Hellojello my fellow advicenators users!!!!! haha.
For starters, here on this site, i am known as "DaAdvicePerson"... what a faboulous name...not!!! haha i just didnt know what else to put when i signed up.
ANYWAY... my absoultely real name is kristy, so u can call me that if you want. :)
I live in Hawaii on the island of Kauai. its pretty cool here and i enjoy it alot. but thanks to global warming... the heat is intense (to me... on average it is like 80 degrees F) haha.
A litle bit about me... i am 13 years old, and am very outgoing. i love the mall, the beach, and my friends!!!!
well contact me if you wanna no more...
-->kauai_gurl-kristy@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Hawaii
Age: 13
MSN: kauai_gurl-kristy@hotmail.com
Member Since: October 24, 2006
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are you still a virgin if you just finger a girl or eat out or sumthing like that?
what things do you have to do to have sex
and does fingering and eating out and being given a blowjob count as sex? (link)
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according to a sex class i recently attended, a virgin is someone who NEVER had any contact in that area.
but now days, the word "virgin" has been altered to be when a penis enters a womans vagina.
so technically speaking, you are no longer a virgin. well it all depends how you see it.
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dont hate me for asking this, but if a girl were having sex with a guy, and it was really physical, and she sucked his penis, what would it taste like? (link)
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it doesnt really taste like anything at all.
but if you were using a condem and stuff before the sucking, then of course it is going to taste like latex, which really tastes nasty.
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I simply cannot trust my boyfriend. and now this friday i will not be in town and god only knows what he is going to do. he has a crush on his best girl friend and he says he doesnt. he has cheated on me already and lies. but i havent broken up with him. we have been together a year and we decided that we are going to start over and now the next couple of weeks i am not going to see him every second of everyday because i have other things i have to do. and i am afraid. afraid of being hurt my this man that i am in love with. he is going to hang out with his best girl friend without me, everyday. i dont know what to do. how do i get past this and not care so much about what he does? I JUST DO NOT WANT TO CARE ANYMORE, I DO NOT WANT TO CRY EVERYDAY BECAUSE I KNOW HE HAS OTHER THOUGHTS THAN ME. HOW DO I JUST LET WHATEVER HAPPENS HAPPENS AND BE HAPPY IN THE MEAN TIME? in conclusion, how can i stop caring about someone i love? (link)
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Wow seems as if this guy does not feel the same way about you than you do to him. I know that you want to still be with him, and still have feelings for him, but i think that it is best if you guys just move on with life...break up.
I hate to say that but, it is true, your relationship with him is not going anywhere, and i dont want you suffering the way you do anymore. its just to sad.
Like my mama always says... there are many fishes in the ocean, just got to catch the right one. till then, have fun with life.
hope that i have helped!!!
much hearts... and luck,
DaAdvicePerson :)
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I always have this one dream when something very important is going to happen to me. Whenever it happens it means something will happen, A death, A relationship, Anything life changing.It scares me because I know something is gonna happen and theres nothing I can do about it. Im in my moms old truck and its completely empty, its rolling toward the ocean, I look out the window and i see myself with the girl I love, usually it is flashbacks of my life, Im laying there with the girl i love and i wave to myself, the truck hits the ocean water and i drowned, then i wake up. Every time i have this dream i understand it more, it hasnt seemed like it was gonna end till now. I dont know what that means, am i gonna die or will i help myself from the sinking truck? (link)
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OMG!!! that is really frightening. I get those dreams sometimes too...to be honest. and they usually do happen, and I do get scared.
I know exactly how you feel, and i know that there is nothing you can do about it, but the best thing that i do that helps me is by telling my parents that , or someone i can trust.
It is really important to tell someone because if you dont, then you never know what could happen to you. they might get help for you or something.
well i hope i helped in some small way. :)
Best wishes.
DaAdvicePerson
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theres this really hott guy at school. I really like him, not just for his hottness but for his personality. hes really shy and so am i. what should i say? i cant just go up to him and talk to him. i always chicken out.
Aksjfij! i cant talk to himmm!
and i really need to!
what do i say?
HOW? (link)
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wow i know how you feel (especially when it comes to HOT guys :] )
First of all, just smile at him as he passes you in the hallway, or just say hi when he is at his locker.
Then after you feel comfortable with this, start a small conversation with him like "oh, did you finish your math homework?" or "What did you think of the foot ball game last night?" ~ Im sure that he'll be happy to answer.
