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I'm a chill girl who really just likes to have fun; I get a thrill out of steering people in the right direction. I have a pretty good head on my shoulders, I could change a few wrong things that I do [heyy, what can i say i like to have fun]I am all about being myself.. straight up I'm the realist person. I'm not fake. ..fake people are my pet peeve.... I have a blog about my daily life..celebs and photography etc the link is : www.lovely-soe.blogspot.com ... I want to help teenagers who are younger then me to not make mistakes that can be avoided. thanks for reading :)
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15/f
I'm going out with this guy. I can't say I love him. I don't. I like him but I can't say its love. My boyfriend told me he loves me. He really acts like it but I can't bring myself to believe it. He's 16 and I don't know if I can even bring myself to believe someone can love someone if they're like 15 and 16? I mean one of my friends always says she's in love and all stuff like that. You can tell its not true. I told him I don't believe him. I'm pretty honest with him and all. He really insists that he does. He really cares about me, I know that. Just how do I handle it? He told me and I act awkward about it..
why would it be hard to love at 15 and 16? loving is really just another way to say you care about that person so much and you enjoy there company..there personality..etc
we're born being able to love..so i'm pretty sure a 15 year old can love there boyfriend...true many young teens say they love there spouse after like a week of dating ..(thats just not realistic) I cant tell YOU how to cope with your own emotions..you need to just let go and believe that it's wayy possible to love at that age...and kind of weird that you dont feel the same way & you're still with him.
im 15 years old and in the 9th grade ive been best friend with this girl named rebecca, we've been best friends since 6th grade and we were pretty much inseperable! we hung out every chance we could, she's slowly starting to change though and now its like she doesnt even want to hangout with me anymore. everytime i ask her to hang out with me shes always like ''i cant im grounded'' or ''my moms being gay and wont let me do anything'' and then like 20 minutes later on myspace she'll post her status as hanging out with so and so! when she just told me she was grounded. why would she lie to me? i mean i understand shes going to have other friends but that doesnt mean she has to get rid of all of her old ones.i'd rather her tell me the truth then lie to me, if she doesnt want to hangout with me i'd rather her just tell me instead of her just making some lame excuse! i mean why would she tell me shes grounded and then post that on myspace when not only is she my friend on there but i was online too! im her only true friend and she treats me like dirt, she doesnt even talk to me at school she just walks past me and looks at me. she took me off her top and everytime i try taking to her shes really short with me expecially when shes with her other friends. i even bought her something for christmas i messaged her on myspace saying that i got her a gift and that if she wanted me to i would bring it by after my mom gets off. all she replied back with is i have a friend over and then she signed off! i still havent been able to give her gift, because she still has no time for me. i want to confront her about it but i have no idea what to say i dont want her to hate me because she is my best friend i just dont know what to do. i actually care about our friendship and is willing to do anything i can to fix it so any advice will help!
omgg i wish i could talk to you on aim or something about this to tell you how people are when you get in highschool in DEPTH but we'll settle for this :) .
i'm a junior now so I've pretty much seen everything in highschool.. something happens in the transitioning period from 8th grade to 9th grade... people start being what i like to call FAKE...(which is what your little friend is)... some of the people who want to fit in act like they dont know you anymore...like they will just walk by you like they never used to know you in middle school. it's saddening and funny all at the same time.
some peoples personalities began to change too..some dont..I saw this stuff all the time as a 9th grader and even a 10th grader..it's really annoying ... but it's life. people change..people act fake..and the best thing for you to do is to DROP the fakes and find FOREVER FRIENDS.
i know i have a forever friend in a friend of mine named dianna...we've been friends since 7th grade and we're still the same with each other.
