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what should i do..?
15/f
ok so i went out with this guy for like a year and then broke up w/ him like right before summer. we got in like a huge fight and we stopped talking and stuff. now were like friends again and we talk.. not like a lot but we do talk. anyways we wanna like hang out soon.. but he wants to like hook up and im like fine with that. but he like wants me to give him a bj too..but like should i? or is that really slutty? i was really close with him i mean we went out for like a year. and like its weird bc now when we talk its like its the same.. like i still trust him & everything its weird.
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hey, its all up to you really you have to feel comfortable with him. If you think that its slutty then dont do it but just go with your gut feeling and if your asking us about it then your not ready to be doing that with him at least not right now. I think its kinda weird but i understand that you tlak to him and its like the same as when you were going out but dont be his bitch dont let him think he can run to you for anythin at anytime because alot of guys start to think that and if you let him do that you will just get hurt. if you do that he will probably think wow i can hurt this girl but i can go back to her at anytime just by sayin sorry. that happened to my friend and he just kept hurting her soo watch out girl i wouldnt want you to get hurt. tell me if i helped you
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if you still have feelings for him, you shouldn't do it. you're doing this for him, but you aren't getting anything real in return. but if you don't like him as more than a friend go ahead, because in the end no one will get hurt. Good Luck.
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Well I hornestly don't see anything wrong with you doing that for him....I mean its not like you two don't kno each other...I mean you'd only be a slut if you just met him....now how to do it well....ummmm the best way for you to do it and do it well would be to do it the way he wants it to be done...do what he tells you to do.... If he says go fast then go fast.....if he says go slow then go slow....because every guy likes it different...find a motion pattern and stick to it...well I hoped I helped....goodluck...godbless.....your friend/advicer.......jamie
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well i think if you guys hang out and sutff but than you guys broke up and than like gettin back together but if he wants to give you BJ like only if you want to and your ONLY ONLY! 15 and it's so not good for you, yes it does sound like slutty because he might be pressuring you to do it and if he does that means he doesn't love you or respect you and you have to do it to someone who actually loves/respect not just because he wants you to i mean thats just too slutty and just not right for a 15 year old to do. you guys would actually have to hangout alot talk alot go out alot like movies, dancing,dinners,parties,hanging out at each others houses all that stuff hang out with him with your friends his friends. so i say you dont do it b/c just dont and if you want to give a good bj he would probually tell you how to do it no one here can't tell you and only you should know how to even if you dont know like i dont even know how to and i dont even do it b/c it's just stupid and waste of time
and if you want to it's liek suckin on a lollypop
yes sorry i wrote to much and saying same thing i think you should just hangout and not do it because he would make you sound like a slut and maybe tell people about it so i say you dont and tell him no.
so good luck and hope i helped<3
sorry for the longest writing ever plus sayin the same thing,
p.s. you should just becarefull you might get sick from doin whatever he wants you to do so dont do it ok well got to go before rambling on agan LOl
see ya Sweetgr145
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