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breakin up...
me and my b/f have been datin for almost 6 months. hes means so much to me but a lot of the time she doesnt treat me that well. im a freshman thie year and was considering breakin up wit him b/c i never see him and just felt too tired dwon.but then i chagned my mind and figuared i really loved him. but today this kid who knows him and me came up ot me and said that he wasnt breakin up wit me because he wanted to move on...i was feelin the same thing but i like him so much still. i sent him a text saying that we needed to talk and he said ill pass! and i said..were over.ur friend jeff told me everything..and he said..yull get far listenin ot him...i mean i ended a really long realtionship wit this guy and im not sure if i should beg for him back or just move on....help me pleeeease =).thanks so much
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If he doesn't treat you right, you're better off without him. Move on.
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I dont quite understand who broke up with who. but all i can say is that you have to follow your heart. if you love him and want to be with him go back to him if not maybe you should move on. I can decide for you, but if you think its over then it probably is. you had six months and thats a lot. and if you keep wanting him/not wanting him, changing your mind then you just seem like you want your cake and want to eat it too. it doesnt work that way sorry. good luck. you sound like a great person and I dont know this guy but i hope all this stuff i said helps!!
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when your confused, as to whether making the choice of moving on or begging, its best to just wait a bit and let your head clear. that happened to me and i ended up back wit the guy, but it wasnt because i missed him, it was because i needed closure. that may be what you need. so wait like a week before you make any drastic decisions, as for now move on, but if your heart is saying get back w/ him then listen. even if it doesnt work out, you should atleast talk things out in a civil way. good luck!
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if you truly do still love him and want to make things right, i think you should talk to him about giving the relationship another chance! dont beg because that just makes things harder..and if it doesnt seem like hes gonna treat you any better if you got back together then maybe its not worth it..you deserve to be happy and treated right so just talk to him about how he feels and if he seems like he would put his heart into the relationship and u would too..things could definetely work out! oh and by the way the fact that he was telling his friends about that and jeff was the one to say something is VERY wrong. dont let yourself get walked all over and always stand up for yourself even though sometimes its hard. well just follow your heart and follow through with what you feel you need to do..i hope everything goes well!
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hey jess (its lauren)
well you know what i think you should do. i believe jeff he would tell me he was lying. i know how hard it is going to be but honey i think you should move on. i love you so much your my best friend and i would never steer you wrong. he has like no respect for you. he didnt even talk to you when he saw you and now he wont even call you back i know you love him but does he love you back? i really dont mean that to hurt you i just never heard you say that he told you he loved you. if you do move on, it will take time, you wont feel right with other guys, hell you might not want to be with other guys, i know you said you could never feel this way about someone else but once you eventually get over him i think you can. i think there is a soul mate for everyone and he just isnt yours. i'm sorry this is probably hard to read but i'm your best friend and i just want whats best for you, i just want you to be happy and if you stay with him you wont be happy, if you move on you wont be happy for a little while, but eventully you will be. its better to end it now before its been 2 years of you going out and he ends it abrubtly if that happens you will be in much worse shape then you would be if you moved on now. i love you and whatever you do is okay but this is what i think you should do. ill see you monday...talk to you later...
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Every couple has their fights/arguments. I have been dating my bf for 3 months, we have small little arguments but nothing extreme. If you feel like you really love him then you need to talk to him. You can NEVER trust what anyone says to you, believe me, from experience, I know. It seems that he respects you very little. You need to confess your true feelings to him, if he doesn't listen.. then it's his loss. Move on. You don't need him. You could definitely find someone else and if he doesn't care for your feelings then he doesn't deserve your time. Good luck to you and blessed be.
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Wow! It looks like your problem is similar to the problems of most teenage relationships. Six months is a long time. I understand that, but you're only a freshman. I wouldn't BEG for him, but maybe work your way back into yalls relationship. Try to get him to talk to you, but dont enforce it or you could make things worse. Are you sure you really love him if he's talking bad behind your back? I dont know him, but I know how you feel. Just fallow your heart and dont push things. Good Luck, Luv,
sk8rluvr!
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