you're "friend" is ridiculous and she has absolutely NO respect for you..she doesnt care about you (in my opinion) im sorry to be so blunt but i just dont think she does because she tells you she cant hang out..then WRITES ABOUT HER HANGING OUT WITH OTHER PEOPLE ON THE MOST NOT-PRIVATE PLACE ON THE WORLD----THE INTERNET--MYSPACE..WHERE SHE KNOWS SHE HAS YOU AS A FRIEND. and she moved you off her top (meaning you're not her top friend at all anymore)..when someone walks by you in the hall and doesnt speak to you..(AND theyre supposed to be you're friend.) then you know you need to just move on and find new friends
**SORRY TO WRITE SO MUCH BUT THIS IS ALWAYS A HOT TOPIC FOR ME***
You need to keep the christmas present you got her....STOP contacting her trying to hang out with her..take her off your top and confront her. tell her how she has completely changed ..tell her everything you just typed here..be HONEST or youll regret it ..even in senior year you'll regret not telling her how you felt.... cut the bitch off lol..stopppp contactinggg herr and making yourself look stupid bc you're obviously a really nice girl who doesnt deserve such a bad "friend"
if you need any other highschool advice you can add me on myspacee myspace.com/grow_upp
when people treat you a certain way...you need to stop talking to them, drop them.
btw i think im gonna start a site about highschool stuff ecspecially for the little freshmen.
goodluck girl i hope you find out what youre gonna do :D
So i'm 16 and i've been with this guy for six months and we've done the 3rd base thing. Like he fingers me and i've given him a hand job. So like i of course always make him finish but he's never made me orgasm. Like i've been closish....i think....but i always feel like i'm gonna pee, i've been able to orgasm on my own and it doesnt feel like that and i dont know why he cant make me, even though he does he same thing i do, clit stimulation. The other day he was really working hard and it always feels really good, its not that it doesn't but idk i can't finish. Maybe i'm afraid to infront of him? but i dont think so cause i really want to, i even direct him sometimes. Well anyway yeah he was working real hard and i knew he was getting tired so i faked it.....but i feel so bad about it...i know a lot of girls do it but i feel so dishonest i've never lied to him. He told me once he'd never want me to fake it and that he'd get mad at me if i did cause he wants to please me....so i'm kinda scared to tell him that i did...he thinks he's made me finish twice but he's never been able to, i dont even remember faking it in the past......i dont know what i should do or why i cant orgasm
Many women (probably more then you think) cannot achieve an orgasm through vaginal penetration...
or even if the guys stimulationing the clit.
my boyfriend know's i never orgasm with him but i'm thinking it's nearly impossible because i can only orgasm when i stimulate my clit..(the same with MANY other women) the most you can do is be honest with him..tell him about how a lot of women just cant get an orgasm in bed..also mention the fact that what he's doing does feel really good...
then again i wouldnt tell him i faked it or anything...faking it is stupid.. you need to just be honest with your spouse and if he cant except it then thats his problem , not yours.
I've been in an exclusive relationship with this guy for three months. He's perfect and amazing and our relationship is great. In addition to the emotional aspect of our relationship (we connect really well), we are extremely attracted to one another... so we usually end our dates with an intense makeout session accompanied by other stuff at his house for hours at a time. He's focused on pleasuring me and asks for nothing in return. He only does what I'm comfortable with. Thus far he's fingered me and felt me up, both through my clothes, in addition to some other stuff not as sexual. I am saving myself for marriage and he knows and is fine with this but I'm just afriad we're moving too fast, that we'll do everything there is to do outside of sex before the relationship is close to ending-- we're both very happy and have already made long-term plans that stretch into next fall.
I do enjoy what he's doing and it feels so good that its honestly hard to say no, and he makes me feel so comfortable... should we slow it down? I'm 16, he's 18. Thanks :]
wow i'm 16(i'll be 17 in 2 months) and my boyfriends 18 !...we've been together for almost 3 years and we lost are virginity to each other 2 years into the relationship... us fooling around was spread out..not all bunched up into 3 months..so stop while you're at it...bc tht shits gonna get boring after a while..and sex is harder to resist then you probably think. it's only been 3 months girl...just take it slower and talk to him..tell him you dont want to be so sexual all the time...its a recipe for disaster to me..but hey making outs fine...
another thing--- make sure you dont doubt your relationship..you two need to feel like you could be with eachother far into the future..bc if you dont then whats the point of dating the person..you get me?
goodluck!
I'm 16/f. My boyfriend is 17.
God, I love him a whole lot. We just started dating, but we've been friends for so long that it's just like what was supposed to happen.
Except...
He lives an hour away from me.
I'm trying to be realistic here, because I'm only sixteen years old, so how does anyone expect a sixteen year old to even WANT to make a long distance relationship work.
It's just that, all the guys at my school are total jerks. And he's tired of all the girls at his school because they're kind of sluts. And we just have liked each other for so long.
