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What personality traits do you look for in friends. I have servere depression. It's been so long since I've been...sane. Ha. I just need a little help getting back to my old self. Thanks. (link)
I suffer from depression too. I never wanted to tell anyone because I was to embarressed about it because I thought that people would look at me different. I don't care if they do anymore because I am my own person. If you have a friend or meet new people tell them about it. If they like you for you then they won't even bother with it and you know that they are the ones you want for friends.


OKay well im 14/f... lemme give you some backround... my dad has cancer and he gets chemo every other week.... its realli stressful... i have a nice house and a loveing family... but for a while now i have been a cutter... yes i know it pathetic... but i havent done it to often anymore... ive been thinking of suicide alot.like how i would do it... is this normal?? ive gotten to the point in my life were im not afriad to do it anymore.. like before i would have never gone through with it cause i was to scared.. i dont wanna get profeccional help.. i cant let my family know whats going on.. im just realli confused and i dont know what to do anymore..please help (link)
I use to cut myself before and I even had to go to the hospital once before for an over dose. It was the stupidest thing that I ever did. No matter how stressful life gets don't take it out on yourself. Talk to someone about it. If you have a close friend talk to them about just make sure it is someone that you trust. It is normal to think about suicide exspecially for teens because they get so upset or if they like someone and they don't like them they think that its the end of the world and thats the easiest way to end it. Don't let this happen to you stay strong. No parent ever wants to go to their kids funeral. Its a parents worst nightmare. I hope that this was helpful to you and make the right choices.


when you go to a taning bed, do you tan with clothes or a swimsuit or underwear or what? and do you have to have tanning goggles or anything? (link)
It doesn't matter what you tan in if its close to summer they will tan in their bikinis to get a tan line started but if they are going to prom then they sometimes go nude so that they don't get any lines. Its your choice. You have to atleast have tanning goggles with you because they will ask to see them. You don't have to wear them though even though they say if you don't it can damage you eyes. Good luck.


Is there any food from the McDonalds menu that is SLIGHTLY HEALTHY: such as a salad, that comes with the monopoly stickers?

I know that mcDonalds is just very unhealthy overall, but what are the healthiest things on the menu (that come with the stickers? (link)
everything at McDonalds is bad for you. The saleds are even really bad for you. If you have to get something I would say the chicken nuggets because they are all white meat.


i have no idea where exactly to insert a tampon. stupid i know lol but help? ive yet to get one in cause every time i try i just end up jabbing in random places. (link)
I know that this sounds descusting but it helps. Put one leg on the toilet and use a mirror to look up there and it will be a lot easier to learn how to put one in if you can see where it goes. Just be patient.



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Are the lyrics in Christina Aguilera's song "Hurt" about her father? Did he die or something? (link)
He use to beat and abuse her mother.


I'm a freshman in highschool, and I've started hearing more and more about people drinking, smoking, doing drugs, etc. I don't know if it's just my school, or if it's normal... but it seems like if you don't drink, people are like, "OMG?! YOU DON'T DRINK?!" Is it like that elsewhere? Or is it just my school? Because I'm hearing a lot about it now. Also, why do so many people do these things to themselves? What to they get out of it? A hangover? They like that? Can't they have fun without getting drunk or high? I don't get it. Sorry so many questions, thanks in advance. (link)
yes this is everywhere now. Kids get talked into things from peer pressure. They don't think for themselves anymore, whatever everybody else is doing they decide to do it. Its not kool either. You just make an ass out of yourself when your drunk. Some people have so much stress and stuff like that that they think if they get drunk that it will just go away but believe me it doesn't. Hopes this helped and that you make the right decison about everything. Good luck in school.


Basically, I've sort of broken my cell phone, can I get it upgraded/replaced without paying anything? (link)
As long as you have insurence on it. They should fix it or replace it for free. I pay $6.00 extra a month for mine and that covers everything. If you don't have insurence then I think that you will have to pay for a new one or to get it fixed.


well i have a problem. i'm a girl 15 years old if that helpes. and i'm like totally into gay boys. i always watch video clips on the internet and everything cause i think it's really hot. so what can i do to stop being like that cause my friend thinks it's weird and i know it is weird.
help? (link)
You are not strange. You are still young. I think its because you are curious about that stuff. There are alot of females out there that find that stuff. For all you know how do you know that your friend doesn't look at this stuff and i just making it seem like she doesn't. I hope that this helped a little and don't think that its wierd because it's not.


Ive been with my boyfriend for a while now and I love him more than anything but here lately im afraid to lose him I always think he can do soo much better than me like im not good enough for him what do i do. (link)
I use to feel the same way when me and my bf started dating. I was 16 at he time and he was 21.I always wondered what was he doing with someone like me when he could of been with someone his own age. I am still with him 3 years later and now the only thing that I can think of is what would he do without me. It doesn't matter what you look like. When a guy finally grows up all he realizes is how much he feels comfortable around you. You need to ask him about his true feelings toward you. Ask him why you is going out with you. For example is it because how pretty you are or intelligent. things like that. I hope that this helped you a little.

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I DESPERATELY need a way to clean out my closet and my room, and keep it that way. Right now its SUCH a war zone. Clothes fill it, just laying in a heap on the floor. They all need to be cleaned and I need an organized way to do this. (link)
You need to go through all your clothes and get rid of the ones you don't need. Get some bins and put the clothes that you don't wear to often in them. I have this problem all the time. I hope that it works for you.




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