Then be like " Do you have an MSN or myspace, maybe i could add you some time?"
You and him can start talking online, and become friends. Then before you know it, you will be hanging out at the mall, at games, etc...
Then one day, when you two are alone, you can be the brave one and ask him if he wants to go out with you...sure this is kinda hard, but if you dont ask, you will never know how he really feels about you
I hope this made sense to you, and if it didnt, then oh well. hope that i had somewhat helped you. once again, i know how you feel, and this is how i would solve it.
good luck & much love.
DaAdvicePerson
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what is a "hot" thing I could wear that would get guy's attention, without being too over the top? (link)
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Well..for starters, you could just be yourself and wear what you usually wear. becuase if you start being someone else, that guy would expect you to be that person.
Just approch him and tell him how you feel, you never know if he actually likes you.
hope i have helped.
much hearts.
DaAdvicePerson...aka kristy
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I am 13/F and I want to redecorate my room for high school. I dont have a high budget so I was wonderring if anyone had ideas of things I could MAKE for my room that would look cool. I love polka dots and the colors lime green/blue if that helps. Thank You (link)
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If you don't already know how to sew, take a few lesons. You then could sew your own curtians, bed sheets, etc... (it costs less if you sew it yourself)
You then could get some pictures that you like and make a collage and hang it up in your room as a poster.
If you do not mind, go to a thrift shop or a garage sale for a new desk or bookshelf. you can paint it how ever you like (lime green with blue polka dots)
Or...you could take all of the stuff you do not need and create a garage sale...you should earn some hundreds.
well, hope i helped.and good luck!!!
much hearts.
DaAdvicePerson...aka kristy
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Hey, im nicole, 15 years old. I really need help with this project, well not really help but some more opinions. If some of ya`ll could read this and tell me what you think this poem is about, that would be great! Like just tel me what you think the poem is trying to say, etc. Thanks soo much!
Love's Philosophy
by Percy Bysshe Shelley
The fountains mingle with the river,
And the rivers with the ocean;
The winds of heaven mix forever,
With a sweet emotion;
Nothing in the world is single;
All things by a law divine
In one another's being mingle;--
Why not I with thine?
See! the mountains kiss high heaven,
And the waves clasp one another;
No sister flower would be forgiven,
If it disdained it's brother;
And the sunlight clasps the earth,
And the moonbeams kiss the sea;--
What are all these kissings worth,
If thou kiss not me?
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I am not too sure on what this poem means, but i do have an idea.
It is talking about how two things just naturally come together and unite as one. it is talking about love and how it just connects.
hope this makes sense to you. and hope i have helped!
much hearts
DaAdvicePerson...aka kristy
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I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess. (link)
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I would NOT suggest you commit suicide!!! Maybe this is what you want, to make your life easier, but think about others...people who love you.
The way I would solve this problem is by talking to the MOST trusted person you know, and just talk about all of your problems, and you never know... they might help you. If this is not possible, see a doctor, your doctor. He might give you some pescriptions that might make you feel better.
There are more to life than just the negatives, think about all of the fun times, and think about all of the compliments people gave you...whether it was from a teacher, a friend, a family relative, or a stranger out of the blue.
Cry it out if you have to.
Hope i helped, and please do not kill yourself, there are people out there who just could not live without you. Sorry for this lengthly paragraph.
Much hearts,
DaAdvicePerson
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i have a guy that i'm with and i want to spice things up a bit, but i don;t want to get tooo sexual and freak him out. i just want alittle something to make it more interesting, i'm confident about my body but i don't think slutty clothes are the way to go, any help? (link)
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Just ask him how he would feel if you two would "spice it up a notch". You should always respect his feelings and come to a compromise. Do not try to spice things up too much becuase he might not be as ready as you are.
Hope I helped,
DaAdvicePerson
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If u add a guy you dont know on msn, does that make you look desperate cuz he didnt add you first? He added my best friend...i dont know why he didnt add me...maybe hes shy? (link)
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You should first check with your friend and see if you would enjoy chatting with him. And what he is like. Then if (and only if) he sounds fun to chat with, then you should add him. Remember...The more friends the better!!!