It would've been easier if he still lived here, but he moved about a year ago.
I don't know what to do, if I should bother having this relationship or just stay friends. It's hard to make that decision because he's just so sweet to me, looking out for me. And it's so nice to actually have a guy care about you for a change.
Has anybody ever tried a long distance relationship before? Worth it or not?
An hour is not that bad...
i see if there was a state difference..that would suck. but anyway, eventually one of you will get a license and maybe a car...then heyy you guys can drive to each other every other week!
but on the other hand... you guys have been friends for a long time..cool , but it's completely different from being his girlfriend for a long time. you two just started dating you say....then you speak on how girls at his school are sluts and guys at your school are jerks..that shouldnt be a reason to stay with him...really, i hope you guys arent making that a reason. personally i'd try it for a while and if it's not working out i'd tell him its not working out ..take a break.. find new fish in the sea.
Ok, so I'm a freshman.. And the guy I really like Is a senior. He likes me to. It's just hard to get him to be 'mine' because of the age distance... And he has never had sex so he is not just using me or anything.. And I really trust him but.. How can I get him to be mine?? Were in the I like you you like me stage and we have been for like 2 months... Just any advice would be good!
you should just wait and see what happens...if you guys are meant to be then you WILL be.
sometimes It may seem like you have to hurry and try to date the person before it's too late but like i said; if it's meant to happen then it will happen.
about the freshmen-senior thing.. if I were you i'd wait on that also because I'm a junior and the things I thought during freshmen year have changed..my maturity level has changed.. I have a better view of who I am...and an order for a relationship to work you HAVE to know who you are as a person. most seniors are on completely different paths then freshmen...going off to college..moving out..partying...there are things 18 yr olds can do that 14 year olds cant
in my opinion the age difference is too great in terms of teenagers because 14 year olds are on completely different levels then a 16,17,18 year old.
goodluck :)
so i've been talking to this guy Z and i know that he used to be a really big player. and i brought it up to him. he said that he used to be but he hasnt had a hook up sence march. he said that i deserve better and that he would just be screwing himself over if he were to do that because hed still want to be friends. he said taht lately hes been focusing on school and sports. since he plays 4 ha. but as i was talking to him he was talking to a girl i know A about how they used to be so good together. idk what to do because he seems like a really cool guy. shouldi hang out with him to get to know him? i want to but i dont want to get screwed over... i need advice.
Once a player always a player.
I wouldnt waste my time :)
Bc thats not long enough to not play someone
i can't stop thinking about my x but he hrut me and other girl and now he got a wifey and i don't know how to get over it cause the girl he go out with is a girl that hate me and i hate her
Heyy :)
Ppl, the boy probably not really married, do you mean married or just locked in? .... Anyway;in order to get over this guy you need to keep yourself busy. Talk to other guys, hang out wih friends and stop talking about him. You should just do anythingto keep your mind off of him such as making a website or anything! Lmfao. Just until you do not think about him in that way, there are way better guys out there believe that
-miya
I've been going to my local video shop for years now, and this incredibly attractive guy just started working there. I didn't think much of him until a few friends pointed out (on different occasions) that he was checking me out. Whenever I'm at the counter he flirts with me, but I am the most socially retarded person ever and I can't flirt.
I Googled him the other day and found his MySpace page, and read his bio and his interests and such, and we share so many things in common it's absurd. I also found out his age. He's 20. I am 15. I'm in my second last year of high school. He's a second-year university student.
My question is this: Would it be acceptable if I made a move?
NOTE: I'm from Queensland, Australia & in our education system I will graduate two days after I turn 17. This isn't weird, I haven't been skipped up a grade, I just happen to be born at the end of the school year.
Hey! :)
Dont add him on myspace because that would be like... A little weird maybe?.... Anyway . I think you should make a move, people would say dont make a move but hey if its close to llegal and you find hes checking you out anddd he doesnt act to much older than you then make a move... Ask him for his number,or name or anything. If you want to make an even bigger move give him a small note of some sort with your name and number tellinghim youre interested. But DO NOT make the note long and lovey dovey teeny bopper like :)
Goodluck girl!
