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theres this really hott guy at school. I really like him, not just for his hottness but for his personality. hes really shy and so am i. what should i say? i cant just go up to him and talk to him. i always chicken out.

Aksjfij! i cant talk to himmm!
and i really need to!
what do i say?
HOW?

I understand what your going through. I was the most shiest person ever!!! and now i'm all new me :) and you know if you really like him and want to talk to him but you can't becuase you chicken out. what if you maybe talk to him online? aim or msn or yahoo.

Whichever you both have and you can talk to him on their. i thinks its eaiser but somethings its better to talk to him in person. but if your that shy i say go for that, because thats what i did first and than after i got used to them talking on line i talk to them alot in hallways or classroom.

and maybe text him if you have his number or can get it from a friend you know that knows him you know.

and ask his friends for his screename as well. so i think those are easy for now. and maybe if you see him in the hallways or other places just say "Hi" to him simple as that. and take a deep breath in and out when you are shy or nervous around him. and than be like "what's up? hows it going?" and than start talking and get converstation going. You'll do just fine.

remember if your afraid to talk to him in person online is always good for a start and when you feel like your not shy anymore around him than in person or on the phone is good enough :)

hope i helped let me know :) GOOD LUCK!!!!! :)

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My X-gf broke up with me and now I'm going out with her best friend cause my X said that she didnt care, but it turns out that my X still likes me, What do I do?

well, wat do you WANT? do you want ur Ex girl back do you still have feelings for her even thou your ex broke up with u. and now ur going out with her bestfriend. i think tatz just a bit akward right now. but like. when they say lines like this. " your ex didn't care, but DUH dude, inside she really still cares that your going out with her bestfriend."

they always say that little line. but now that you know she likes you. what you should do like the other person said is go in your room and think about it. and see. who do you like more. your X or the girl your going out with?


one thing to remember here. if you still like your Ex go talk to her nicely and tell her how you really feel about her. than talk to the girl your going out with nicely and say like, i dont know wat to say to you to say to her but just be like i think we should just be friends or something. but like for now. i say you think this over. and did you date her bestfriend because a revange on your X?


think about it. hoped i helped let me know. thank you and good luck. and o talk to them seperatly.

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Hi I have a friend who thinks she is fat odviously she is extremly skinny but she dousn't beleive me. I don't think she anerexic or anything but what should I say to help her??

hey well you should tell her that your not fat and if you are my best frind and that you trust me i would tell you if your fat or not and since were best friends i would tell you if your fat and when i say your not fat your not fat so dont worry about it if i was fat you would tell me and if you were fat i would defintaly tell you but you got to listen to me and look at me in the eyes you are not fat you are my best friend and i am telln you the truth. and be like what makes you think your fat you are pretty skinny girl and you should be proud of what you look like but you are not fat.

and maybe talk to her about obssesing fatness and if you dont think she's anerexic watch out for her and watch out for her when she eats or if she does or doesn't but like you get the point

just tell her in your heart that she is not fat and if she were you would of told her straight forward. and talk to her about it and say have anyone said you were fat and if so dont listen to those assholes loser and i'll take care of them. liek that :)

hope i helped

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my boyfriend left an IM screen up on my computer- an IM with the girl he would have asked out he says, but her parents would never let her.

my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 4 months now. and we're very serious, i think at least. but i dont know now.

in the conversation he says:

:yeah im happy with the relationship, a little mixed in my stomach though
:being in a relationship is very confining at the moment and I'm trying to get out and see the world.


my boyfriend and i are planning a trip to scotland this summer. he doesnt think my parents will let me go.
and he invited this girl. telling her basically

:you me and danielle, but i dont think her parents are gonna let her go.

he spends all of his time with me, which he really doesn't have to.

how can i let him know this- let our relationship be less confining on his end- without him knowing i read his IM?

its very upsetting to me- im in love with him.

