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im shy and so is he.
theres this really hott guy at school. I really like him, not just for his hottness but for his personality. hes really shy and so am i. what should i say? i cant just go up to him and talk to him. i always chicken out.
Aksjfij! i cant talk to himmm!
and i really need to!
what do i say?
HOW?
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wow i know how you feel (especially when it comes to HOT guys :] )
First of all, just smile at him as he passes you in the hallway, or just say hi when he is at his locker.
Then after you feel comfortable with this, start a small conversation with him like "oh, did you finish your math homework?" or "What did you think of the foot ball game last night?" ~ Im sure that he'll be happy to answer.
Then be like " Do you have an MSN or myspace, maybe i could add you some time?"
You and him can start talking online, and become friends. Then before you know it, you will be hanging out at the mall, at games, etc...
Then one day, when you two are alone, you can be the brave one and ask him if he wants to go out with you...sure this is kinda hard, but if you dont ask, you will never know how he really feels about you
I hope this made sense to you, and if it didnt, then oh well. hope that i had somewhat helped you. once again, i know how you feel, and this is how i would solve it.
good luck & much love.
DaAdvicePerson <3
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well cant tell you what exactly to say because i dont know you like that;basically your just going to have to try and open up to him be yourself! just flirt with him...let him know your interested
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I understand what your going through. I was the most shiest person ever!!! and now i'm all new me :) and you know if you really like him and want to talk to him but you can't becuase you chicken out. what if you maybe talk to him online? aim or msn or yahoo.
Whichever you both have and you can talk to him on their. i thinks its eaiser but somethings its better to talk to him in person. but if your that shy i say go for that, because thats what i did first and than after i got used to them talking on line i talk to them alot in hallways or classroom.
and maybe text him if you have his number or can get it from a friend you know that knows him you know.
and ask his friends for his screename as well. so i think those are easy for now. and maybe if you see him in the hallways or other places just say "Hi" to him simple as that. and take a deep breath in and out when you are shy or nervous around him. and than be like "what's up? hows it going?" and than start talking and get converstation going. You'll do just fine.
remember if your afraid to talk to him in person online is always good for a start and when you feel like your not shy anymore around him than in person or on the phone is good enough :)
hope i helped let me know :) GOOD LUCK!!!!! :)
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Just start off small. Take small steps. What you have to do...if he is in any of your classes...jsut ask him a question on your work and ask if you could borrow a pencil. And then if you see him later in the day..go up to him and say sorry i forgot to give you your pencil back, here you go..and then it could jsut start off a conversation. Just be confident in yourself even though it is hard to do. Just be positive and go for it. It is hard to do because you are so shy but once you do it, you will be happy you put yourself out there. Good Luck!
~sealgirl~
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