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well i have a problem. i'm a girl 15 years old if that helpes. and i'm like totally into gay boys. i always watch video clips on the internet and everything cause i think it's really hot. so what can i do to stop being like that cause my friend thinks it's weird and i know it is weird.
help?
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You are not strange. You are still young. I think its because you are curious about that stuff. There are alot of females out there that find that stuff. For all you know how do you know that your friend doesn't look at this stuff and i just making it seem like she doesn't. I hope that this helped a little and don't think that its wierd because it's not.
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i promise that there isn't anything wrong with that, i know tons of girls who like to watch guy-on-guy action. just be glad you aren't wanting to watch girl-on-girl ;)
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You have nothing wrong with yourself...thats just what you like...thats not a bad thing....if you are really worried about it then you can just not be in to them but if you cant stop liking them that is not a problem.
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its definately not weird. don't worry about it. thats just your friends opinion. everyone has different opinions. i know this answer isnt really helpful, but i try. but just because you're friend thinks its weird, doesn't mean you have to lose your interest in gay guys, i'm the same way, i think some of them are hot. :D hope this helped.
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it's not weird. lots of people are into that kind of stuff, your friend is just too prude to understand. Gay guys are hot. thats a known fact in life. did you know that the majority of really hot guys are gay? bet u didnt!! haha. it's not weird. to some extent. But if you really wanna stop all you have to do is restrict yourself from watching or just thinking about it. distract yourself with other things like sports or myspace. haha good luck with that. any other questions just holla.
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Its hypocrisy really, if you were a man and were turned-on by lesbians, no one would think it was odd - you would be amazed how many men have lesbian fantasies (and don't realize the difference between Lesbian and Bisexual lol). Its a strange world we live in, no doubt.
There are lots of women that are either attracted to the idea of 2 men being together, or they are simply bisexual. I'm straight, and I have had a woman ask my roomate and I if we were 'more than friends', as she started rubbing up on the two of us. We said 'Umm, no' and she almost ran out of our apartment, probably embarassed what we would think. We had always joked around together, but she apparantly took us seriously...but anyways...it was kinda sad. She took a helluva chance opening up to the 2 of us, and she was surely less apt to do so after that encounter. At least we were able to stay friends with her.
You aren't wierd, and you are hardly alone. And short of intense therapy, you probably wont be able to change what you are attracted to overnight. If this is really more than a passing fancy for you, and you think it might be indicative of your sexual orientation, then you will probably have to get used to the idea of looking for bisexual men. It does suck that you are having to deal with this at 15 though, but I would advise you to keep this to yourself as much as possible, as most people your age aren't mature enough or experienced enough to do anything but ostracize you. Once out of High School, you can branch out and not worry so much.
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