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ur opinion?
I just turned 13 and well my bf is a little older than me. We have already made out. But I was wondering how far you think that we should go... considering my age.
Thanks.
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Well im also 13 and have had 15 year old boyfriends...
Go as far as you think you should go but just make sure you are comfortable with what you are doing and your not getting presured into anything..
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i think you should go as far as you are both comfortable. if one of you feels pressured to do anything, thake a step back. if you feel that you can trust your boyfriend very strongly, then you should move foward. but think over your decisions cause they might have a bad outcome if you go to far to fast.
hope i helped
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Not very. You're 13, so you should stick to making out.
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If you have to ask people how far you should go, you're not ready to go that far. Only do what you feel comfortable with. If someone here says "ooh, yeah, you're ready to have sex", don't do it just because they say you should be doing it.
There aren't any rules etched in stone about what a thirteen year old has to be doing :)
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I don't think you should go past making out, because your young, and he's somewhat older. You should at least wait till your 14 for 2nd base, and 15 for 3rd & 4th. If your with him that long, which if you guys do like each other it could be possible
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I'm not going to say that you're not ready for sex, because you very well may be. I don't really think that AGE has anything to do with it, persay, other than the laws of consent.
I'd say making out is really as far as you should go because sex and anything really that is more than making out tends to complicate the relationship.
And plus, how awesome would it be to have NOT done everything before you find the guy you're going to marry? Think of how amazing that would be.
And, remember that no healthy relationship at your age should depend solely on sex/making out.
Have fun.
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i think you sound mature asking what to do. i say if you love him go for anything. age is a number. keep your pants on till your 14 lol. i say take it slow and have fun. if you date for over 6 months and you know hes a good guy go past the kissing and do more if you really want to. hope i helped
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Making out is fine, it doesn't hurt anyone. BUT NOT SEX, no blowjobs, or anything. You haven't emotionally matured enough, yet.
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I think that making out is about it. At thirteen, you should definitely take things really slow because you're not ready for sex, or anything sex related. And if you have to ask other people how far you should let yourself go, maybe you shouldn't do anything at all. This is a personal judgement, on your part. But I understand where you are coming from.
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How much older?
And I think you're fine at making out.
Don't go farther and screw your life up.
You're only 13, and have plenty fo time for that.
<3 Laura.
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Okay. How much older is this boyfriend? I know that when I turned thirteen I thought everything was going to be going my way.. I mean you can officially call yourself a teenager! Isn't that one of the coolest feelings? Well.. all I can say is don't try to take on too much. Maybe going slowly is the best thing. At least until you KNOW you can handle everything that would come along with going far with this person. When I turned thirteen I found that the best thing to do was to kick it back with my friends and enjoy the time I have with them until our lives would be invaded by other things. Don't rush into things. The decision is up to you, but don't ignore the consequences that could happen.
Lots of love,
leah
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how old are you talking? a year three years?
but anyways however far you are comfortable to go with him: but dont do anything that your going to regret this is something you definetly should think through: and if you guys decide to go anywhere if its not something you want to do or its farther than you want to go make sure he knows that& i wouldnt do anything with him unless you trust him: not saying you dont but yeah :p
good luck& hope i helped! :)
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