Ok, so I'm a freshman.. And the guy I really like Is a senior. He likes me to. It's just hard to get him to be 'mine' because of the age distance... And he has never had sex so he is not just using me or anything.. And I really trust him but.. How can I get him to be mine?? Were in the I like you you like me stage and we have been for like 2 months... Just any advice would be good!
about the freshmen-senior thing.. if I were you i'd wait on that also because I'm a junior and the things I thought during freshmen year have changed..my maturity level has changed.. I have a better view of who I am...and an order for a relationship to work you HAVE to know who you are as a person. most seniors are on completely different paths then freshmen...going off to college..moving out..partying...there are things 18 yr olds can do that 14 year olds cant
in my opinion the age difference is too great in terms of teenagers because 14 year olds are on completely different levels then a 16,17,18 year old.
Cux answered Sunday January 3 2010, 7:34 pm: Just wait it out. If you rush into things, it just won't end up like you want. So waiting is a very good first step.
But, I wouldn't wait for more than another two months. Because then you're just waiting for nothing when you could be dating someone your own age and be happy, at least for a little bit.
zazzle_123 answered Sunday January 3 2010, 5:00 pm: Just take your time you'll come to it. Talk to him more, play with him more :] Ask him what is happening between you is it real or not? [ zazzle_123's advice column | Ask zazzle_123 A Question ]
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