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Location: Jackson, MI
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Age: 17
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I just turned 13 and well my bf is a little older than me. We have already made out. But I was wondering how far you think that we should go... considering my age.

Thanks. (link)
I think that making out is about it. At thirteen, you should definitely take things really slow because you're not ready for sex, or anything sex related. And if you have to ask other people how far you should let yourself go, maybe you shouldn't do anything at all. This is a personal judgement, on your part. But I understand where you are coming from.


i'm sort scared that my boyfriend and i are growing apart and if i do talk to him,not much changes.i just want to know if breking up with him is what i should do.i wana stay together but i also want to do whats best for us.i just don't know what that is... (link)
To answer this, I think there needs to be more information. What I got from your snippet was that you try to talk to your boyfriend about things, but he ignores you. And if he is ignoring you when trying to talk about relationship matters,then it isn't a good sign. I don't know if breaking up is the right idea, but it sounds like he isn't interested in changing whatever he is doing. You need to probe the situation further, I think, and see what the real problem is.


to guys like the happy trail on girls. im asking as a majority of guys, i know every guy is different but im just wondering (link)
No. From my experience with guys, all they want is clean shaved, hairless girls. And personally, thats the way I prefer to be.


sorry i couldnt get the category.
ok so i consider myself punk/emo. and theirs this girl in my school she called me a poser! and i dont kow why. i listen to rock music, and i thought i had my sense of style. i really dont think i am a poser. she told me jsut cuz i dress that way doesnt amke a rocker.
so i am asking what makes people rockers? i listen to rock. heavy metal so i dont get it? what should i do like make up sheos and clothes. thanks. iwant to improve my style (link)
what you wear does not define who you are. you can buy all the hot topic stuff you want, but that doesn't make you a rocker. it makes you look like one, i guess. but it shouldn't really matter. it should be about the music. listen, i wear whatever i want to wear, listen to whatever i want, and don't define myself by a type of music or anything. i am who i am, and thats all.

if you are yourself, and yourself is a punk or an emo or whatever, good for you. dont let others bother you.


how long should a 15 year old penis be unerect (link)
a flaccid penis has nothing to do with how big it can get when erect. there is no norm for being soft.


what's the normal age to lose your virginity? (link)
Average? 16.


i'm 17f. i'm still a virgin, and me and my bf are thinking about having sex. i'm worried it will hurt too much. whats some things you can do to yourself before sex to make it not hurt as much! any advice, thanks (link)
It helps if he fingers you before hand, and sort of stretches you out a little bit. That way, your vagina won't be as tight when he tries to penetrate, and will expand less painfully when he pushes in.

70% chance your hymen is already broken due to tampons/sports, like mine was. I have no advice on that part. Sorry, hope everything works out!


Hey, i pretty much just started having bulimia.. but i'm stopping now.. trying a different direction in loosing weight.. i read all these things that can happen if you have bulimia.. about how long does it take to get those affects!? Because i definatly donnntt want them; and i reallyyy hope i don't!! ANSWER THIS ASAP!! pleaseee (link)
I had bulimia for about a year and a half... and i have acid reflux and intenstinal/digestion problems from it.

just dont do it.


are there different ways to give head that are more pleasurable to guys? like different techniques or ideas? i want my boyfriend to really like it haha. thanks =) (link)
What I do (this only really works if the guy has a large enough penis) is I suck on his head, which putting both of my hands around his dick. I twist them in opposing directions (ONLY IF YOU USE LUBE! OMG, don't do this without lube of some kind). He LOVES it.


14/f
I have tan skin, brown eyes, and brown hair. also, my face is shaped sort of squarish. any good makeup ideas?
thanks (link)
brown eyes are accented by cooler colors, and by some golds. try blue!


what are some songs about summer that ARENT rap or R&B? (link)
Swing Life Away - Rise Against
Summer in the City - Regina Spector
Charade - Dashboard Confessional


is masturbating a sin (im christian) if yes, why? (link)
Well, I'm Catholic, and I'll give that version of masturbation (or what I remember). Basically, masturbation is a sin because you take pleasure from it, and you aren't supposed to like, have sex or get pleasure until you're married... and only then when you're trying to make babies.

I also know that some religions view it as a sin because its wasting sperm, which means killing unmade babies.

Oi, the things they come up with.


15/f
Right before I go to bed I go to the restroom. Then right as I lay down I feel the urge to go again, but when I go nothing happens. No matter how many times I use the restroom I still fell like I have to go. I've had this problem for as long as I can remember. During the day I don't have this problem, it's only when I'm tired and want to go to bed.
Could I have an over active bladder problem or what? Should I see this doctor about this? It's so annoying and I'm sick of dealing with it. (link)
Sounds like a Urinary Tract Infection. I get them occasionally from having sex, but you can get them from other things too (too tight pants, anything other than cotton panties, etc). If you go to the doctor, he'll make you do a piss test and give you some Bactrim, and all will be well.

Watch out for yeast infections though, they happen sometimes when you take antibiotics.


when my boyfriend and i have sex, he doesnt want to finish in my vagina because i'm not on birth control and he's afraid of me getting pregnant.

what are other ways that he can finish. like i dont like the taste of semen so the mouth isnt an option.

do guys finish in a girl during anal?

what else can he do? (link)
If you aren't on birth control, I really don't think you need to be having sex at all. Secondly, even if he does pull out, you are still at risk to get pregnant, because there are sperm in the pre-cum, which leaks from the penis before he comes. Like, not right before he comes, but the whole time. So if he's going to let the pre-cum be inside of you, he might as well just come in you. Either way, you are definitely risking pregnancy and STD's.


i like to watch gay porn and jack off to it but i hate seeing guys kiss, its just weird and i can never think of loving a guy. i date girls all the time and naked girls turn me on too i like to think of myself of straight...what do u think. (link)
I'm what we'd call, "bi-curious." Meaning, I like to see girl on girl action, but I'm very committed to my boyfriend. Meaning, its normal to watch people of the same sex as you having sex, and it doesn't mean that you are gay. If you couldn't love another man, then you definitely are not gay.


16/f/Australia. I am totally in LOVE with all the scene clothing going roundin Oz at the moment. I've tried googling it with no results so could someone help me find a site with teen girls scene clothing I can look at for ideas. I'm not intending to buy anything from a website so just a page that will give me clothing ideas would be super.

Thanks =] (link)
www.livejournal.com/communities/madradstalkers

its probably one of the scenest things I have seen in my life. loads of great looking kids with great hair, great clothes. tons of inspiration for when i was on the scene :]

http://community.livejournal.com/madradstalkers/
sorry, try that!




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