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My Boyfriend
Ive been with my boyfriend for a while now and I love him more than anything but here lately im afraid to lose him I always think he can do soo much better than me like im not good enough for him what do i do.
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Sweetie, let him be the judge of that. I know from personal experiance that if you say "you can do so much better than me" too many times they begin to believe that they can do better, and they will find someone who isnt so negative. The last thing most guys want to do is constantly repeat themselves. If they say youre good enough, you are. Take it from someone who has alot of experiance on the heartbreak issue.. Dont let him slip away. Do whatever you can to hold it together and just let everything go and have fun. Thats what relationships need. Just have fun with him, love him, do whatever. =]
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Hey I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and I feel that way too. I even tell him...."you can do so much better" but he tells me he couldnt and that he really loves me. If your guy says the same thing trust him. Being so negative about things can ruin a relationship.
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I use to feel the same way when me and my bf started dating. I was 16 at he time and he was 21.I always wondered what was he doing with someone like me when he could of been with someone his own age. I am still with him 3 years later and now the only thing that I can think of is what would he do without me. It doesn't matter what you look like. When a guy finally grows up all he realizes is how much he feels comfortable around you. You need to ask him about his true feelings toward you. Ask him why you is going out with you. For example is it because how pretty you are or intelligent. things like that. I hope that this helped you a little.
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Well, if he didnt love you, he wouldnt be with you right now. Look at the bright side. Youre with him. Not some other girl, but YOU. Talk to your boyfriend. I'm sure he loves you. I have felt the exact same before. I just made the most of what I had and took advantage of it. So you should do the same. You should try trusting him and believing in yourself. Nobody can do better than someone who truly believes they are better. Good Luck.
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ok baby this is that boyfriend of yours :D and i am gonna answer do what everyone that is on here has said you should ask me if you want to know why i want to be with you and i why i chose you is becouse i love you baby your beautiful your so sweet and you never do anything to hurt me you everything to me baby and i would never do anything to hurt you baby i really dont think i can do better than you i have never found anyone as good as you and that treats me like you do i love you baby and i hope this helps you a little.
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okay, well i had that feeling before belive me. okay first you should deffanly think about things on a positive attitude say to yourself. "hes with me so he loves me" or something like that. cause really, im sure he loves you and he probably thinks the same thing. this feeling happens a lot with girls. its normal. but you need to try to not think like that, its a major turn off it guys!!!
good luck!!
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This happens with alot of girls whenever they find a really great guy. Especially ( I don't know if you do, I'm not saying you do ) if they already might have low self-esteem to begin with, which most girls already do.
I mean you should already know that your boyfriend loves you! He's with you, isn't he? So there's already so many qualities about you he likes, otherwise he wouldn't have gone out with you in the first place.
If you're really feeling sad about this, just ask him then why he asked you out in the first place, like quality-wise, and what made you stand out. And I know he's going to have alot of great things to say, which I'm sure'll boost your self-confidence right up, and make you feel loads better.
Just remember - out of all the other girls out there, he chose YOU. So there's something about you that he finds amazing, that all the other girls lack.
I hope I helped!
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most people with low self-esteem do this a lot. i tend to still do this with my boyfriend & we've been together for 14 months.
apparently your boyfriend obviously likes you & thinks you are good enough for him, or he wouldn't be with you.
don't constantly sob over this & learn to boost up your self-confidence.
ask him(but only once) what he really thinks about you, and his answer should & most likely will make you feel a lot better <33
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