-Miya
Hi! 13 1/2 Female
Well, this guy and I have been threw a lot together. We dated than,
(he liked me and my friend..:/) we broke up..he went out with my friend..she broke his heart. (I told him it would happen, and he felt sorry for not believing me)well..after a week or so..he got over my friend I was happy for him.He asked me to the movies(as friends I think..idk)we went together is was great. I wore a skirt and he stared at my legs..haha.. he was such a gentle men!! He shared his candy with me, he wore cologne..and he was just as nervous as me I think because he kept wiping his hands on his jeans. We became closer..and he put me in his 6th on his top on My space. For some reason we stopped talking for awhile.Than all of a sudden he tells me he has finally gotten a date with Reagon Reynolds..a girl in a grade younger than us. Well..I told him that's great even though..I was hurt. He put her as his first.and me as 5th.so that whole time..I liked him and he liked her so I thought..and I couldn't help it anymore..I had to tell him how I felt and he said. " I like you to so don't be mad". Soo..I was so happy..than today I asked him if he really liked me and he hasn't replied..he told me he was camping..so he's busy. I'm really confused.. I really don't want to go threw everything all over again.. I don't want him to like us both. Do you think he likes me or her..or what should I do I'm so confused!
Please help!!
Hey :)
Being a little older then you at 16
I know that going back and forth with a guy so young is just pointless. If he can go out with you then right after go out with your friend thats pretty imature And just messes up. Its hard to move on but think.... If he really liked you as much as he claimed then he would be trying to get with you.. Not a totally different girl. Anddd he would have answered you straight up instead of saying hes busy. Thats a diss to me , i would have taken offence to that you know? Move on. There are much hotter guys in highschool :)
13/m
so as i said in the title what are some creative and fun things to do on dates with my girlfriend, and sometimes a few other people that come with us?
btw i only get about 15 dollars a week(aus)
also what are the like... dos and donts of dating? like what i should and shouldn't do
thanks
i like picnics. theyre cheap and romantic and others can go along with you
My boyfriend and I have an age differences, I really didn't worry about it because I didn't think it was that big until my brother said something.
I was born:
March 20th 1994
He was born:
Oct 31st 1992
no its not to far apart, me and my bf have been together for 2 years and he'll be 18 in september and i just turned 16 in march... there is nothing wrong with the age difference :)
14/f
i am FREAKING out like i have never freaked out before. about 2 days ago, i noticed a lump on my head. it looked very much like a masquito bite but i knew it wasnt, i just thought it was probly just a big pimple.. so i put alcohol on my face like i always do to treat my pimples. and i tried to squeese the puss out of it.. a little little tiny bit of puss came out but mostly just the clear liquid stuff that sometimes comes out of pimples.. so, i just kept squeezing it to drain all that stuff out to hopefully make it smaller. well, it worked but now it looks like a huge cut on my head..
the next day, i noticed another masquito bite looking thing on my chin! i started flipping out because i am starting school in FOUR days. ! worst of all, we take pictures on the first day of school!! =( so i told my mom and told her that the thing on my head started out the same way the thing on my chin is starting. she looked at it and said its probably a boil.
i had absolutly NO idea what a boil is and had never heard of one, but i knew it didnt sound good. i started balling my eyes out because i was stressed out enough as it is for school to be starting.
even though my mom told me to leave it alone, i was determined to get rid of it.. so i just started squeezing it like i did to the other one.. it was harder to get the stuff out, and no puss came out so i was just like w/e ill deal w/ it tomorrow.
so now today, it has gotten bigger, and has created more stress to my list.. i looked up "how to get rid of boils quick" on google. there were millions of remedys and treatments and i also learned all about themm.. i learned that they are supposed to be very very painfull, wich it is, but only if i touch it, and is supposed to feel like a biglump and is red wich is true, and also it supposed to start out looking like a mosquito bite which it did. learning about them only made me more stressed and now i dont know what to do. the puss doesnt want to come out.. its like theres a big ball of it stuck far underneath my skin. i just keep putting alcohol on it hoping it will get better but it doesnt.. i know my mom wont take me to the doctors, she doesnt think its serious and doesnt listen to anything isay, even though from reading about it... i should go to the doctors.. i can worry about the doctors after school starts but for now, what can i do to make this thing go away within 3 days before i have to take school pics and show up my first day with a big lump on my chin?? and also, do you really think its a boil?? its not very red, just a huge lump and is only painful when you touch it.. but if its not a boil, how can i get rid of it and what is it???
thank you!
it should be a boil.
just try to leave it alone okay? i know its like super hard but you really should.
i had a couple before..but not on my face. i know it may make you feel horrible and hurt like hell but the best thing for you to do is just wait ... if you wait soon the pus will be able to come out and you can squeeze it out or like put a pin through it when you feel its about to blow! lol sometimes mine come back though...you just have to keep draining it until its history.
