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15/f. My best friend (14/f) has a crush on this cute guy. I think I also might have a crush on him, but I haven't told her because I don't want to seem like I'm stealing him or anything, so I've pretty much been ignoring my feelings. Anyway, the bad part is that she goes through guys like oxygen. I'm not kidding. And besides that, it's fairly obvious that he's not interested in her, and he and I share the same interests and sense of humor. Is it bad for me to like him as well, and should I just back off? Or should I tell my best friend and see what happens? I really don't want to mess up my friendship with my best friend over some guy. Thanks. (link)
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wow..i've been through this same exact situation.. if she was really your friend,then she would just want you to be happy,you obliously like him alot,i think you should talk to your friend before making a move, but your not stealing him,he was never hers in the first place,im sure she would understand if she's really your friend,hope i helped!
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ok well im 14/f
and im going through this stupid phase where i think everything i stupid. i hate everything. and i think everybody hates me.
Its not that phase where i think im ugly.or i hate myself...its the one where you cry thinking that everythings stupid.and you don't want to do anything..you act sick soo you don't have to go to school.
its sucks. alot.
i don't no what it is.
i don't no how to help it.
my mom thinks im starting to get annoying cause i bother her a lot..
i can't help it.i don't no what to do.
Also my friend past away this past summer from lukemia.and i CAN'T stop thinking about him.
is it b/c of him.
i have noo idea
PLEASE help me (link)
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yep! its definately the reason,your going through deppression,it will blowover soon,your kinda in a way,letting up a wall, so that you cant get closely connected to someone again for the fear that there gonna leave or something. your trying to block yourself out from everything. what you need is icecream! it always helps!^_^ (jk) Its gonna take a long time to get over it,but to me it seems like your not trying,im sure that your friend would want you to be happy,and enjoy not to mope around,he's not gone,he's still there in your heart,and looking down on you from heaven,hoping that you will move on,and stop crying.. and to realixe that your not alone... hope i helped!:D
p.s. if you ever need someone to talk to,or advice,hit me up with a message!
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I'm 14/f and my boyfriend is 16/m. We got together pretty recently and things have been going great so far. But I've been having a problem dealing with his past. Sometimes I'll come across a picture of him drunk with a bunch of girls and it bothers me, but I know he didn't do anything with them besides maybe hooking up. (For the record, he doesn't drink at all like he used to and won't do it unless I'm there) Yet it still drives me insane to see those pictures on his friends sites. He isn't afraid to call a girl hot,(example being Tila Tequila) but I know he's kidding because when other guys talk about girls being hot or whatever, I'll go "Oh yeah, shes so hot" in a sacastic tone. Hes just doing it back jokingly to make me sound like a lesbian. Just the fact that hes calling another girl hot makes me jealous though. He knows I'd go insane if I ever foundout he was cheating or anything, but I just don't like thinking about that he probably thinks of other girls sometimes. I just don't know how to deal with that fact that all guys checkout every girl they see. Any advice? :/ (link)
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i think you try your hardest to forget about the past,and move on to the future about the drinkingk thing. as for the whole "Hot" thing,i think you should trust him,lol,im sure maybe sometimes you look at a guy and automatically think hes hott,its the same wit guys, only he's just brave enough to admit that other girls are hot,i think you should chill,i mean he did pick YOU didnt he? lol,but to tell you the truth,i would totally call another guy hot in front of HIM to make him jealous!^_^ but i gotta warn you,dont take it too far,hope i helped!
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What do you do when you have a boyfriend who you love and you have been goign out for 5 1/2 months but you statrt to fall for your best friend and your best friend likes you?
I think I'm starting to fall for my best friend who I am always with and I know I flirt with him. He likes me too but the problem is I have a boyfriend. I feel like each of them has one of my arms and they are both tugging away and I can't decide whos hand I want to let go of because I don't want them to fall.
What Should I Do?
~Confused in Love (link)
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i had this same exact problem! ok this is what i did, first get a friend or some1 close, get a sheet of paper,lable negative and positive,then put there names,put each positive and negative thing about each boy beside there name, talk it over with your friend,an whoever has the most positive things,win your love!!:D
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i wanna know how you can tell when a guy is mad at you because my friend isn't even that talkative with me ever since we made out... (link)
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did u say "friend"? whats going on is that he/she feels awkard hes not mad he just feels kinda...wierd,give him some time he'll go back to normal soon
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What do you do when your boyfriend tells you he wants to take a break because he has so much going on with work and homework and school and basketball and with his parents fighting all the time? but he still says he likes me and loves me and wants to be with me forever? I feel like i should respect what he wants but at the same time i feel i should be there for him and help him through it becuase after all thats what girlfriends are fo to help you through hard times and to give you advise and stuff. i love him to death and i dont know what to do! HELP im DESPERATE IN NEED FOR ADVISE!!! (link)
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listen,all you can do is give him a break,you've been there enough for him,maybe he needs time alone to think about whatever hes going through,even though you want to be by his side in the battle hes going through within hiself,let him do it on his own,just tell him that if he ever needs a shoulder to cry on,or support to keep him up when hes down,that you'll be there
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I'm a 15 y.o. freshman girl and boys don't really talk to me. I'm sort of shy and quiet in class, so I may come off as snobby or unapproachable. I'm only shy and quiet because I'm afraid they don't like me. I don't think I'm ugly or anything, so I dunno. Should I talk to them? What are some good conversation starters? How can I be more outgoing? (link)
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listen,if your not ugly or snobby then what do you have to worry about? and how do you know they dont like you if u dont talk to them? getover your fear,guys like girls who have confidence, and sweetie! right now you're lacking it! conversation can start over any thing even stupid stuff just say hi!,get 2 know guys, people that are "outgoing" arent afraid of what other people think,they have self confidence,you're being paranoid,dont be affraid to be wild or talkative, JUST BE YOU!
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