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there's no getting over this guy
THERE'S NO GETTING OVER THIS GUY - i mean seriously, we broke up 2 years ago, 2 YEARS, and ever since..ive done everything possible, everything you're supposed to do, to get over a person,... burnt his stuff, cried, talked to friends about it, gotten closure, dated other guys, you name it - ive done it! YET, im not over him. I think about him all the time, i still love him and still need him, and still dream about marrying him ten years from now, i havn't let go.. even though ive tried, so hard, for two years, im beginning to think i'll never get over him, i dont know what to do, he's moved on, his screenname is always about a new girl, h flirts like crazy, has fun, and at the same time has deep meaningful relationships, HE'S MOVED ON so howcome i can't? all along i knew i loved him more than he loved me and it meant more to me than it meant to him, so i knew it would take some more time for me.. but he got over me in a matter of days, IT'S BEEN 2 YEARS FOR ME. help me please.
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First, some people...you never get over. Some people will tell you that they have no problem getting over anyone, but that isn't true for everyone at all. I myself still kick myself for letting 2 or 3 women get away in the past, or when I was a typical idiotic man and precipitated a break-up. And let me tell you that I STILL think of those 2-3 women, and I probably always will. They were special, they were really wonderful women - and though my feelings have diminished over time there are still some feelings left. If any of them were to show up on my doorstep I would have some serious feeling to wrestle with.
You need to realise that getting back together with him isn't going to happen, and marrying him is simply out of the question. Its ok to have feelings for someone still, and to have fond memories of someone - you just need to calm down a bit, realise this isn't all that abnormal, shrug, and move on. Eventually you will get over him, at least to the point were it isn't an issue...but I imagine you will always have some level of feelings for him.
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well, it is kinda...no really clear that you still have feelings for him. maybe it was too soon that you two broke up. Try talking to him, and who knows, maybe he feels this way too...and he is just trying to get over you like how you are trying to get over him. If this is your first boyfriend, then it will take time to get over him, but as years past, you will learn to move on and move on with your life.
hope this was helpful,
DaAdvicePerson
P.S this is normal for someone going through their first breakup
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honey, dont panic on us. maybe you should make a list of everything you still like about this guy. If he was your first true love maybe you wont ever get over him. i havent truly stopped crushing on my first true love and it has been five years, dang i didnt realize it has been that long. anyways, maybe hes not really over you. next time hes single, ask him back out. who knows, he might still like you and yall can get married ten years from now. i hope i helped.
luv,
sk8rluvr
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Okay first of all you need to calm down. Just because he got over you doesnt mean you have to be over him. Yes you should get over him but if he was like your first real love then that is hard to get over. One day you are going to find a great guy who will actually love you and then you will realize you love him alot more to!
AdViCe LaDy
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have you talked to him about how you feel .. maybe you need to talk to a counselor at school or something. you need to figure out why he means so much to you .. was her your first? usually girls get really attached to their first
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