Okay so, theres a boy named lets say," Justin", and his best friend;s name is umm, "Nick"...
In the beginning of the year, i liked Nick, and Justin was just weird.
But all summer, i've been talking to Justin and hes been flirting with me and we've been talking about Nick.
I found out, Nick and I have a lot in common, but i dont think he likes me.
But Justin and i get along and he might like me. Somehow, i told him ill only go out with someone if HE makes the first move... so he might do it..
but one more thing. Nick is a virgin, and Justing ISNT.
But we're all only 14.
so should i go out with Justin, or ask him to ask Nick if he likes me?
Justins been telling me a lot how pretty he thinks i am, and i know that means a lot, considering hes the type of guy who only uses hot and sexy.
But Nick is more attractive then Justing.
and they've been best friends since 4th grade, and I NEED HELP!
please help me out and you'll get a high bonus! :))
....the answer is obvious girl!
lol
go for justin.
he has been paying you all of then attention...you like him...he seems to definetely like you.
nick doesnt seem like he has been in the picture at all.
and virginity may be a big deal but nick having his virginity doesnt really make him better in any way.
if you go out with justin..dont give up the goods :]
ok well me and my bf have been dating for 5 months we didnt kiss until we had been dating for 3months and now we do it alot but he will touch me all the time whether we are kissing or not and i absolutely love it! but idk what to do to him i touch his tummy when we arent kissing and play with the hairs and what not but when we are kissing im clueless i just need ideas for both PLEASE HELP!
run your fingers through his hair touch and massage his neck,rub his face and rub on his back and shoullders..just learn to get comfortable with rubbing your hands threw his head and rubbing his back while kissing..im sure he;ll like it
i always picking on my boyfriend alll the time like hurting him something like that, sometime he got mad, but why i always picking on him not my another ex boyfriend? i do love my boyfriend i should show him love than picking on him, is that mean i don't love him or what? i want show him more love, but I'm not that good, i love begin picking on him, how can i stopped it?
when ppl pick on others its usually an immature way to say you like or love them (not saying your immature at all) but its true..if you feel like you love him definetly tell him because your relationship def. shouldnt be based on you picking on him and him getting upset....once in a while you two should be able to joke around with each other but not to the point where it hurts one another.
just keep telling yourself to not say mean things to him..i do that when i try to avoid saying something wrong with my bf
good luck =]
i want a cellphone that has a keyboard
but not a voyager because my friend has one
and the plan has to be verizon
do u know any cute oneS?
how bout just go to the website?! they have all the different phones there
Ok so i have the GAYEST HAIR IN THE WORLD. i want straight hair, but my parents wont let me get a relaxer. i can straighten it, yeah, but it takes like 2 hours. and it only stays straight for like 30 minutes, then it gets wavy.
so i was wondering if anyone might know of something that could make my hair straight that:
1) doesnt include me straightening it.
2) doesnt include me blow drying it.
3) and costs under like, 20 dollars.
i know it seems kind of impossible, but im just wondering.
mostirizer works for me..im black but i it works for white peoples hair toooo! lol its like moose i guess go to a hair store and ask around
im 16 and i lost my virginity to my girlfriend on november 21 or this morning as we both were about to orgasm my i pulled out it shot out is that normal
what shot out? your penis or your cum?..if its your cum then..yeaa thats what its supposed to do..shoot out.
my boyfriend of two months wants t odo other things, eg handjobs ect, i want to but on the other hand, i don't , please don't tell me that its what i feel comfortable with then do it coz i don't know!!! I am 14 F
well there really isnt enough info here to tell you whether or not you should because you didnt tell us why you didnt want to or why you did want to...its really up to you when it comes down to it,but on the other hand i dont think you should because its only been two months i think you might be moving to fast...im 14 too and ive been dating my guy 4 8 months....we've done some things and i regret it...i guess..so just make sure you know what your doing