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17/f. My vagina itches extremely bad, the discharge is sometimes but NOT always clumpy and white, and when i go to the bathroom, toilet paper sticks to my vagina and it seems as though it makes it itch more. What's wrong? I made an appointment for the gynecologist, but it's so irritating and it's hard to deal with. Is there anything i can do to minimize the itching until i get to the doctors? (link)
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Oh no, Sounds like a yeast infection.
My gf had it. Well, ex gf now. Lol.
The problem with yeast infection is that it keeps coming back, and it's really wise if you could go see a gp immediately. What my gf used to do was to keep the area clean as often as she could, which means going to the toilet every two hours or so, giving it a good wash and it might help to use panty liners right now.
Try not to use soapy products, as it might agitate it further. But if you must, use mild soap. Those scented feminine wash makes it worse, so you might want to avoid that for the time being. :)
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I am a 23 year old female and I was raised Christian in a very religious family. As I grew up and started to form my own opinion I decided to not refer to myself as a Christian. I have not been to church since I turned 18 and moved out. I believe in God 100% but I do not believe in Christianity. I feel as if apart of me doesn't believe in religion. I'm trying to decide if maybe I just haven't been exposed to the right religion. Or maybe I shouldn't classify myself as one religion. Maybe I should just love God, live right, and treat people good and not study one religion. What should I do? (link)
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Too harsh, Sardine.
Religion has always been a sensitive issue for all of us. Coming from a half muslim half catholic family, things could get pretty messy.
I suggest that you do some research on your own because people are more likely to be bias, and would most likely support their own religion. And I meant real research, don't just google it.
And your sentence "maybe I should love God, live right, and treat people good and not study one religion", in my opinion, makes you a better person compared to those guided with religion but holds none of those values you spoke of.
:)
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whats some cute things to whisper in your sweet boys ear after kissing him? (link)
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Is he your son? I'm not sure whether "cute things" will work for guys you're dating. Unless he's a 12 yr old who loves Hello Kitty dolls.
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i am 14 years old and i mansturbate everyday 2-3 times. so is it good or not? (link)
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Err... It's not really healthy actually.
Maybe after you do that, you might have to wait two three days to give it another go.
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25f. for the last two months or so I have had absolutely no sex drive. It is driving my boyfriend crazy. I don't know what the deal is...I never think about it and almost never want it and when I do have sex I just want it to be over. I do not take birth control, I eat healthy, my boyfriend is attractive, and I have not changed my diet. Does anyone know maybe why I am lacking in this department or how to jump start it again? Thanks (link)
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It could be stress related, and your boyfriend isn't really helping.
Being pressured to function is really the worst thing to happen right now. It could be hormonal imbalance, you should try going to the doctor. Maybe sex is painful to you, and these are the withdrawals.
In this case, I feel that you should talk to your boyfriend, and talk about importance of foreplay. But then it could be an infection.
Actually, there's a list of things that you have to personally check. The doctors are the first. They could also help you out in this situation... maybe you give you pills.. relaxant or smth of that sort.
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My ex and I broke up a few months ago. It was a horrible, messy breakup and we aren't speaking. We go to the same school and my friends are also his friends. I think he's over it, but I'm still extremely hurt and depressed. My friends & family are tired of hearing me talk about him, and I'm tired of thinking about him. We had a serious relationship for 2 years, and it's killing me it didn't work out. How do I get over this already? It's ruined friendships and has affected my school work. (link)
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Actually, there's a way, but I need more info.
But here's what you can do. Sometimes, our pride and ego gets in the way, destroying what we've invested and denying how we truly feel. When did you last contact him? Does he know that you're still thinking about him? There are chances that he still do. Modern men are much more sensitive than people think they are. Are you giving him the cold shoulder? Why not talk to him, by his body language and the way he talks you can roughly gauge where he position you in his life? But you should just make a move and talk to him, for two yr's sake. Pride is nothing in a relationship.
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So theres this guy I met this year when school started
Im a Freshamn, 14
He's Sophmore, 16
He's in my favorite class & we talk throughtout the whole class, making the teacher hate us now
So this weekend, we started texting on Saturday like 10am
& we havent stopped since then & its 6:44pm Sunday
{besides sleeping of coarse}
Anyway, today he was like "its amazing that we've texted nonstop all weekend"
Then he was like "your basically the only one of been texting"
This guy is really sweet & cute, but I dont think Im pretty at all
Could this maybe be a sign that he MIGHT possibly just a TAD BIT like me?
