hey yall, im smart and a ton of fun. i love my boyfriend and my family. most of the time i love my best friend too. i love sk8rs. especially my boyfriend. ive been through a lot with my friends and school. im pretty good at giving advice and im pretty honest. i hope i can help. luv, sk8r luvr
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me and my boyfriend have been together a year the 15th of this month and i have no idea what to get him. i wanna get him something cute or do something cute for him without spending over $100. do you have any cute ideas for me? itd be greatly appreciated. (link)
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well, doing something "cute" for a guy is kinda hard. but i know my boyfriend always thinks im "cute" when im funny. try making a joke, but not about him, that might not go well. bowling is "cute". its not just fun, but when a girl is trying to bowl guys think its "cute". guys always get girls stuffed animals, chocolate, flowers, jewelry, ect. maybe you should try getting him something like that. its "CUTE". i hope i helped.
luv,
sk8rluvr
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THERE'S NO GETTING OVER THIS GUY - i mean seriously, we broke up 2 years ago, 2 YEARS, and ever since..ive done everything possible, everything you're supposed to do, to get over a person,... burnt his stuff, cried, talked to friends about it, gotten closure, dated other guys, you name it - ive done it! YET, im not over him. I think about him all the time, i still love him and still need him, and still dream about marrying him ten years from now, i havn't let go.. even though ive tried, so hard, for two years, im beginning to think i'll never get over him, i dont know what to do, he's moved on, his screenname is always about a new girl, h flirts like crazy, has fun, and at the same time has deep meaningful relationships, HE'S MOVED ON so howcome i can't? all along i knew i loved him more than he loved me and it meant more to me than it meant to him, so i knew it would take some more time for me.. but he got over me in a matter of days, IT'S BEEN 2 YEARS FOR ME. help me please. (link)
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honey, dont panic on us. maybe you should make a list of everything you still like about this guy. If he was your first true love maybe you wont ever get over him. i havent truly stopped crushing on my first true love and it has been five years, dang i didnt realize it has been that long. anyways, maybe hes not really over you. next time hes single, ask him back out. who knows, he might still like you and yall can get married ten years from now. i hope i helped.
luv,
sk8rluvr
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14/f
okay well my friend said she didnt like this guy anymore but i like him a lot. he is everything that i look for in a guy and i am everything he looks for in a girl. would it be rude to start flirting with him.would it be mean if i dated him. i dont want to ruin our friendship. (link)
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wow i went through the exact same thing. my friend went out with a guy for two weeks. she dumped him because he thought i would be better for him and he liked me more. finally after a while i got her blessing to date him. she is not happy about it at all and always rubs it in my face that he was hers first even though ive now been going out with him for 3 months. it would definately be akward going out with him if your friend did first, but if she didnt then go for it. it wont be as akward. yalls friendship might get a little shaky like my friendship has. but i think she will get over it. i hope i helped. luv,
sk8rluvr
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There is this guy I have a huge crush on, and Im almost 100% positive that he feels that same way too. Only, he has a girlfriend.
They have been going out for 2 months and he barely gives her any attention. I rarely ever see them talking, and we all hang out. But I get the biggest vibe that he has a crush on me too. What should I do?
Wait around? Or should I say something? (link)
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I think you need to back off. Not to be rude or anything. But I know my friend likes my boyfriend and my boyfriend likes my friend. I cant stand it and if I ever lost him to her I would explode. Im already crushed and I wouldnt want to be anymore. I think you need to let this guy have his space. He has a girlfriend. But if you honestly think you can live with yourself in the end then go ahead and make a move. Whats the worst that can happen? His girlfriend would be crushed? I know I didnt help much but I answered honestly. I hope I did help a little though.
luv,
sk8rluvr
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hello is it possible for you to have a pimple in your ear? Because this morning i woke up and there was kind of a bump in my ear it hurts reall bad when i touch. I can touch a part of my ear where the bump is kind of my and it will kind of hurt. Is it a pimple? Please tell me soon this thing is really bugging the hell out of me and it hurts like a bitch. thanks please help!! :( (link)
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you probably have a pimple in your ear.
sorry, but just keep cleaning it. pro active really works. maybe you should get some. but yes, it probly is a pimple. dont mess with it and if it gets worse see a doctor. hope i helped. luv,
sk8rluvr
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15/f
I like my brother's friend (17 years old), and he's really nice to me (says things like "You're magic" and "You're on fire") and he always opens my doors.
But he doesn't look at me much (unless he's talking to me)...even when he's sitting directly across from me, or when it's just me, my brother, and him. When I point something out to my brother, he looks at where I point but doesn't look at me.
By the way, he's very outgoing.
