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i'm sort scared that my boyfriend and i are growing apart and if i do talk to him,not much changes.i just want to know if breking up with him is what i should do.i wana stay together but i also want to do whats best for us.i just don't know what that is...
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i think you should talk to him about it
find out if he feels the same way
discuss it and come to a decision together
because if you dont, and you decide that the relationship cant take anymore, he might be confused why yall are breaking up.
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Sometimes things can't be fixed or resolved. It's hard if you and him are growing apart and it wouldn't be fair for both of you to stay in the relationship. Staying in the relationship would make things worse for you two. Breaking up will be the best thing for both of you. After the break up just get out there and experience life. You'll be better off breaking up with him anyways. There's a lot out of guys out there so no worries.
Good luck, and I hope this helps. :)
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wow, myfriend is in the exact sittuation. talk it out with him, make sure he feels the same way, if he does...... then you should break it off and see how things go... if he doesn't... then just take a little time off to 'think'. i really hope helped. goodluck!
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Based on the information you've giving I think you need to try to talk to him one more time and if things don't change just break up with him. I was in the same situation except me and my boyfriend almost never talked and I didn't do anything about it or try to fix it and I just ended up getting hurt in the end. You can only try to fix things so many times and sometimes it ends up being a waste of time.
So, ask him if things are going to change and how he feels about everything and go on from there.
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If you don't see things changing or getting better anytime soon, then your best bet would be to split. If you can't fix your relationship, why stay in it? It's a waste of time to both of you.
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To answer this, I think there needs to be more information. What I got from your snippet was that you try to talk to your boyfriend about things, but he ignores you. And if he is ignoring you when trying to talk about relationship matters,then it isn't a good sign. I don't know if breaking up is the right idea, but it sounds like he isn't interested in changing whatever he is doing. You need to probe the situation further, I think, and see what the real problem is.
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