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I've had a rough life.
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Gender: Female
Age: 19
AIM: breaking christy
Member Since: October 23, 2006
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Last Update: July 25, 2008
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Ok,
There are too guys that i have feelings for

my ex
and my current bf
I have never cheated and i never will
but,
i dont know who to be with
my ex is a HUGE pot head but i really care for him still, and he recently told me he still loves me

but my current boyfriend is so amazing but i dont know i think that hes too good to be true and that im not good enough, and im stuck in the middle becuase me and my ex have been through sooo much together and i dont know he thinks were destined to be together but i dont know what i should do. HELP!!! (link)
Ok I was in this situation I actually left my ex for someone else. If you left your ex then there was something in the back of your mind that let him go. I let my ex go but I had feelings for him for another 8 months after that while I was with someone else and let me tell you it affected me and my new boyfriend alot. Its something you need to really think about because I ended up hurting the both of their feelings. I also ended up being alone in the end. Love is tricky.


Ive been with my boyfriend for a while now and I love him more than anything but here lately im afraid to lose him I always think he can do soo much better than me like im not good enough for him what do i do. (link)
Hey I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and I feel that way too. I even tell him...."you can do so much better" but he tells me he couldnt and that he really loves me. If your guy says the same thing trust him. Being so negative about things can ruin a relationship.


i cannot keep a bf for longer then two weeks. ill start out liking these guys then BAM i break up with them..then i want them back && its too late so i am screwed..and i learned from a good friend how bad it hurts when girls play guys and ill just not like them anymore..it sucks..what is wrong with me?what can i do?

ps my last "relationship" lasted a day and a half (link)
Hey I had the same problem. Well I'm only 15 and you know how some teenage girls can be these days... but I had many boyfriends in the last few years and they only last maybe a few days or the longest a week. I had the same question you did and i just didn't understand. I'm now with someone else and we passed our 7 month mark. Hes the guy I finally found and stuck to because my feelings for him just wouldnt change. I guess what it all comes down to is that you just haven't found that guy who you can really stick to yet. It takes some time to find your guy but he will show up eventually.

I once talked to a friend about the whole few day relationship thing and my problem was that if i talked to a guy and they showed me signs of liking me i would like them even if i didnt TRUELY have the realy feelings for me. then once we would actually go out i would dump them realizing umm yeah i dont like this person. Other problems could be fear. Fear to where things may leave. I just wish you the best of luck to finding someone you can stick with. :]




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