Much hearts,
DaAdvicePerson
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Ok so there is this boy i REALLY like. Hes cute and funny and very flirty. Well hes in like ALL of my classes and talks/flirts with me alot. He had a GF and he would never talk to her or anything. I always assumed he had her because he just didnt want to be alone. Well anyway, she broke up with him and immediatly got a new bf (in the same day!). Well i wasent at school that day and i think he really wanted to not look like a dork cuz everyone was making such a big deal about it. so the next day i came to school, pretty sick but not enough to stay home, and i found out he had a new GF. Worst of all shes not in ANY of his classes and she just moved here so i have no idea how he knows her! I keep goin back in my head thinking why couldnt i just have gone to school but then i keep thinking, couldnt he have waited ONE day?
well my question is this,
Should i just wait? Should i tell him i like him? or should i just forget about him because if he liked me he woulda waited? i am kinda hurt
Thx in advance (link)
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You should not wait, beacause if you wait, you will never know what he might say or feel.
Maybe he is just making you jelous so that you will make the first move because he is to shy to ask you. I believe if you love someone with all of your heart, you should not be afraid to show it.
Sorry to reply so late.
hope i helped.
DaAdvicePerson
ps if there is anything else i could do, please tell me.
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i hate asking questions like this because they take forever to explain, but here it goes.
(CAUTION: TIS LONG. VERY LONG.)
so this boy i`ve liked for almost 2 years started talking to me again. we tried hooking up several times, but it never worked out; he always had a girl friend, and i didn`t want him to cheat on her; especially me. The problem now is that i have a boyfriend, and i wouldn`t dream of screwing him over. Over the summer, we got into a little trouble, so he (my bf) decided to take a break until things calmed down a bit and my mom and i got along again. So a few weeks ago, i was talking to his friend and he was saying how awesome all their weekends are. They party LITERALLY EVERY WEEKEND, and what worries me is the girls that might be with them. He told me that my bf got wasted and slept with another girl. Now, technically, it`s not cheating because we are taking a break, but it got me a teeny bit upset. I made a deal with him saying that if i sleep with another guy, he can sleep with another girl because we can`t see each other for a loooong time. He beat me to it. So back to the boy i`ve liked for almost two years. I told him about it and he was like, "Sweetie, you don`t deserve an asshole like that. You need someone who you can take care of you, love you, spoil you, and be there for you. You don`t need some guy that gets high and drunk everyday." He was hinting off that he wanted to be the guy like that. "I would never cheat on you, i would never do anything like that. I love you too much to do that to you." We were "in love" before, and we still have feeling for each other. He is so sweet to me, and just soo adorable. My bf is too hardcore for anything sweet like that. He`s romantic, but a tough guy. The place where i`m caught up is i don`t know who i should be with. The boy i`ve liked forever is basically a man whore. He`s had soooo many girlfriends but so has my bf. BUT, my bf has only cheated on a girl once. The other boy had done it maaaany times. He even lied to me about having a gf so we could hook up. That sounds bad because he thought he would have gotten rid of her by the end of the week, but it did't happen. He apologizex for everything and he was sincere. I just don`t know what i should do.
1. I can't see my bf unless he comes to my house; which he won't.
2. I can see the other boy because he lives 2 minutes away.
3. My bf doesnt cheat (unless hes drunk)
4. The other boy does.
5. My bf isnt as sweet and romantic
6. The other boy is.
there's so much more, but yeahh. What should i do? I even cry at night because i`m soo caught up in it. Thanksss. SORRY ITS SOO LONGG. (link)
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who do you love more?
who do you want to spend the rest of your life with?
who loves you for you?
if the answer for this question is the same guy, then he is right for you.
also, u can take this advice:
maybe both of them are not right for you, and that special guy out there is waiting for you.
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15/F
I don't have really bad acne or anything but its at the point wear my normal cleaser isn't doing anything and my acne is just getting worse. I use right now the neutrogena Clear pore cleanser/mask and then the on-the-spot acne stuff but it hasn't been helping at all i have been using for a long time too. I want to try pro-active, do u think it will help? Is there something else thats better?? o and i also have this really anyoing problem, like i will wash my face in the moring and by lunch time its all oily and gross and help with that? thanks a bunch!!
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Pro-Activ really works and you should try it. I use Pro-Activ, my cousin uses Pro-Activ, my friends use Pro-Activ and it works for all of them (including me)!
Another thing that kind of worked for me (but not as well) is AcneFree or something like that. It works and it is alot cheaper.
