging her and i never get ot hang out with her, they are either having a sleepover or wont let me talk to them. I have also known nicole for waay longer. what should i do?

Q: well i have a crush on this boy and i like him alot hes always flurting with me and playin around with me all my friends know i like him and say he likes me back. so i was going to talk to him but then i found out some one had areaddy told him that i liked him which didnt matter cause he would still flurt with me. Untill i tryed to talk to him about it i was in the hall and i went up to him and told him i needed to talk to him we said he couldnt talk cuz he had to go to class and to tell him the nextday (today) well all day he stayed away from me he didnt even want to cach my eye and to day we had a homecomeing pep rally and someone told me that he has been tell him all his friends that i like him that now thats making me really mad and i want to talk to him even more but if when i wanted to talk to him he ran away im scerd that if i try again that it will make this worce

Q: ok last year i was a complete dork. i mean it. i did the stupedist things and was a complete nerd. i embarrassed myself when i didnt even know it. this year, i am totally different and im not like that anymore. i dont want people to see me as that way anymore. how can i change peoples opinion of me?

and dont tell me i should be happy with who i am because that wont help me at all.

Q: tommorow i am auditioning for into the woods at my middle school (13/f). I REALLY REALLY want to be little red riding hood and i guess my second choice is cinderella. I am about 5'5'' or 5'6'' and my friend said im too tall to play little red. is that true? and does anyone have any tips on auditions or the part itself (its only a reading audition this one)
thanks!

Q: Well i am 17 and i like this boy chris as well who is seventeen. we are both juniors at the same school and were introduced this summer. my cousin who is 19, hangs out with his brother and i am usually with them weekends or close to every two weekends. so i know his brother very good. his brother matthew is really nice/goodlooking and always hits on me but chris is not very goodlooking or " cool" which i do not care about but i think he is very shy around me and i honestly do not know whether he likes me or not. one day i was waiting out side of school and he asked me if i needed a ride home, and i didnt. one day i called my friend brendon to see where the party was and he said he couldnt get me, so i called chris and he came right over to get me supirsingly. he never IMs me online, i always IM him and i dont know if i should because what if he doesnt want to talk to me? i always ask why we dont hangout and he just says lol or "i love you laurrryn" what can i do because maybe he just doesnt know if im serious or just playing around. what can i say thats not telling him i like him? thanksss

Q: THERE'S NO GETTING OVER THIS GUY - i mean seriously, we broke up 2 years ago, 2 YEARS, and ever since..ive done everything possible, everything you're supposed to do, to get over a person,... burnt his stuff, cried, talked to friends about it, gotten closure, dated other guys, you name it - ive done it! YET, im not over him. I think about him all the time, i still love him and still need him, and still dream about marrying him ten years from now, i havn't let go.. even though ive tried, so hard, for two years, im beginning to think i'll never get over him, i dont know what to do, he's moved on, his screenname is always about a new girl, h flirts like crazy, has fun, and at the same time has deep meaningful relationships, HE'S MOVED ON so howcome i can't? all along i knew i loved him more than he loved me and it meant more to me than it meant to him, so i knew it would take some more time for me.. but he got over me in a matter of days, IT'S BEEN 2 YEARS FOR ME. help me please.

Q: My friend, Emily,
has a sister named Meg. Emily is in fifth grade and Meg is in eighth. Since Meg is in eighth, Emily is friends with Meg's friends! They do everything together. And Emily is not in my side of the school, so I never see her. I call her, and she is with Meg's friends. In her sisters friend's profile it says: BEST FRIENDS " MEG KELSEY EMILY" I guess you can say I am jealous. But i dont know. I miss emily, and she is always with her sister. She doesnt notice me anymore. I really want our friendship to be strong again. I just miss her. Its so annoying!!

- Friendless

Q: At the beginning of the school year is when we met and we talked and flirted alot :-/ we became really good friends til he told me he liked me I didn't like him at the time cause I thought he was ugly and I thought we was to good of friends he liked me for awhiel til he gave up now it's near the end of the year and we still talk but not as much he kind of picks on me alot and everytime i say something to him he makes a big joke out of everything..It makes me mad but now im starting to kind of like it..He was such a sweetheart before he started acting like a jerk and I realize I really do like him.. I'm afraid to tell him cause he might just make a big joke out of it like everything else what should i do?

Q: hey iam sally well i have a bf and i love him more than myself and iam the kind of person if ihave a bf i make him all my life anyway i have a problem i think of him very day every hour every minute every second.when iam eating when iam out when iam sleeping i just cant get him out of my mind how can i just keep going with him but not think of him that much. and is it normal??? thanks and ill love to hear from all of you!!

Q: Okay, a week ago, this guy who I barely even know (I don't even know his last name) sent me an e-mail declaring that he loves me and wants to be with me. I sent him a very polite decline, because I just do not feel that way about him at all, and now he keeps on e-mailing me with guilt trips about how he thinks he's going to be alone for the rest of his life, and he keeps telling me that he loves me. I suspect that he thinks that if he keeps doing this that I'll change my mind...I don't quite know how to deal with this. So far, I've treated him like I would want to be treated were I in his position, but he's starting to make me feel really uncomforatble. What can I do??

Thanks!

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