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creative things to do on dates
13/m
so as i said in the title what are some creative and fun things to do on dates with my girlfriend, and sometimes a few other people that come with us?
btw i only get about 15 dollars a week(aus)
also what are the like... dos and donts of dating? like what i should and shouldn't do
thanks
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Be original. Try something plain and add a little spice. Go skating Friday night and grab smoothies to cool down with after. Order vice-versa. Go for a walk and have a picnic. Don't go to the movies. That would be the less romantic date ever. Trust me. However, you could watch a movie at one another's house and bake dinner together. Who doesn't like a good cook? And I'm sure renting a movie is under 15 bucks. Baking dinner, priceless. Or simply bake cookies. I don't know. If you're a jock- take her to a game. Explain everything and hold her hand to 'not get lost'. And don't worry about messing up; falling on your face, burning the cookies, or actually getting lost. Ha. It'll break some tension and give you guys something to joke around about. Or conversation. Whichever. Go crazy (:
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This, partially, would depend on how long you guys have been dating, but most of what I say should apply to anyone.
I personally think that there's beauty in simplicity. Also, make sure you always have an open mind! You never know what you'd have fun doing until you try it once, or maybe even a few times! Go for a walk with her somewhere. If you guys live near a river or anything, walk along there, alone or with some friends. Amusement parks are good, but you'd need to save up. Check your city/town's website for local shows and events that are coming up -- they're usually really cheap, and it's something different to do. Going to the movies is cute, but sort of cliche and difficult to do with a lot of people. Go to thrift stores (it's surprisingly fun, and you never know what kind of funny stuff you'll fine). A friend's house is always a good choice, especially if you want to hang out for a while (just sit around and talk, or watch movies). Maybe try baking with her, or something along those lines. :]
Then there are the obvious ones like bowling, golfing, going to the beach (if that's available), etc.
Do's/Donts.. they all depend on the girl, but what usually works for people I know..
Do:
-Be polite. Do things like opening doors and insist on paying if you're in public and it's early in the relationship.
-Be completely yourself, no matter who's there. Treat her like you would when you're alone (just minus lots of kissing, because that could make other people uncomfortable). If you're usually very sweet, do so in front of others. If they make fun of you, play along and continue being sweet. :P
-Do kiss her on the cheek/forehead/hand. If she seems to be uncomfortable with it, don't do it again, or flat out ask her. However, most girls find this ADORABLE.
-Do let her fall asleep with you if you're alone. Girls also love that. Hold her hand and stroke her hair. Stuff like that. :]
-Have conversations with her. Really meaningful ones. She'll love it that you listen and want to talk.
-Talk things out if you ever get mad at her, or you feel she's mad at you. Don't hover on bad feelings, just immediately and calmly bring them to the surface and talk them out. It'll only make you closer, and a more mature couple.
Don't:
-Don't be OVERLY polite to the point where it's creepy. For some reason, girls don't like guys who are overly nice now. Don't baby her, play with her. Challenge her and maybe playfully tease, and things along those lines. Also, let her pay sometimes, if she insists on it. :]
-Don't change who you are because of who else is around. This bugs girls A LOT.
-Don't constantly try to make out with her. It will make a girl feel like that's all you want, even if that's not your intention at all. If she initiates it, go for it. Otherwise, only do stuff like that occasionally throughout the date.
-Don't lie to her at all. Even if the truth hurts, it's better than it coming back to bite you. Besides, the more honest, the more it proves that you guys are meant to be together. She'll want you for YOU, not someone you're supposed to be.
-Do feel free to TALK to other girls, but don't let it get to the point where you're constantly texting or calling each other. It makes girls uneasy, even if you have no intention on cheating or anything like that.
I hope some of this has helped! You guys will be great. :]
XOXO
KAT.
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I like the movies, bowling (even if you're terrible, it's always fun to laugh at yourself a little), ice skating, my house, his house, a group get-together at a friend's house, mini-golfing...the list can go on and on! Even a walk around the neighborhood or local park is nice. Really, you can do anything. If you're trying to keep things cheap, ask her to come over your house, watch a movie, maybe have her over for dinner and relax.
Based on what I like, this is what I know is comforting:
1. When you see her, just give her a compliment like "Well you look nice" with a warm smile. Don't over-compliment; that's kind of overwhelming
2. Don't ignore her if you're with your friends. Pay equal attention to your friends and your date.
3. Don't feel nervous. That will only make her feel nervous.
4. Just be yourself!
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i like picnics. theyre cheap and romantic and others can go along with you
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Go to the movies, go ice skating, go bowling, watch movies at your/her house,go swimming, have a picnic, go out for ice cream.
There are a lot of simple little things you can do that are pretty cheap and fun =]
Do's
1.Compliment her on something
2.Open her door.
3.If your out to dinner pull out her chair.
4.be sweet =]
Donts
1.Dont run out of money
2.Dont txt anyone while your with her
3.dont act like you dont care what she is talking about
Hope i helped =] if you need anything else feel free to go to my column and ask me personally.
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Go to the park. Go bowling. See a movie. Have a bonfire. Make s'mores.
There's lots of stuff you can do.
Dos:
1. Look her straight in the eye.
2. Smile.
3. Compliment her.
4. Talk and communicate with her often.
5. Make things for her.
Don'ts:
1. Yell/argue.
2. Buy her expensive things when you can easily make something by hand.
3. Lie.
--Jack
(17/m)
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Going on picnics is always a cute thing. It's inexpensive and it's really cute. Perhaps you can ride your bikes, that's good too. You can also take her to her favorite restaurant and go somewhere else afterwards.
Dos: Show your girlfriend how much you care about her. Perhaps you can make / buy her a card, get her some flowers, get her some chocolates.
Don'ts: Don't get too extravagant. Sadly, girls expect more on the next date. So keep it low budget and you'll make it easier on yourself for the next date.
Hoped I Helped & Good Luck
-- LiTTLEGiRLBLUE<3
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