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is he mad?


Question Posted Thursday November 2 2006, 10:39 pm

i wanna know how you can tell when a guy is mad at you because my friend isn't even that talkative with me ever since we made out...

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MelLeDisko answered Friday November 3 2006, 10:54 pm:
Well, lots of people have different ways of showing their mad or acting whenever they're mad, so I couldn't really tell you exactly if he is or not. Some do give "the silent treatment" others yell, others cry.

It doesn't sound to me like he's mad though. He just might feel awkward, probably like any friendship would after they just made out. After making out with you, he might've developed feelings and he doesn't know how you feel back so he might be shy and quiet. Or he just might be, like I said, thinking it's really awkward to look at you again without thinking that the two of you guys made out awhile ago, and he just doesn't know how to make conversation around that and get past it.

I would just go up to him and ask him why he hasn't been so talkative lately, and is it because of the fact that the two of you guys made out? And if it is, then just talk to him about it and explain to him that you can see why it's sort of awkward between the two of you, but you both should try and make it less because you still want to talk to him and everything, and you hate it how you guys haven't really talked lately.

If it isn't because of that, ask him why he's not talking to you. Is it anything else? And find out why, and resolve it if there is a possible issue.

But like I said, I think he just feels awkward being around you because of the making out situation, and doesn't exactly know what to say to you and conversate about. So try and talk to him about it, get it out of the way, put it in the past.

I hope I helped.

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stephanerd answered Friday November 3 2006, 1:41 am:
Well. I won't go into details, but my bestest friend in the world and I were hanging out one night and some words were said and some stuff happened, and a lot of stuff was talked about that we both wanted to happen, but it didn't, because we didn't want to ruin anything (lol, how's that for vague?)

But anyway, for the next 6 or so days, I acted like your friend. I was sort of awkward and standoffish, and I don't really know why. All day at work, I'd be excited to see him that night, but then he'd get over here, to my house, and I'd be shyer than hell and probably kind of rude. Then I told myself I was being dumb and unfair and I snapped out of it, and now we're closer than ever.

So, what I'm trying to say, is that he probably isn't angry. He's probably just feeling awkward. He'll probably get over it soon. :)

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday November 3 2006, 1:25 am:
well people have different ways of showing they`re mad so i really couldn`t tell.
honestly it doesn`t sound like he might be mad.
sounds likehe might feel a little embarrassed or shy.
if he didn`t want to make out with you he would of stopped right.
so he probably is nervous to talk to you cuz he doesn`t want that brought up.

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krazygirl14 answered Friday November 3 2006, 12:47 am:
did u say "friend"? whats going on is that he/she feels awkard hes not mad he just feels kinda...wierd,give him some time he'll go back to normal soon

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