ok well me and my bf have been dating for 5 months we didnt kiss until we had been dating for 3months and now we do it alot but he will touch me all the time whether we are kissing or not and i absolutely love it! but idk what to do to him i touch his tummy when we arent kissing and play with the hairs and what not but when we are kissing im clueless i just need ideas for both PLEASE HELP!
Multicolourbrain answered Sunday January 20 2008, 3:55 pm: Callm!
I didn't kiss my boyfriend till 3 months either (and it was ridiculously disastrous - wanted the pavement to swallow me up - but it got better!) and now I've been with him 11 months. I'm alot more experience for it too. When I kiss my boyfriend, I find we both like it better if I go for the full on grab his face - like place your hands on either side and then move them, go for the hair - keep moving them, it sounds like it might feel stupid but it won't if you're kissing enough ;)... then try get to his shoulders, just a touch, or something - grab his shirt at the back! This sounds like full on passion but you can easily do it more gently and slowly, even casually. If I'm at school with my boyfriend I'll just play with his hands or the fabric on the back of his shirt ... and its always fun to tickle now and again! I normally rest my hand on his shoulder or something and lean on him when hugging him. If you're just watching a movie play with the hands - idly tug his shirt or just put a hand on his chest or stomach or something. If you're lying, try and get it so you're curled around eachother because that always has a nice effect.
I hope something I've had is vaguely useful :) Oh - and for some reason I touch my boyfriends mouth with my thumb when I touch his face with my palm - and well, he doesn't object. He'll put it back if I pull away - and remember it doesn't hurt to stroke a bit.
Could work on yours too ^^
Advicelady6798 answered Sunday January 20 2008, 1:51 pm: When kissing him, guys like it when you feel their face, leg, arm, and chest. When you are making out make sure you mix it up a little. Guys tend to get irritated when you are doing only one or two things but if you switch it up a little they like it. I am not saying your boyfriend is irritated becasue not all guys are like that. When not kissing it is ok to do these things too but the best thing to do when not kissing is playing with his hands or do imaginary circles, letters, names, or pictures on their chest or belly. This comes in handy when you are watching movies or just hanging out. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
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