So, why doesn't he look at me? I'm not sure if he hates or likes me. And, could he like me? (link)
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Hmm... maybe you should talk to him. He might be to scared to look at you because he likes you. I know when i really like someone and dont think they know i dont look at them. I doubt he hates you, especially if he says your magic or on fire. im like half a year younger than you, but trust me i know what im talking about. i liked my brothers friend. hes sixteen, im fourteen. i wasnt sure if he liked me and i never talked to him about it. i just dont like him anymore and recently found out he likes me. if only i would have talked to him about it. he doesnt hate you, and yes it is possible for him to like you. hope i helped, luv,
sk8rluvr
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can someone tell me what 'kk' means? When I chat to some of my friends on msn they say kk, or like if i write them an email. can you please tell me what this means?? thanx (link)
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kk means ok. luv, sk8rluvr
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Ive been with my boyfriend for a while now and I love him more than anything but here lately im afraid to lose him I always think he can do soo much better than me like im not good enough for him what do i do. (link)
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Well, if he didnt love you, he wouldnt be with you right now. Look at the bright side. Youre with him. Not some other girl, but YOU. Talk to your boyfriend. I'm sure he loves you. I have felt the exact same before. I just made the most of what I had and took advantage of it. So you should do the same. You should try trusting him and believing in yourself. Nobody can do better than someone who truly believes they are better. Good Luck.
luv,
sk8rluvr
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me and my boyfriend ((we are both in 7th grade)) have been going out for 1 1/2 months. i have kissed him a few times but he always plans it. i feel like he cant like just kiss me when we are together, is there anyways you can help me find a way to get him to get comfortable enough to do that? i really really love him and so does he and i have kissed him a few times but a lot of his friends are saying he wants to or he is going to make out with me next time we hang out. i have never done that before so...how do you make out? any pointers or tips? i have asked a question about how to kiss once and someone sent me this amazing website but i lost it! if yall know a a website, that would be great
thanks in advance! (link)
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if your not ready to make out then dont. you cant rush it. you should put more time into yall going out before you say you love him. i understand that right now thats how you feel but give it some time. maybe you should ask your boyfriend about kissing. hes probably just as nervous as you are. the only thing i can say about pointers or tips is to just go with it. i dont believe there is a such thing as a good kisser or a bad kisser. your boyfriend should just be happy he gets to kiss u. good luck, i hope i helped.
luv,
sk8r luvr
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my friend and i both like the same guy. we arent really close or anything. I dont want to "fight over him" but how do I show him i like him without being tooooooooo flirty, before she does? should i talk to his best friend who is also my close friend? i think taht might be messy tho.. (link)
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well, i think you should talk to his friend. especially if he is your friend too. if your scared to talk, you shouldnt be scared to flirt. it can win some hearts. good luck,
luv,
sk8r luvr
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okay what is the best hairstyle?I'm going out with a gal next month and I have tried dozens of hairstyles which i liked but which one is the best through a girl's perspective?
i know different hairstyles suits different guys but there are some that suits most guys like either skater shaggy type or spiky mohawk or liberty spikes or emo combover...so what do you suggest?
anyways,here is my appearance first. I have black hair(asian),i have dark eyebrows,oval black eyes which are not typical small chinese,it's average size and curly eyelashes.oval face.i can't describe my lips or nose,but it's nothing special,just average and I just did snakebites,and I have one gauge ear on my right. so what do you girls suggest? (link)
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ok, everything depends on how old you are. if ur young and hot i would go with the straight sk8r look. if your older you should go with emo.
good luck
luv,
sk8r luvr
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all my life ive been the typical nice guy i recently got out of a relationship that i gave everything i had brought her everything she wanteed talked to her everytime she need comfort even though it meant not hanging out with my friends as much as i wanted to and really sacraficing things i enjoy doing because she wanted to spend quality time and now that im out of this relationship i feel so betrailed to puruse another relationship with another girl that ive been friends with a long time and i feel that if i went out with her it might just be a rebound from the last girl i went out with and that wouldn't be fair to her so what should i do should i go out with her or not (link)
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Honey,
Depending on your age I really can't say much. But I can say that you tried your best with your last relationship. If your girlfriend took advantage of you, that isn't your fault. I wouldn't personally look at it as a rebound. If you like this girl you should go out with her. Maybe just giving it a shot wouldn't hurt. Things might go well and you could be happy with the results. I'm not gonna lie. Things could also go bad, but I would consider going out with her. Smile even if it has a bad outcome.
