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Faked it,,,,,,feel horrible....
So i'm 16 and i've been with this guy for six months and we've done the 3rd base thing. Like he fingers me and i've given him a hand job. So like i of course always make him finish but he's never made me orgasm. Like i've been closish....i think....but i always feel like i'm gonna pee, i've been able to orgasm on my own and it doesnt feel like that and i dont know why he cant make me, even though he does he same thing i do, clit stimulation. The other day he was really working hard and it always feels really good, its not that it doesn't but idk i can't finish. Maybe i'm afraid to infront of him? but i dont think so cause i really want to, i even direct him sometimes. Well anyway yeah he was working real hard and i knew he was getting tired so i faked it.....but i feel so bad about it...i know a lot of girls do it but i feel so dishonest i've never lied to him. He told me once he'd never want me to fake it and that he'd get mad at me if i did cause he wants to please me....so i'm kinda scared to tell him that i did...he thinks he's made me finish twice but he's never been able to, i dont even remember faking it in the past......i dont know what i should do or why i cant orgasm
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Many women (probably more then you think) cannot achieve an orgasm through vaginal penetration...
or even if the guys stimulationing the clit.
my boyfriend know's i never orgasm with him but i'm thinking it's nearly impossible because i can only orgasm when i stimulate my clit..(the same with MANY other women) the most you can do is be honest with him..tell him about how a lot of women just cant get an orgasm in bed..also mention the fact that what he's doing does feel really good...
then again i wouldnt tell him i faked it or anything...faking it is stupid.. you need to just be honest with your spouse and if he cant except it then thats his problem , not yours.
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honestly just keep faking it esspecially if hes doin somthing that really feels good. it will make him learn faster and love doing it for you even more. ohh and try to do alot of foreplay before he actually gets his hand down there cause it makes you more ready for it and makes it feel 10 times better. hope i helped:) good luck.
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okay yeah i definetely would not tell him you faked it. you never do that. it would hurt his ego and probably make him too self concious if you were to do it again. as for the orgasm part. i think a part of it may be that you are thinking too much. just let your mind go and think about all the sensations that are coming out of it. also since you know how to bring your self to an orgasm, you should try directing him on what too do. for instance telling him to speed up or slow down or touch certain parts. that will help him learn. also reassure him from time to time if he is doing something well. let him know tthat it feels good. you guys are still young so you have a lot of learning too do. dont worry that hes not an expert on making a girl cum.
so too recap:
1. dont tell him you faked it
2. dont worry about having an orgasm, just go with it...mind over matter.
3. help him out in making you orgasm.
good luck and i hope i helped!
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firstly i wouldnt tell him that youv been faking it this whole time because that would crush him!just dont fake it again.he needs to find that special spot.practise makes perfect.im not really sure why he hasnt made you orgasim.it could be because hes not moving his fingers fast enough or something but these things you cant just fix.to be honest if you llove the guy then just keep faking it till he gets it right.try lubrication or use his spit it feels alot better but apart from that theres not much you can do.if you dont fake it hes going to feel like he cant please you and its going to hurt his ego majorly
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