Thanks in advance (link)
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Well, when it comes to the matters of the heart, people
don't really know what to expect.
What's ugly to you, may be beautiful to him.
And if it's not about looks, he could be falling for your
personality, which is even better.
I think you should keep it up, hope for the best
and see how things goes. It's far too early to tell.
Could also be an infatuation.
Just enjoy the times you have with him.
And yes, he might possibly like you.
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i was just wondering, how long does it usually take before couples talk about sex? do they even talk about sex? cause i've been dating a guy for almost 4 months...hes such a great guy...the farthest we've gone is making out...but we havent had a "sex talk" yet...and how do you bring it up? i don't really feel comfortable talking about it but i like him so much and i feel so comfortable doing anything but that talk with him....any advice? (link)
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Actually, it depends on how open you are. I talked to a girl about sex the first day we met, but she's very open, and she initiated the whole conversation. You have to learn to be comfortable with the subject, before it pounces on you and give you a bad reaction. You should be able to talk about it with your boyfriend, it's completely natural. Or you should try to hint it as a third person, and maybe you could determine what's his position on the whole subject itself. :)
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what things can girls do when theyre making out with a guy. like, what do guys like. not like LETS GET NAKED but like little tips of stuff like what girls can do
sorry that i worded this very badly.
hope you allll understand haha (link)
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I think the kissing part has been done. You should kiss his neck, too. Necking is awesome as it could bring that sensual feel to the whole making out session. You should lightly moan, too.. drives a man crazy. but please do it lightly, and if you're with an experienced guy, do it like it you mean it. Don't fake the moan. Ears are a sensitive spot, too. A lil' nibble or tonguing.. and you're good to go. :)
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how come in "Take a bow" rihannas eye color is green? Isnt it supposed to be hazel? (link)
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LOL! That's a cute one. Lenses.
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my boyfriend and i have been going out for 7 months and we are so in love with each other we go out every 26th of every month as if it was anniversary wise.we have sex alot but for this past month we havent had sex cuz we barely see eachother. i have a attitude problem i get irritated quick and i get mad quick and i dont know why.. is it because i be stressed? or what (link)
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Hmmm... it could be many things.
I suggest that you should relax and try to figure out
where the problem lies. I mean we know that the problem is you, but we have to know where it's coming from.
Insecurity? Boredom?
It's good that you realise that you have an attitude problem, that's the first step, putting down your ego for something better.
Next step, you need to get some anger management routine going on.
Take some time for yourself, go to a spa, get your nails done and ponder what is it that ticks you off. You have to know the problem to solve it.
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Hi,
I've read a lot of your responses and they seem quite good so lets see how you handle my problem.
OK, I 15/M and have been goin out with my gf for just over a couple of weeks. The problem is she isn't at my school and because it's coming up to GCSEs my parents say i cant have a gf so they dont know and i cant just say to them im going to meet her. Hence, we only get to see each other once or twice a week.
Then there's this other girl. We've been friends for about three years but recently I've started liking her as more than that. We flirt quite a bit and have loads in common, but I'm not sure she likes me back. I decided to leave it when I got together with my gf, but since then we have decided to go to prom together (as my gf could not go with me because she is not at my skwl).
I haven't a clue what to with either girl and would really appriciate any help you can offer.
JD (link)
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I am going to speak yu with harsh reality. It may sound greedly and filled with negativity, but in this world, to each its own.
You are still young(I know you don't think so, but you are)and shouldn't really get too involved with only one partner.
You reminded me of my situation when I was roughly around your age. In fact, it's exactly the same.
Three bestfriend whom I started to have feelings for, and a girlfriend that I just had-but don't really have that bonding the other girl and I share.
But due to me being naive, I sticked it up with my girlfriend, and we stayed on for two years, then broke up because we really didn't have anything in common.
"Having loads in common" in a relationship is essential, JD. I cannot stress the importance enough. It is vital.
I wonder everyday what it would be like if I dumped my girlfriend for my bestfriend till today. Lol.
I suggest you find out whether your friend of 3 yrs have feelings for you. Try to make this discreet so that it would be less awkward for the both of you, if things turned out bad.
Then I would probably choose her instead of the cureent girlfriend.
Then you can go to Prom without feeling guilty,
plus she's in the same school, things are much, much more easier to manage.
Logic, ain't it?
But then again, you have to question yourself, who does your heart belong to?
