There is this guy I have a huge crush on, and Im almost 100% positive that he feels that same way too. Only, he has a girlfriend.
They have been going out for 2 months and he barely gives her any attention. I rarely ever see them talking, and we all hang out. But I get the biggest vibe that he has a crush on me too. What should I do?
SilkStuy answered Friday October 27 2006, 1:55 am: No, Don't back off, girl! Be a go-getter.
If it's obvious that he likes you, then get him to be alone with you and talk to him.
it's okay, we're all human afterall.
You might never know what lies in store for you and him.
I suggest you do it for him and yourself.
Everyone deserves to be happy. And if the guy really has a crush on you, you'd probably doing his gf a favour by ending the relationhip early.
sk8rluvr answered Thursday October 26 2006, 10:46 pm: I think you need to back off. Not to be rude or anything. But I know my friend likes my boyfriend and my boyfriend likes my friend. I cant stand it and if I ever lost him to her I would explode. Im already crushed and I wouldnt want to be anymore. I think you need to let this guy have his space. He has a girlfriend. But if you honestly think you can live with yourself in the end then go ahead and make a move. Whats the worst that can happen? His girlfriend would be crushed? I know I didnt help much but I answered honestly. I hope I did help a little though.
luv,
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VainTaraLynn answered Thursday October 26 2006, 9:18 pm: If you feel something for him, go for it. Make the first move. You never know if he feels the same way, or if hes waiting around for you to mention something. If it goes unmentioned he might think you dont feel the same for him, and move on. Dont let him slip away, say somethingg :) [ VainTaraLynn's advice column | Ask VainTaraLynn A Question ]
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