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I have a boyfriend, but I'm falling for my best friend
What do you do when you have a boyfriend who you love and you have been goign out for 5 1/2 months but you statrt to fall for your best friend and your best friend likes you?
I think I'm starting to fall for my best friend who I am always with and I know I flirt with him. He likes me too but the problem is I have a boyfriend. I feel like each of them has one of my arms and they are both tugging away and I can't decide whos hand I want to let go of because I don't want them to fall.
What Should I Do?
~Confused in Love
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I guess it really depends.
Your going out with you boyfriend now but on the other hand, you like your best friend. Well, it really does depend. I mean does your boyfriend treat you as good as your best friend does? If your constantly flirting with another boy thats like kinda being dis-loyal to your boyfriend and why would you wanna do that to him. It like your making him waste HIS time on a girl who is flirting with other boys. && thats not really right..Also, if you let your boyfriend find out on his own that your flirting and stuff with other guys, then its worse then just breaking up with him.
BUT, if you break up with your boyfriend for your bestfriend, what will your bestfriend think? Like if you break up with your boyfriend for another boy, what will that person think because if you broke up with your boyfriend for another guy, then what makes him think you would do it to him..? Also, lets say you go out with your friend (because lets say you dumped your bf) and then you guys break up. it might ruin your friendship.
Theres postative and negative reasons for both.. but if your constantly flirting with your friend and you like him..then i say you probably shouuld go out with your him... it really depends on what you think is right to do...
-hope i helped
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If you have known your best friend for longer and trust him more then i say go for it, its a very difficult descison but you can't have both so you have to choose.
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breaking up is never easy it's like moving away from your friends and changing school. unlike moving away from the life you know, love shares one important similarity life changes and you need to move on or be left behind living in a past that you loved but no longer exists. love is a interesting subject to say the least the only right answer is the one your heart gives you but the important thing is to never second guess yourself. when breaking up from your boyfriend, in your case, someones heart gets broken it's a sad truth but it happens when you open up your heart to someone else in hopes of getting the samething (love) back. things change and people move on it's nothing to be afraid of, the important thing is that your boyfriend hears it from you first and no one else, word travels fast so don't tell anyone not even your best friend, even if that they promise not to tell anyone, the important thing is that he hears it from you and not a little birdy.
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i had this same exact problem! ok this is what i did, first get a friend or some1 close, get a sheet of paper,lable negative and positive,then put there names,put each positive and negative thing about each boy beside there name, talk it over with your friend,an whoever has the most positive things,win your love!!:D
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as crazy as it sounds- pick who you think you could spend the rest of your life with. and dont just look at all their good qualities- look at the bad ones too.i know it sounds dumb- but after all, we date people so that we can find that 'one' person, so why not try and decipher which one seems more like tht 'one'?
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