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I used to draw and paint all of the time but then I lost the passion so I stopped. Just recently I've been having this very heavy urge to draw, but it seems I have a bit of a mind block. I just don't know what to draw! My creative juices have been strained out of me. I have a lot of pent up images but they all seem so blurry and vague that I can't make them out enough to release them onto paper. Is there anything I can do to let them out? I've tried searching for sketches on the internet (google, yahoo, dogpile, etc.) to inspire me but nothing seems to be working for me. Help? Anything would be greatly appriciated. :) (link)
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Hmmm...painting to me, is like a release of emotions, splashes its way through the canvas.
You are much too distracted, you stress yrself on what you are suppose to achieve, or you probably not in the right environment.
Play a song, if it gives you inspiration.
It helps me personally, for it gives me the utmost relaxation, yet stimulates my mental side and lets me run away from reality for that moment.
Hope this helps. =)
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OK this is the situation i broke up with my bf we hadn't been going out long. This girl in my class had liked him all the time we had been going out and about 2 days after we broke up she asked him out (which is really lame!)He said yes and they are going out now should i be angry that it had been only 2 days since we had broken up or should i get over it?
Please help!!!
thanx (link)
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A few days ago, I was having a similar conversation with a few of my girlfriends. About how guys could just straighten themselves up and get another hitch within a day or so. Apparently, women, in general, thinks that we are able to do so without remorse or such, but, personally, I would like to think otherwise. Even though, you both arent together anymore, doesn't mean he doesn't think about you. It's just that he has a firm way of getting back his life together and probably believes that the best way to get rid of those sappy emotions, is to get out there and have a good time. Be it with someone else. It helps- through personal experience.
Answering your question.
You should get over it.
From the sound of it, you're probably a teenager,
and my best advice to you. Don't let these kinda' things drag you down. Go meet other people.
The more people you meet, it gets clearer in the future on who to avoid and who you definitely want to spend the rest of your life with.
These are the essential experiences in life.
*sigh* i miss those days. =(
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Ok i met my now bf on the internet about 2 months ago. At first we just chatted on the web then we started talkin on the phone and so on. But anyway after the first month we broke up for a short time because of our families but i wanted 2 talk 2 him so bad i got on and it just so happened he was talkin 2 another girl. No problem there but then he said he loved her way more than he could ever love me. well i got him back but when i asked him about her he said she was his cousin. and a week ago he called me kayla on the phone. what should i do?
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Wow. First, you could tell him that 70% of birth defects comes from inter family marriages.
That should keep him away from his cousin for a while, until the hormones teases the brains again ~ which by the way, causes a lot of pain in the groin area. Blue balls.
There are many ways to go through this.
1) You could leave him. There are many fishes in the pond and the internet is actually a sea. SO do the math. Pond- Many Fishes. Sea- Oh My Effin God.. There's too many fishes I have to make a time table.
2) The two months period, I know could be very challenging, and breaking up seems to be the hardest thing to do. However, you have to wake up and smell the fart. When you see a no-gooder, give em' the finger and waste your time on smth else, like mapling or manicure. Or you could just do what most non-singles could do. Flirt, Play Psp, or even self-help duet with Maxim or any magazine of yr choice.
3)Maybe he wants to call you Kayla? Kayla is a nice Amazon name.
4)Love is a fat bastard on diet coke. You keep drinking... and drinking but the bloody thing doesn't quench the thirst. Ermm...I don't know where that leads us to.
5)Answer my question, sweetie.
Do you really love him?
Do you need this in yr life right now?
Does he deserve you?
He calling you another girl's name, is unacceptable in any way.
I am a guy.... and still I do not find it acceptable.
Plain rude.
Take care.
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SILKSTUY the FreshMaker. Not.
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There is this guy I have a huge crush on, and Im almost 100% positive that he feels that same way too. Only, he has a girlfriend.
They have been going out for 2 months and he barely gives her any attention. I rarely ever see them talking, and we all hang out. But I get the biggest vibe that he has a crush on me too. What should I do?
Wait around? Or should I say something? (link)
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No, Don't back off, girl! Be a go-getter.
If it's obvious that he likes you, then get him to be alone with you and talk to him.
it's okay, we're all human afterall.
You might never know what lies in store for you and him.
I suggest you do it for him and yourself.
Everyone deserves to be happy. And if the guy really has a crush on you, you'd probably doing his gf a favour by ending the relationhip early.