ya i agree with the person at the bottom i say that he might have left it there for you to read or why else would he leave his im open like that when his girlfriend is in the room or with him? right? so like and it made you upset. but like since you guys are thinking of going away and that why is he bringing this girl with him? even if you two only should go like alone without anyone. maybe he's having seconds thoughts on the relationship? how is your relationship with him and that does he loves you or does he thinks that you might not go becuase of your paretns and than bring the other girl without you and than something might happen like they might hook up. and if your in love with him i say you sit him down and talk to thim saying i will try anything to go with you. but there is one thing. there is one thin that has upset me when i was with you. your im was open i i accidently read it and i know i'm not suppose to read your stuff or anyhthing. beacuse it was right in front of me open. so i dont know if you did that on propuse for me to read or your having thoughts about it? im just sayin and about you wanting the girl to come? why do you want her to? i mean wasn't it suppose for me and you only? does it matter for her to come? does it seem that you might have like her more than me? why tell me i want to be able to trust you and you trust me. i want to know the whole truth nothing but the truth.

and after you say all that he would tell you the whole truth. and also be like " please baby i want to know the truth i really want to know the truth cause i really like you and i want to stay with you and be with you and be able to go with you. is that so hard to ask?

liek that and he would freakin tell you everything and dont worry your relationship wont end. and it wont happen unless you have a lil chat with him about it like adults no yellin or screaming talk to him calmling.

good luck and hope i helped

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15/f

ok so i went out with this guy for like a year and then broke up w/ him like right before summer. we got in like a huge fight and we stopped talking and stuff. now were like friends again and we talk.. not like a lot but we do talk. anyways we wanna like hang out soon.. but he wants to like hook up and im like fine with that. but he like wants me to give him a bj too..but like should i? or is that really slutty? i was really close with him i mean we went out for like a year. and like its weird bc now when we talk its like its the same.. like i still trust him & everything its weird.

well i think if you guys hang out and sutff but than you guys broke up and than like gettin back together but if he wants to give you BJ like only if you want to and your ONLY ONLY! 15 and it's so not good for you, yes it does sound like slutty because he might be pressuring you to do it and if he does that means he doesn't love you or respect you and you have to do it to someone who actually loves/respect not just because he wants you to i mean thats just too slutty and just not right for a 15 year old to do. you guys would actually have to hangout alot talk alot go out alot like movies, dancing,dinners,parties,hanging out at each others houses all that stuff hang out with him with your friends his friends. so i say you dont do it b/c just dont and if you want to give a good bj he would probually tell you how to do it no one here can't tell you and only you should know how to even if you dont know like i dont even know how to and i dont even do it b/c it's just stupid and waste of time

and if you want to it's liek suckin on a lollypop

yes sorry i wrote to much and saying same thing i think you should just hangout and not do it because he would make you sound like a slut and maybe tell people about it so i say you dont and tell him no.

so good luck and hope i helped

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cute clothes for fall?

some dreses are cute, for falls and tat is all i know so far and fall is not here yet so you have time to think and know clothes that are for fall but if you really want to know that early

go to abercombie and addids and nike i say some of them atleast abercombie has some cute clothe for falls but if you want search it up on the enternt google it will sure help you perfectly.:)


hope i helped

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i need to make a sms mailing list but i dont know how someone please help i have tried everything =[

if u want to make an sms maililing list and dont know how you can search it up on google is the only way to

http://wirelessdev.weblogsinc.com/2005/03/30/list-of-email-to-sms-gateways/

you can go there and it might help you if it has to do with phone of course.

http://www.amailsender.com/ (here's another one you can use to help)

does are the sites that can help you make sms mailing list but if not you would have to search it up on google or dogpile one of them would help

hope i helped

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well this kid i really like, he knows i like him now, and he said he cant date until college, a year from now. but he said he wants to get to know me and thinks im attractive and nice or soemthing so..what do i do?

well i say you get to know him as well and be nice to him and talk to him hang out with him as well and than maybe one day he would change his mind about can't date te'll whenever and if you guys hangout alot and stuff call each other im each other text each other eventually he'll get tired of waiting tell college and than evntually ask you out :)

so what you do is you hangout talk to him, im him text him and all that and maybe flirt with him so he knows your interst in him as well and all that and ya that's basically it.

hope everything goes well:)

good luck:)

hope i helped, it would be nice to know what you think of my advice :)

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- he's in my computer class, and sits next to me. his feet are always close to mine, and he doesn't move them.

