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I don`t know who I should stick with.
i hate asking questions like this because they take forever to explain, but here it goes.
(CAUTION: TIS LONG. VERY LONG.)
so this boy i`ve liked for almost 2 years started talking to me again. we tried hooking up several times, but it never worked out; he always had a girl friend, and i didn`t want him to cheat on her; especially me. The problem now is that i have a boyfriend, and i wouldn`t dream of screwing him over. Over the summer, we got into a little trouble, so he (my bf) decided to take a break until things calmed down a bit and my mom and i got along again. So a few weeks ago, i was talking to his friend and he was saying how awesome all their weekends are. They party LITERALLY EVERY WEEKEND, and what worries me is the girls that might be with them. He told me that my bf got wasted and slept with another girl. Now, technically, it`s not cheating because we are taking a break, but it got me a teeny bit upset. I made a deal with him saying that if i sleep with another guy, he can sleep with another girl because we can`t see each other for a loooong time. He beat me to it. So back to the boy i`ve liked for almost two years. I told him about it and he was like, "Sweetie, you don`t deserve an asshole like that. You need someone who you can take care of you, love you, spoil you, and be there for you. You don`t need some guy that gets high and drunk everyday." He was hinting off that he wanted to be the guy like that. "I would never cheat on you, i would never do anything like that. I love you too much to do that to you." We were "in love" before, and we still have feeling for each other. He is so sweet to me, and just soo adorable. My bf is too hardcore for anything sweet like that. He`s romantic, but a tough guy. The place where i`m caught up is i don`t know who i should be with. The boy i`ve liked forever is basically a man whore. He`s had soooo many girlfriends but so has my bf. BUT, my bf has only cheated on a girl once. The other boy had done it maaaany times. He even lied to me about having a gf so we could hook up. That sounds bad because he thought he would have gotten rid of her by the end of the week, but it did't happen. He apologizex for everything and he was sincere. I just don`t know what i should do.
1. I can't see my bf unless he comes to my house; which he won't.
2. I can see the other boy because he lives 2 minutes away.
3. My bf doesnt cheat (unless hes drunk)
4. The other boy does.
5. My bf isnt as sweet and romantic
6. The other boy is.
there's so much more, but yeahh. What should i do? I even cry at night because i`m soo caught up in it. Thanksss. SORRY ITS SOO LONGG.
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who do you love more?
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