GOOD LUCK!!!
This is SilkStuy.
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Ok, so me and my boyfriend[Brent] have been dating only a few weeks. Well today at our schools football game, one of his friends showed up[he doesn't even go to our school] his name is Sam.
Well, I was flirting ALOT with Sam. And then when my boyfriend left, I thought about how cute Sam was and how I actually liked him.
Which is pretty weird because he has a girlfriend & I have a boyfriend. But then he would come over and talk to me, and I would catch him staring at me. And then he kept hugging me and patting my back and all of that.
So what do you think? (link)
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Well, it's simple really.
It could be lust. All those sexual frustration comes to no good keeping it inside.
How about both of you get it on? No one has to know. Just the both of you, and once you had it.
It'll probably just ends there. And now, you can continue with your boyfriend like nothing happen.
Or you could just deny your needs.
It's probably an infatuation, I have that like nearly every week.
Just sleep it off and enjoy your time with your boyfriend.
Anyways, you don't really know Sam that well.
Just play some harmless flirting and no more than that.
This is SilkStuy.
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I really like this friend, and i'm sure he knows. We are both in relationships. He kissed me one day(at a party) and we haven't seen each other since. We still chat sometimes by emails, but never talked about why he kissed me that night.
I'm going to see him in couple days for a mutul friend's event, and I know he will ignore me(from how I understand/know him), and then I know i will fell so upset about it. HOWEVER, I really want to see him. What should I do to make myself feel better if he ignore me? (link)
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Alright, is there smth btw the both of you.
He maybe acted that way, so that it wouldn't make it any more awkward for the both of you.
Maybe, it was more than just a kiss. To him.
And he's trying to deny his feelings for you, but acting like nothing happened. Anywyas, both of you are attached(tsk tsk tsk..very naughty.)
So there isn't really much of a choice but to act like nothing happened.
Here is another way to look at it.
He kissed you. Probably drunk or horny.
Just was in the moment.
Woke up next day, regrets it.
Afraid that you might tell his girlfriend.
Act like nothing happened.
Story closed. :)
Not really a nice story, but this is life afterall.
This is SilkStuy.
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My boyfriend and I broke up about a week ago. 2 days ago we began talking again and decided to be friends. We spoke more and realized that we still both have feelings for each other and that the break up was kind of stupid. But he broke up with me cause he said he was afraid he would break my heart in the future and he didn’t want to do that. Should I believe that? And then we decided to stay friends with potential and then decide if we should get back together. The thing is all my family and friends are kind of mad that im even thinking of going back to him cause he hurt me, but I love him. How am I supposed to get closer to him if I cant even see him? Or how are we supposed to get back together? Me and my friends have been planning this thing on sat and we invited him buts it 30$ to get in and he says he cant go cause he’s trying to save up for a car. Is this a hint that this wont work? Thanks in advance (link)
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Alright, people break up and make up all the time, it's usual.
And in relationships, we all get hurt. Whether it's intentional or not.
And this thing that you planned. The one that cost $30 to get in. It's not a hint, babe.
He just trying to save up for a car. Men and their rides are like Chicks and their ...ermm..
Lip gloss or ear ring or smth like that.
It's really important to him. It's good that he is saving and stuff. An important quality in a man.
So yeah, it's no hint.
About how you're supposed to get closer and stuff, it's okay. Love will find a way.
No need to crack your brains out, you both will meet whenever there's an opportunity.
Do what your hearts tell you to do, it's okay.
There's really no harm actually. You're afraid of being hurt, well, i think it's too late for that, he hurt you before. So what the worst that could happen.
Patch things up with him and make things work.
Love is a beautiful thing. :)
This is SilkStuy.
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hey,
My name is Julie and iam 20. iam kinda hairry around my pubic area(u can say that i have a bush)since i had never trimmed before since puberty.i was just woundering if i should keep it or trim it or even shave it?.And iam asking girls and boys...I heard that many man men prefer bushes(they find it sexy and feminine while others not).So wat you think i shall do?
Thanks for your help. (link)
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Well, actually n honest answer would be..
Where do you actually come from. Which is another question. haha..
Because men of different countries have different preference.
Japanese seemed to like the women with thick hairy bush, while the Americans love their ladies trimmed.
Personally, I love em' trimmed, because it's kind of a turn off if you got hair stuck in btw the teeths when you're playing "wonder wand" on the south.
But you have to ask your man, it's cool.
This is SilkStuy.
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