- he showed me his cell phone and let me mess around with it.

- when we walk out of the classroom, and he goes in front of me; theres a big crowd of people, but sometimes he looks over his shoulder to see if i'm there.

- we've made eye contact, and we talk to each other, meaning we look into each other's eyes when we talk.

- he always jokes about how slow of a typer he is and how fast i am. one time, he went "i hate you", when i finished an assignment and he wasn't even halfway done, and he smiled.

- he always smiles when i'm around.

- one time, he pushed the black handle on my chair to make it go down while i was typing something up. i rolled my eyes (jokingly).

- i was wearing coach sneakers, and i noticed that he kept looking at them, and he went "i didn't know that Coach made shoes". i was surprised haha..

- he's Christian, and when I was looking through his songs (he has the SLVR), and he goes "you probably don't know who the bands are", and I mentioned the Christian band Thousand Foot Krutch and his face lit up when I started talking about them. he also mentioned that he plays baseball.

does he like me or is he just being nice?

would it be weird if I asked him for his number or gave him my number? or should i just wait a little while longer?

i think that means he likes you and maybe bein nice to you as well. so it's of course he likes you and do you like him? well if you want since you guys talk alot maybe wait a day or two before askin for his number and than be like

"hey i was wondering hmm maybe sometimes i can call you?" and than let him answer that

so like its best to wait a two dayz at least but than again instead of asking for his number
and if you really like him you should ask him out be like, "hey hmm i was wondering we got along so well and i'm happy about it and i was wondering if you would like to go out with me sometimes" than look down act all cute and shy to him and let him answer

dont worry if he says no dont be uspet you two will still be good friends just give it some time and everything would be ok :)


good luck

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ive heard that instead of throwing up some people tend to get the poops (usually, i don't mean when they're pregnant) but i was just wondering if the same thing could occur with pregnancy? my boyfriend and i had sex almost 2 1/2 weeks ago and with no condom well not sex he was just inside me for a little, we're not sure if i am pregnant or not. i haven't thrown up in like 3 years, but i have been going to the bathroom a lot (in both cases #1 & 2 :P) my boobs have hurt for the past week, very tender, and i have had really bad heartburn. I was going to take a test a few days ago but my boyfriend said it's too early bla bla. So i was just wondering if that could be a symptom (getting the poops) especially since i've never had them so bad, it's like wen i wake up i have to and during the day i have to a lot.
thanks!

well wether or not he's inside u a bit with no condoms or not i think that's a sign of pregancy and even thou it might be to early i say you get tested to make sure and when you say you never had these signs before than that means it must be a sign of pregancy. so i say you get tested to make sure you are or not..

wether or not you have sex you always have to be safe if not you can end up being pregnant weather or not he was inside you for a bit.

so you should get tested or go see a doctor for safety

hope i helped

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what is a good website to allow me to call numbers for free rather than use credits like in Skype?

well basically there's nothin but if you have msn you can call someone who does on mic which is free and easy and there's yahoo also but i think you mite need to pay for it and there's also skype the most popular but lots of money and also tatz it there is no site where u can call someone for free watsoever.

hope i helped let me know

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Ok well my sister is looking for an online job, data entry, typin..no surveys.. And she doent wanna Pay any upfron fees. she needs something international,
So does anyone kno a good site where she can chck out?

thank u guys

well if you want google it first but i say what ever job she wants like data entry and all that what ever she wants i heard the montersjob.com is a really good place to search for it either jobmonster.com or montersjob.com LOl they work pretty well thou i say go for it cause i've been on it my bro been on it and looked for a job and i think it helped him a bit as a start off job:)

well good luck

let me know if i helped

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I'm really confused as to why all of these teenagers on here keep saying that they like this guy, but they want to get to know him. I don't understand how you can like a guy that you don't know. Maybe I'm just not shallow, but I'm 14 and that's the age that most people who post those questions are and I've never liked someone without knowing them first. I mean aren't you suppose to get to know someone and then decide you like them. Every hot guy that you see isn't someone you like, right? I mean I only like guys that I know and I like them based on their personality. Sure, I think guys are hot, but I don't like them. I don't even know them. lol I guess what I'm asking is if I'm weird or what?

