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how far, how fast..
I've been in an exclusive relationship with this guy for three months. He's perfect and amazing and our relationship is great. In addition to the emotional aspect of our relationship (we connect really well), we are extremely attracted to one another... so we usually end our dates with an intense makeout session accompanied by other stuff at his house for hours at a time. He's focused on pleasuring me and asks for nothing in return. He only does what I'm comfortable with. Thus far he's fingered me and felt me up, both through my clothes, in addition to some other stuff not as sexual. I am saving myself for marriage and he knows and is fine with this but I'm just afriad we're moving too fast, that we'll do everything there is to do outside of sex before the relationship is close to ending-- we're both very happy and have already made long-term plans that stretch into next fall.
I do enjoy what he's doing and it feels so good that its honestly hard to say no, and he makes me feel so comfortable... should we slow it down? I'm 16, he's 18. Thanks :]
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wow i'm 16(i'll be 17 in 2 months) and my boyfriends 18 !...we've been together for almost 3 years and we lost are virginity to each other 2 years into the relationship... us fooling around was spread out..not all bunched up into 3 months..so stop while you're at it...bc tht shits gonna get boring after a while..and sex is harder to resist then you probably think. it's only been 3 months girl...just take it slower and talk to him..tell him you dont want to be so sexual all the time...its a recipe for disaster to me..but hey making outs fine...
another thing--- make sure you dont doubt your relationship..you two need to feel like you could be with eachother far into the future..bc if you dont then whats the point of dating the person..you get me?
goodluck!
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The important thing is that you're both comfortable with how fast you're going. If it's making you uncomfortable, then you should slow down. But it seems to me like you're pretty comfortable with it, and he seems like a good guy who respects your boundaries, so I don't really see any need to worry about it.
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get it girl lol. what you guys are doing is perfectly fine. saving yourself till you are married is perfectly fine but you can still do other stuff if you want to. the fact that you two are so attracted to eachother is great. that is a major factor in making a relationship really last. do whatever you are comfortable with and nothin more or less. hes your boyfriend and theres nothing wrong with what you guys do:)
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You should slow it down because one day you're just gonna do it and you won't even realize. If something is nearly getting out of hand then remember to STOP and remember your promise to yourself to save yourself for marriage :] hope this helps..
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