Member Since: January 24, 2009 Answers: 4 Last Update: June 22, 2009 Visitors: 1074
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me and my boyfriend have had sex a handful of times and the thing is welll ... u see i lost it to him not too long so sex is still hurting for me but he's experienced and when he has sex with me he never comes does that mean he's not getting pleasure? does he have to come to get pleasure because we could do it for a full hour different positions and stuff but hes never come before so does that mean hes not getting pleasure. thats what i thought and if he isnt why does he always wanna do it with me if he gets nothing out of it. he knows i dont get anything it hurts for me.. :S CONFUSEEDD! (link)
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Sex isn't my strongest subject but whatever. Well sex doesn't always have to be solely about physical pleasure. Maybe distract yourself with other kinky motions. The way he holds you or the body heat between you two. And not all guys will come so easy. My friend would have the same difficulty with her boyfriend; he would never come. But he mentioned masturbating earlier. Ask him. And with your pain; you might want to look further into that. It might be a medical condition or just uncomfortable postioning. And obviously, he has feelings even if he didn't get anything out of the sex. He still wants to 'pleasure' you. That's so sincere. Talk to him about it. And ask a doctor or other experienced friends abotu your vaginal pains. Good luck !
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13/m
so as i said in the title what are some creative and fun things to do on dates with my girlfriend, and sometimes a few other people that come with us?
btw i only get about 15 dollars a week(aus)
also what are the like... dos and donts of dating? like what i should and shouldn't do
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Be original. Try something plain and add a little spice. Go skating Friday night and grab smoothies to cool down with after. Order vice-versa. Go for a walk and have a picnic. Don't go to the movies. That would be the less romantic date ever. Trust me. However, you could watch a movie at one another's house and bake dinner together. Who doesn't like a good cook? And I'm sure renting a movie is under 15 bucks. Baking dinner, priceless. Or simply bake cookies. I don't know. If you're a jock- take her to a game. Explain everything and hold her hand to 'not get lost'. And don't worry about messing up; falling on your face, burning the cookies, or actually getting lost. Ha. It'll break some tension and give you guys something to joke around about. Or conversation. Whichever. Go crazy (:
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My boyfriend and I have an age differences, I really didn't worry about it because I didn't think it was that big until my brother said something.
I was born:
March 20th 1994
He was born:
Oct 31st 1992 (link)
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Ah, that's nothing. In fact, that could open a lot of doors. ...If you're too young to drive or are curious about more mature issues. I wouldn't worry about it. You may want to evaluate your relationship closer to the end of high-school though. Is it worth it? You would still be in high-school when he's starting college, I assume. If so, committ yourself to hang out as much as possible. But other then the graduation thing, you shouldn't worry about it. Have fun with your older man;D
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I met this guy in my work n he's really nice n that. He got my number off of one of my friends about 2 months ago and has been txting me ever since. A few weeks ago a party we were drunk and ended up kissing. But we both said the next day there was no regrets. He's been inviting me out to with his friends and again we're still like hooking up and stuff. He told me that one day he wanted to kiss me in work but didn't no if he was brave enough. And yesterday he did and he came to see me again today and kissed me today. I don't want to mention anything about a relationship just now because its early days but it was just kind of weird because its now in and out of work if that makes sence. I've heard stories that he's been a bit of a player in the past but faithful when he has a girlfriend. I'm not sure if i want a relationship just now n i'm happy like kissing him n stuff but i don't want to get used. (link)
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I agree with the Roxy girl. If your okay with just hooking up, leave at that. But if things become more intimate and emotionally attaching, you should talk about it. Ask him casually where 'this' is going. But warning, don't get to emotional about him, you wouldn't want to be just 'another girl' or hook-up. ESPECIALLY if he has a rep. Good luck!(:
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