Good luck and best wishes,
DaAdvicePerson
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I have to resent a package out because I got it back and it was refused. Well I found another address for it that finally works. Its birthday stuff because this persons birthday was in August. I am having issues thaat dela with the person I am sending the packge to. I want to hold off because I ma sending an xmas present to this person in December. I dont know if I should combing the both so I dont have to make two trips. But what do you think I shoud do? Should I hold off on the birthday thing til I sent out the xmas present or should I just send out the b-day thing right a3way to get it out of the way? Thanks. I just dont know what to do. (link)
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the sooner the better. the later the package gets to her, the more she will feel that you forgot. just attach a note explaining why it was so late and that you did not forget. and as for the x-mas thing, send her one present too, that way she will feel turly appreciated and loved.
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well me and this boy were getting pretty close and i let him kiss me like with tongue. And so one of his friends told him i have a boyfriend and i dont but he wont tlk to me wat do i do (link)
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if he does not believe you, you two are not meant for each other. if he really loves you and does not want to talk to you, that means that he does not trust you the way you might trust him. his friend was just jelous that he has a girlfriend like you and he does not. you should talk to his friend and ask why he did this to you. and if he does not give you a nice excuse, tell him SWEETLY to tell him (your boyfriend) that he just did it becuase out of jelousy or whatever the reason may be.
much hearts
DaAdvicePerson
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I'm concerned about a couple of friends I have...I was wondering what age is appropriate to have sex...12?...14?...16?...18?...older?...they say they love the guy but come on...what's too young? (link)
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Well it all depends if they (in meaning the girl and the guy) both have a strong connection with each other and they are both confortable with each other and wont break up with one another. What i mean is that they must be ready and comited to be having a baby.
MY cousin had sex with her boyfriend (and i am keeping it a secret and allowing her to confront her fears in telling her mom herself) and she is 12. She says she was ready, but the question is, is she really??? Can they really pull this off ON THEIR OWN??? and do they have the time to spend with the baby???? school is important and i feel they should not do it until they are out of shool...and i mean out of college too.
much hearts
DaAdvicePerson
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My iPod isnt working anymore. It wont play songs, it just says the song for like 3 seconds then keeps going threw all of them till its over but plays no music. I dont know what to do i cant turn it off and i read threw the book that came with it to see what i could do but it told me nothing. I let it die and then charged it again because that has worked previous times but this time didnt. I cant tell my mom or she'll flipp so what can i do if anyhting?
by the way its a regular iPod one of the originals. (link)
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if nothing works, try telling someone its the best thing to do. This happened to mines and what i did was told my dad and he fixed it. So she could fix it, of just go to the apple website and see if anything there will help
much hearts...
DaAdvicePerson
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What is the best diet to be on? (link)
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DIET, DIET, DIET is all i ever hear of now days (no offence or anything)
I read this up on the internet, and it said exactly this:
Diets NEVER EVER EVER work. They just make you feel more cautious about your image. Just be yourself and who cares about what other people say or look, you are you and you should be happy with just that.
Sorry if this sounded offensive to you or anything, it just that i do not want to see another person going on a diet.
Luvs,
DaAdvicePerson
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(Fourteen; Female)
I've been dealing with mild acne since age 11. I get blackheads on my nose and small pimples (not whiteheads, just bumps) all over my forhead and chin.
With the level of stress rising in school, I now get more and more pimples spreading to my cheeks, temples, neck, chest, arms, and back. Just a few here and there, but rapidly increasing.
Also, cystic pimples are popping up alot.
I've tried everything from Clean&Clear to AcneFree. ProActive is not choice right now due to money. A dermatolgist cannot happen either.
Does anyone have any sort of mirical worker? (link)
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OMG!!!! i had this problem too. but i started to experiment with myself... and to tell you to truth, THIS WAS EITHER PRICELESS OR SAVED ME MONEY!!!!
*i started to become extra smart, and started to cut down on the sweets like chocolate and sodas (this work REAL well)
*i got out and exercized ALOT and went to the mall to... just to window shop. i also joined clubs like soccer and cheer.(this really helped from what i could see)
*i cleaned my bed sheets and all the stuffs i would put my face on every week or so (this got all of the dust and dirt off so it would not clog the pores and zits)
I still continue these activites daily, and my face is CLEAR! it seems as if it was never there.
I truly hope this helped,
DaAdvicePerson
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