Question Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 3:28 am
all my life ive been the typical nice guy i recently got out of a relationship that i gave everything i had brought her everything she wanteed talked to her everytime she need comfort even though it meant not hanging out with my friends as much as i wanted to and really sacraficing things i enjoy doing because she wanted to spend quality time and now that im out of this relationship i feel so betrailed to puruse another relationship with another girl that ive been friends with a long time and i feel that if i went out with her it might just be a rebound from the last girl i went out with and that wouldn't be fair to her so what should i do should i go out with her or not
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sk8rluvr answered Wednesday September 20 2006, 6:26 pm: Honey,
Depending on your age I really can't say much. But I can say that you tried your best with your last relationship. If your girlfriend took advantage of you, that isn't your fault. I wouldn't personally look at it as a rebound. If you like this girl you should go out with her. Maybe just giving it a shot wouldn't hurt. Things might go well and you could be happy with the results. I'm not gonna lie. Things could also go bad, but I would consider going out with her. Smile even if it has a bad outcome.
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Mackenzie answered Wednesday September 20 2006, 9:41 am: I know you didn't mention how long ago the two of you broke up, but if your last relationship was truly something special, getting over her would be a task. If you really like this new girl, you would have liked her all along. If it came about all of the sudden directly after the past relationship ended, then it's obviously not her you're after but the feeling of simply having somebody. If you're unsure whether or not your feelings are true, don't act on them. It would be very selfish to hold or begin ties to a relationship when the strings are not as solid as they should be. If you should feel that this new girl is really who you want, do everybody a favor and slow it down. If you feel this new girl has potential, she will be there in a few weeks. Why not take a break and learn to breathe easy again? [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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