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me and my freind and her old crush
14/f
okay well my friend said she didnt like this guy anymore but i like him a lot. he is everything that i look for in a guy and i am everything he looks for in a girl. would it be rude to start flirting with him.would it be mean if i dated him. i dont want to ruin our friendship.
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i really like the fact that you are considerate of your friend, thats sweet.
but if she said she didn't like him anymore, she's telling you that he's free to do whatever. so flirt with him doll :]
& if she gets mad, just simply tell her that she said she didn't like him & that you do, and she should be okay with it.
good luck
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It would be rude and mean if you just did it infront of her face without her knowing and everything, so this is why you should probably talk to your frienda bout it first. Just sit down with her and ask her if she's really sure she's over him, and whenever she says ( yes, hopefully! ) yes or no and asks why, just explain to her that over time, you've sort of developed feelings for him, and wanted to know if it was alright if you asked him out.
If she says yes, great! Then just start flirting with him and hanging out with him more and everything and get to know him better, and hopefully feelings'll progress enough where you two'll go out together. :)
If she says no, respect her decision and at least wait awhile for her to get over him. Getting over relationships can take time, and even though girls tend to say their over the guy, they might not be. So just be there for her and help her move on, and whenever the time comes where she is over him for real, then maybe talk to her about your feelings for him and everything. If I was in her shoes, I would be very happy that my friend decided to wait for me to get over him instead of jumping all over him behind my back like most girls probably would.
I hope I helped.
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well tell your friend that you are interested in this boy, and rilly ask her if she is rilly over him, because you dont want to ruin your relationship. Rilyy talk 2 her about him. Then she will rilly come out!
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Maybe you should clear it with your friend first, make it obvious to her that you like that guy, but ask her first, it'll make her feel alot better.
As for the guy, go for it!
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since you're friends, explain to him little by little your feelings for him. prioritize in your talk that you really don't want your friendship be ruined. he'll sure prevail his feelings for you. do this in perfect time, manner, and place...
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wow i went through the exact same thing. my friend went out with a guy for two weeks. she dumped him because he thought i would be better for him and he liked me more. finally after a while i got her blessing to date him. she is not happy about it at all and always rubs it in my face that he was hers first even though ive now been going out with him for 3 months. it would definately be akward going out with him if your friend did first, but if she didnt then go for it. it wont be as akward. yalls friendship might get a little shaky like my friendship has. but i think she will get over it. i hope i helped. luv,
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