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HELP PLEASE! My heart is torn in two places and idk which way to go
Ok,
There are too guys that i have feelings for
my ex
and my current bf
I have never cheated and i never will
but,
i dont know who to be with
my ex is a HUGE pot head but i really care for him still, and he recently told me he still loves me
but my current boyfriend is so amazing but i dont know i think that hes too good to be true and that im not good enough, and im stuck in the middle becuase me and my ex have been through sooo much together and i dont know he thinks were destined to be together but i dont know what i should do. HELP!!!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Consider this.. why did you and your ex break up in the first place? There's a reason why it happened, and why you moved on to this new guy, who as you say is treating you very well.
Ask yourself if the reason you'd go back to you ex, would be for love. Or could it be comfort? Sometimes people cling to things that feel familiar to us-- because it's easier to deal with what we already know, and have already had.
If it is more than comfort, then it's only right to break up with your current boyfriend. I commend you for not letting cheating become an option. Many people in your situation wouldn't know how to handle it.
Make a list. Boyfriend #1. Boyfriend #2. Included in this list? Risks and benefits of being with either one of them. Don't make your decision based on how many risks they have compared to benefits.. just let yourself absorb all the information, so that you can make a logical, and happy decision for yourself.
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Ok I was in this situation I actually left my ex for someone else. If you left your ex then there was something in the back of your mind that let him go. I let my ex go but I had feelings for him for another 8 months after that while I was with someone else and let me tell you it affected me and my new boyfriend alot. Its something you need to really think about because I ended up hurting the both of their feelings. I also ended up being alone in the end. Love is tricky.
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