well your not weird cause your right, i mean girls on here who right that is just idont know really you kind of have to know the guy first before liking them in any way. it doesn't always depends on "looks" or maybe it does but sometimes it doesn't. mostly it depends on personalty as you says.

so i say your not weird you would have to know a guy first and hangout with him for a while
but if your a shy kind and want to get notice try not to be shy anymore and go up to that person and hangout with him and than like see how it goes it's not all because oh my god he's so hott i like him i want to get him to notice me how? well it doesn't nesecerly go like that it only goes like that if your desperate enough. if you see a hott guy and you like him all of the sudden and you dont know him i say that you just go up to him and talk to him and get to know him before you like him. because sometimes when guys are hott they could be assholes and you might not like them anymore and you wasited your time on them just because there hott.

so what im saying is your not weird because you are absultly right i say that you just go meet a guy hangout talk get to know as long as you know him not just because of his hottness maybe his cuteness LoL you get me

sorry for the long writing

hope i helped

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i found some of my moms old pills and im curious what they were for to see if i can get a buzz from them or not, so what does Levaquin(levofloxacin) help with?

google it typ e in Levaquin(levofloxacin) and i say if you found your moms pills i say you dont take them because there drugs of course so i say you dont take them just leave them where you found them because if you take it you might something might happend im not sur i dont know excatly but all i read about them is that it's drugs so dont even bother just search it up on google.

hope i helped

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ok, i have an iPod nano which means i have an iTunes library on my computer.

well i was opening my iTunes library to do what i usually do when i'm on the computer; listen to my songs.

today when i opened it, ALL of my songs were gone. NOT ONE left. where did my songs go? they're still on my computer, but not in my iTunes. [i have about 150 songs so it would take too long to manually put them on]

any help at all is apperciated. i'm starting to freak. :\ tanks in advance.

well hmm dont freak out it happens hmm well do you have limewire? cause if you do it's safe on there if you download limewire and than rite click it and drag it to the itunes library and whre it says music u add it to music and it should be add but if you dont have limewire and all that it mus be in your playlist or rececently played or add so check that and you might have them but download limewire if have it or not and type in all the songs you have and than add it to itunes unless you already have limewire and done all that you get the point lol

but good luck dont worry you didn't lose it and try closing itunes and opening it agian it should work

good luck!!!!

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My friends and I are going on a camping trip towards the end of next month. We live in the UK so it is likely to be cold and wet. We don't mind about that but one thing we are worried about is having to put the tent up in the rain. Does anyone have any tips?

hmm well if your going to put the tent in the rain i say you go buy a tent that is strong enough so the rain doesn't get on it but than again i say bring extra sleeping bags extra of course and extra blinkits and lets see extra stuff and cloth just in case you get wet embrilla and everything else you can think of and better try not to go camping in the rain but since it's cold and wet try to go on a cold day than the raininy day but i say you go to the store and buy a very good strong tent that wont get damaged by the rain

hope i helped let me know

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OKay. Here is my situation. My best friend, let's call her Rose, likes my boyfriend(let's call him Albert). But aparently, she liked him before he and I were together. Albert and I have been together for 2 and half months. I love him with all my heart and he loves me too. But I have known my friend for 9 years! And she only told me two days ago that she liked him. I hate seeing her in all this pain. Why should my happiness have to cause her pain?! It's just not fair. Not to mention Albert and Rose were good friends in middle school, but then sort of had a falling out. Now all three of us are going into our senior year of high school, and they have finally fixed whatever miscommunication they had in eighth grade. So at first I thought maybe she was just jealous that I had a boyfriend finally, and especially since she knew him before I knew him, she felt that she had some sort of claim on him. But I fell for him;I became friends with him on my own terms in math class this past year, and she had nothing to do with it. However, she tells me that she never stopped liking him from eighth grade, and that he has always been in the back of her mind. Well, I am her best friend, so how come these past four years of high school she hasn't told me?! the three of us have discussed it for hours last night and came to no conclusion. please. anyone tell me what i should do? break up with him? drop her as a friend? any way to keep them both?

