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i'm 17f. i'm still a virgin, and me and my bf are thinking about having sex. i'm worried it will hurt too much. whats some things you can do to yourself before sex to make it not hurt as much! any advice, thanks
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It helps if he fingers you before hand, and sort of stretches you out a little bit. That way, your vagina won't be as tight when he tries to penetrate, and will expand less painfully when he pushes in.
70% chance your hymen is already broken due to tampons/sports, like mine was. I have no advice on that part. Sorry, hope everything works out!
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just breathe and relax. if you are nervous and not 100% comfortable then you will be more tense.
believe me. it doesnt hurt as bad as you will make it out to be. once it happens. you will be fine. its nothing you cant handle.
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I agree with both people before. Foreplay (to produce your 'natural lube'), and store-boughtlube (if your 'natural lube' just isn't enough). I lost my virginity relatively recently (I'm a 15 year old girl), and was scared of it hurting. I'd heard that most girls bleed the first time, and was really worried, especially because my bf was a virgin too. It hurt for about 30 seconds at the beginning (sorta stingy), and the length of time it hurts for decreases with every time you have sex, until it's not painful at all!
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Foreplay. Have him finger you.
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