love
sk8rluvr
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Okay well There is this Kid in my grade and his name is Chris. I really like him but like i dont think i like him as a boy friend just a REALLY good friend well anways...he is amazingly cute and he is in every single one of my classes. I knew him before school started because we were getting our sports physicals together and we had a conversation. It wasnt really a big one though it was Just like hi whats up. I mean at school we somtimes just say like two words to eachother. I think he likes me too because he always stares. But i am WAY to shy to ask him like anything i have basically just been waiting for him to ask me like...my phone number or my screen name or something but he hasnt. I dont know if he is just shy or if he really doesnt like me at all. Please answer back (link)
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I understand you're kinda shy around him since you dont really talk to him. If you really like him start a conversaion. If you like him like a friend but not as a boyfriend then I wouldn't worry about it. But ya, start talking to him. Maybe he's doing the same thing you are and is just waiting to see what you have to say.
luv,
sk8rluvr
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14/f
I've fallen for this boy but hes in 7th *im in 8th* and i know age is just a number but since hes younger than me and i never really talk to him except for in two classes, i dont really know about him like if he has a girlfriend or if he would ever go out with me. i dont rly have any friends in that grade that would know except for one. i could ask her but she would make a big deal about it. any advice? (link)
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Well maybe you should talk to him. I mean more and about different stuff than normal. Make something up like "One of my friends told me you had a crush on me. Is it true?" Something like that could work for you to see if he likes you. To find out if he has a girlfriend, your best bet would probably be to ask him or one of his friends. Those people would know. Good Luck Luv,
sk8rluvr! Smile
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There is this guy in my English class. I'm new at the school and I'm really shy so I only have a few friends so far. The guy likes someone else but I have a huge crush on him already. I just wanna be friends with him but don't know what to say and I don't want to look wierd to him because I'm new and all and he doesn't know me exactly.... So can somebody help me/give me advice/tips on how to talk to him and what about?
--Thanks (link)
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I've been through this. Well try to get him to notice you by maybe impressing him. Maybe you could get some of your friends to talk to him and then you could do what he likes to find in a girl. Or maybe you could become friends with his friends and get some info. on him. But honestly my best answer would be to become his friend. Act normal around him and then maybe yalls friendship can grow into something more. Smile and Good Luck, Luv,
sk8rluvr!
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me and my b/f have been datin for almost 6 months. hes means so much to me but a lot of the time she doesnt treat me that well. im a freshman thie year and was considering breakin up wit him b/c i never see him and just felt too tired dwon.but then i chagned my mind and figuared i really loved him. but today this kid who knows him and me came up ot me and said that he wasnt breakin up wit me because he wanted to move on...i was feelin the same thing but i like him so much still. i sent him a text saying that we needed to talk and he said ill pass! and i said..were over.ur friend jeff told me everything..and he said..yull get far listenin ot him...i mean i ended a really long realtionship wit this guy and im not sure if i should beg for him back or just move on....help me pleeeease =).thanks so much (link)
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Wow! It looks like your problem is similar to the problems of most teenage relationships. Six months is a long time. I understand that, but you're only a freshman. I wouldn't BEG for him, but maybe work your way back into yalls relationship. Try to get him to talk to you, but dont enforce it or you could make things worse. Are you sure you really love him if he's talking bad behind your back? I dont know him, but I know how you feel. Just fallow your heart and dont push things. Good Luck, Luv,
sk8rluvr!
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Wow okay .. i have a tough love life.. maybe just even a tough life period. Okay i love this boy & we went out like 3 times.. hes new to my school this year but omg he is sooo cuteee !! we went out a few times but when we did we had some PROBLEMS . Like ahhh i went through them all just for him. I really love him. Heres the catch though, i don't think he likes me anymore. Like all the girls like him & i dry every single day over him. Like at school when we went out he kinda ignored me alot but at home hes the sweetest boy ever.Idk why he does that though. Well at school now since we broke up he barleyy looks at me or talks to me.. but i do see him glance at me a few times.He asked this girl out that i don't care too much for & now they ain't goin out cause shes scared of me & i wenyt off on her.. the point is i can't get him off my mind & i love him with all my heart . more then anything. How do i get over him.. ? Sorry this question might be a little confusing but its hard to sort out you know? k thanks (link)
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Try to get over him by liking another guy. Earase him from your email and diary. Put up any pictures you have of him. Try to forget what you had with him until he doesn't even cross your mind anymore. If you still think about him you're NOT over him. Once you can go a day with out him in your head bring him back. Maybe then you can be friends. And just friends.
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Is it whrong to like your brother if your addopted and your noit really brother and sister? (link)
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Maybe. A small crush is fine but if you're obsessing over him I would think it is wrong. No matter what you have to say about it, he is still your brother. Think about the consenquinces. Then make up your own mind.
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