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Boys don't talk to me.
I'm a 15 y.o. freshman girl and boys don't really talk to me. I'm sort of shy and quiet in class, so I may come off as snobby or unapproachable. I'm only shy and quiet because I'm afraid they don't like me. I don't think I'm ugly or anything, so I dunno. Should I talk to them? What are some good conversation starters? How can I be more outgoing?
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For starters, a really great confidence tip that can help you not be so shy is get pumped up before school everyday. Put a catchy tune on as you get dressed or take a shower or ride in the car and sing along with it.
Queit in class is a good thing, but if you know the answe to a question go ahead and speak up. And if someone makes a joke and everyone else is laughing but you, laugh. It's the little things that you do to join in with everybody else (legal things of course) that makes more guys notice you.
But then again, it's all different for everybody. Some guys like the gals who are quiet and unapproachable. Makes them want to approach you. Some guys like a girl who does all the work so they don't have to.
(I personally think those guys are just lazy pigs and that guys are supposed to pursue the girl, but, it's all different for everyone.)
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For starters, a really great confidence tip that can help you not be so shy is get pumped up before school everyday. Put a catchy tune on as you get dressed or take a shower or ride in the car and sing along with it.
Queit in class is a good thing, but if you know the answe to a question go ahead and speak up. And if someone makes a joke and everyone else is laughing but you, laugh. It's the little things that you do to join in with everybody else (legal things of course) that makes more guys notice you.
But then again, it's all different for everybody. Some guys like the gals who are quiet and unapproachable. Makes them want to approach you. Some guys like a girl who does all the work so they don't have to.
(I personally think those guys are just lazy pigs and that guys are supposed to pursue the girl, but, it's all different for everyone.)
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i think you should just go up and talk to them. try to make friends and maybe one or two of them will end up liking you. you cant expect something to happen if you dont take matters into your own hands.
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Just start talking to people. There's no real answer myself or anyone can give you to be more outgoing. All I can say is just find a guy who happens to be interesting, and get to know him. If things don't work out, there's always other guys. It's something you have to get over yourself. Don't worry, getting over shyness is something that is possible with personal effort.
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listen,if your not ugly or snobby then what do you have to worry about? and how do you know they dont like you if u dont talk to them? getover your fear,guys like girls who have confidence, and sweetie! right now you're lacking it! conversation can start over any thing even stupid stuff just say hi!,get 2 know guys, people that are "outgoing" arent afraid of what other people think,they have self confidence,you're being paranoid,dont be affraid to be wild or talkative, JUST BE YOU!
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