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help please
What do you do when your boyfriend tells you he wants to take a break because he has so much going on with work and homework and school and basketball and with his parents fighting all the time? but he still says he likes me and loves me and wants to be with me forever? I feel like i should respect what he wants but at the same time i feel i should be there for him and help him through it becuase after all thats what girlfriends are fo to help you through hard times and to give you advise and stuff. i love him to death and i dont know what to do! HELP im DESPERATE IN NEED FOR ADVISE!!!
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you should really tell him how you feel, because you seem to have a lot for him.
but if you really have a lot for him and he still wants a break you should respect that, and still be there for him.
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If you want to help him the best thing to do is just respect what he wants, just because he says he wants to take a break doesnt mean your are broken up it just means he just needs to focus on school and everything else that is important to him just like you. I mean you have to put your school work first and then relationships nexy its not that they dont love you its just that they neeed to catch up so the best thing i can tell you is respect it
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If you want to help him out, what you need to do is respect his wishes and give him the break he needs. I know that's not what you probably want to hear or anything, but that's what would be the best thing.
Just let him know that you're there for him and if he ever does need anybody to talk to, or to help with anything, he knows you'll be there for him and all he has to do is call. This'll show him how much you care about him and still want to be his girlfriend, but are respecting his wishes, like a great girlfriend should.
He just might want to take this break because he might feel all the time he's spending focusing on his school and sports and family and everything, means less for you, and he might feel bad just having you sit there, and he might feel like right now, he's just not giving you all the attention you deserve. So at least this isn't a breakup, which is an extremely good thing. Just keep minor contact with him ( if he wants to ) and see where it goes from there.
I hope I helped.
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listen,all you can do is give him a break,you've been there enough for him,maybe he needs time alone to think about whatever hes going through,even though you want to be by his side in the battle hes going through within hiself,let him do it on his own,just tell him that if he ever needs a shoulder to cry on,or support to keep him up when hes down,that you'll be there
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