well i see, well i guess your friend who has a crush on your boyfriend and that you were mad at her becuase she didn't tell you, but she didn't want to hurt you because she's your best friend and here's the thing dind't you say you known her for nine years and even if those to your frind and boyfriend didn't get along or w/e didn't you know that she might of still had a crush on him even if she didn't tell you? but you guys were tryin to figure something out here is what you do is that like you keep your boyfriend and you keep your best friend as welll and if you want to keep them both here is what you do.

you first talk to your best friend saying

"rose, hmm i know this is hard and we've been best friends for nine years and i love you but how come after all this you didn't tell me you still had a crush on my boy friend?"

and than she would give you an answer

and than after she answers you which might be
"because i ididn't know before and i didn't want you to get mad at me."

but than be like your my best freind and i love you but i'm sorry that you have a crush on my boyfriend but right now i love him and he loves me and i really want to be with him even thou you want to too but can't you just be friends with him and be my best friend again?, i hate it that where just fighting over him."

and than and talk to your boyfriend sayin that you love him and you want to be with him but dont tell him that your best friend has a crush on you just be like i dont want you to like be with my friends i mean you can be with them not flirt with them i dont know but you know what i mean like say something

but i say you dont break up with your boy friend and your friend because of this i say you talk to her straight forward about your feelings and than talk to your boyfriend about it a bit

well good luck hope i helped you know i try

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I'm singing at a competion in my state and we had to go out and buy the music for the song we wanted to sing. I chose 'But I Do Love You' by Leann Rymes. What key is the song played in when she sings it? I want to make sure the music is in the same key, which is C. Is the original song C also?

well idk her song but if it's in the C and the orginal song is also thinks is in the C it should be in the C cuase i dont think it changes but if you want to make sure here is a website that can help you if not you have to search it up on google.

http://www.musicnotes.com/sheetmusic/mtd.asp?ppn=mn0039199 ( that's the link to it you can find out)

http://www.cowboylyrics.com/tabs/rimes-leann/but-i-do-love-you-2468.html (also try this one i think it's better than the first one but try it)

well this is all i have so far so let me know if i helped it would be nice to know atleast

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i like this boy named donald ray ive like him since last year everytime i walk by him he says my name in the sweetest way but i think everybody is bugging him and now to get him to speak to me he has to be away from his friend and im usually at where he works he walks me out to the car and packs my moms grocerys im shy what should i do?

well if your a shy person it will take you time to talk to him. but if you like him and want to talk to him and get to know him i say that when he walks you out to the car i say you dont be shy and talk to him be like "so watz up? hows work so far?" and be all shy so he knows you like him. plus he likes you if you know that already, how? well when he walks you out to your car and packs your moms grocerys and of course calls your name in a s weetest way when he sees you. so those are some signs of sayin he likes you :)

and also when he packs your mom grocerys be like thanx you really didn't have to do that than you and if you want ask for his number be like
"mind if i call you sometmes? just to like hangout and all that stuff and see what he says but first things first you have to hangout with him without his frineds and when you guys are at work hangout and go talk to him on your break and his break, so dont be shy and go up to him and say hey and watz up and than start a convo on what he likes or about bands anything that wil get you two to talk,

hope i helped

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alot of my friends say that ALL emo guys are gay.....is that true?

no, not ALL emo guys are gay but they can be gay, like this one guy i thought was hott and he was emo and of course he was gay but it was his choice to be gay and i heard that he had bad things happend in the past with girls or w/e so i guess he turned emo and gay but like i said all guys are not gay and if you want to know if there gay or not without asking them is sometimes the cloth they wear like tightor w/e and how they have there hair differnt and how they talk seems gay as well so ya some are some are not not alot thou

hope i helped :)

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