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this boy...
OK so there's this boy and I like him a little bit and he's alright. But, when he is aroudn his friends he gets really mean and calls me names and everything. But he is really sweet and nice. Then when his friend isn't around he'll tell me bye after school and things like that. Is it just he doesn't like me or is it just his friend?
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To me it seems when he is around his friends he is trying hard not to say anything to you and covering up that he may like you...i mean this guy does the same thing with me but he was with his friend yesterday and he said hi to me and stuff so you know what i dont no if he likes me or not so you no what guys are so confusing sometimes
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Think of his friend and you. Do you guys get along and everything, or have you had past experiences that make you don't like eachother? Is there any reason at all why you think his friend might not like you?
Because if that's it, then it's probably just his friend. This can happen with guys. The guy like a girl, but his friend doesn't, so whenever they're all near eachother the guy feels if he's not mean to the girl, his friend'll feel like he's being betrayed or something and that his friend's going to start dating "the enemy" and leave him behind or something.
Also, whenever guys like girls, have you not heard "if the boys teasing you, that means he likes you" bit? This always tends to happen infront of the guys' friends, because he doesn't want others knowing he likes the girl, if he's shy or anything about it and doesn't know how you feel back.
I would talk to him about it and ask him if his friend has a problem with you or anything. If his friend doesn't, then just ask him straight out why he's always so mean to you whenever his friends around, and then wheenver the two of you are alone, he's as nice as can be? And just let him know it's sort of hurting your feelings being made fun of, and not knowing when he's going to be nice one second or mean the other.
And just try and talk it out and resolve the issue. If it is because of his friend, maybe try talking to him and resolving whatever problems obviously bubbling between the two of you, and show him there's nothing to dislike about you, and you want to be his friend.
I hope I helped.
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