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I found her, Does she care?
14/f
My friend moved to a different state a few years ago and i finally found her, well i mean i looked her up on Myspace and i found her page i messanged her and asked to to be my friend and what i dont understand is she accepted it but she never replied to my message. in it i told her to call me and heave her my phone number and she never called or anything. i asumed she read the message besause im on her friends list now. why hasnt she contacted me bace at all? does she not care about me anymore. we were BEST friends and dont say someting like oh she just shy or something like that because i know her and she is deffanitly not shy to not say something back to me. weve known eachother sence first grade and she moved 4 years ago, we havent talked in i dont even know how long. please what should i do i miss her terribly.
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Ehh. Sometimes things like this happen. I had that happen to me. I was best friends with this girl and then she moved to NH. and im in ohio. It was kind of sad, and we lost touch because she got a new cell and stopped getting online, then i found her on myspace one day and messaged her and she replied, but our friendship is different and we dont have much to say to each other anymore because everything is different. I'd say just let it be. If she wants to respond, she will. Maybe she has been busy and doesnt have time to reply to messages and Im sure she wouldnt accept you if she hated you. She probably is busy in her new life with new friends and everything, just give her some time and im sure things will work itself out. & If it doesnt.. then ehh.. thats part of growing up doll =/
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the same exact thing happened to me. like seriously. except i moved to a different town, like 10 minutes away. for the first month when i moved we kept in contact and stayed with each other, but after that she wouldnt talk to me or anything. she blocked me on aim, and all i would say when i got on was hey. and then i sent her an email telling her how i felt and she said she was sorry and i havent talked to her since. if i ever see her ill just wave at her, and she waves back. its weird cuz we were once best friends also, but things change. sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse. i know this isnt what you want to hear, but move on. its hard to do, trust me, been there done that, but you have to try. its honestly the only thing you CAN do. i defintely didnt want to forget about her, and i know you dont wanna forget about your friend, but you have to. ok maybe not forget about her, but just think of her as another friend. like a friend you never talk to, but shes there. think about all the memories you two had together. and instead of being sad its over, be happy it even happened, and that you met her. its hard to do, but it can be done. im sorry for her treating you like that, like i said, ive been there before. ever since that happened to me, i havent had a best friend since, but dont let that happen to you. go find someone else like you and seek their close friendship. you can do it. if you need ANY more help with this situation, im here and will help.
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Since she has moved, what did you say, it's been four years, has it? That's definetely given her alot of time, to change and grow as a person and make new friends, and new goals in life and new everything and move on from her past friends and everything back at home, sadly.
To tell if she read the message or not ( because you never know, even though she added you as a friend, she might've not read it yet ), just go to your inbox and to the SENT ones, and look at the message you sent her and see if next to it, it says "READ" or not.
And just send her another one being like,"Hey, I miss you so much! What's been up? You have to tell me what you've been up to these past four years, I want to know everything! Knowing you, you're probably giving (wherever) she moved, a great time and meeting so many new people and everything! I don't know if you're busy or anything, but if you ever have the time, please give me a call @ ___________. It'd be really nice to hear your voice again and catch up old times, you know?" And just see what happens from there.
So just give her time and see if she calls or not. I'm sure she wants to, she just might have a really hectic schedule or something, you never know.
I hope I helped.
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she's more than likely made new friends & maybe was just really busy when you sent her that message.
just let her know how much you miss her & would really like to talk to her whenever she has the time, but don't bug her to the point of insanity :]
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