Ok so i was going out with this guy for 4 days and the 4 night her broke up with me. well i found out earlier that day him and this other girl were flirting mayjorly. well when the girl found out i was going out with him she was pissed because she liked him. so she cussed me out over the internet and when we broke up that night i told her she could have him and she said i dont want him. well the next day i didnt go to school because i felt like crap and she started telling everyone i didnt go because i was afried of her ( which wasnt true) so now i am scared to go to school tomorrow because of what happenend my mom told me to tell her to go to hell but i dont want to make it worst then it already is. so what do i do ? and by the way the guy left me for the girl.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Work & School category? Maybe give some free advice about: School? MelLeDisko answered Tuesday October 24 2006, 6:40 pm: Go to school! Who cares what all those other people think? If they start talking and come up to you with the problem, just give them the truth. Just be like,"Well, I guess they liked eachother, so me and him broke up. I don't know why she's telling you guys I'm afraid of her, I'm not. I mean, I don't even really care me and him broke up. It was only four days. I didn't have time to GET emotionally attached to him or anything."
And the more you tell people, they'll spread that around between eachother, and they'll all hear the truth sooner or later of what really happened. If they ask why you missed school, just be like,"I felt like crap. I mean, I know I wasn't emotionally attached, but breaking up with someone still isn't the best feeling in the world, you know. Especially breaking up with someone because they were off flirting with another."
And then just ignore the whole situation, and show her she means nothing to you by coming up with no response and just not hearing whatever bullcrap she has to say. The rumors all will eventually subside, and it'll be yesterday's news, and something new'll happen and everyone will forget it ever even happened between the two of you.
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