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in desperate need of help
my boyfriend and i have been going out for 7 months and we are so in love with each other we go out every 26th of every month as if it was anniversary wise.we have sex alot but for this past month we havent had sex cuz we barely see eachother. i have a attitude problem i get irritated quick and i get mad quick and i dont know why.. is it because i be stressed? or what
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They say that many people take their anger out on the people the love most, just because their sure sub-conscientiously that they'll never rid them from their lives.
By you taking all this out on your boyfriend, it means that you love him enough to know that he's going to stick around.
After 6 months, many couples start to see true colors of one another.. which is why you two have hit this bump.
Work on your anger, which yes can be brought on by stress, as well as many other things.
Relax and enjoy life--explain to him why you've been so snappy on him.. if he loves ou, he'll understand.
Good luck! =)
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Hmmm... it could be many things.
I suggest that you should relax and try to figure out
where the problem lies. I mean we know that the problem is you, but we have to know where it's coming from.
Insecurity? Boredom?
It's good that you realise that you have an attitude problem, that's the first step, putting down your ego for something better.
Next step, you need to get some anger management routine going on.
Take some time for yourself, go to a spa, get your nails done and ponder what is it that ticks you off. You have to know the problem to solve it.
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I think you could be stressed maybe something is bothering you the best thing to do is to talk to your bf about how your feeling so that he doesnt take anything you say but dont mean seriously.
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The people that are hurt most are most often the ones we love most. Human fact. Because you know that your boyfriend will love you anyway, you feel like you can sometimes take you your frustration on him because he won't leave you because of it. You're probably letting out most of your anger on him, also, because you bottle it up. What you need is some sort of anger outlet/hobby, or a way to deal with your problems more, instead of getting mad secretly at other people.
A good way to solve this problem temporarily is to explain to your boyfriend, when you lash out at him, that it has nothing to do with him, and more to do with you being stressing and bad at handling it in general. In the long term, if it is a big problem, counseling/therapy is always an option.
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