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still can't get over ex
My ex and I broke up a few months ago. It was a horrible, messy breakup and we aren't speaking. We go to the same school and my friends are also his friends. I think he's over it, but I'm still extremely hurt and depressed. My friends & family are tired of hearing me talk about him, and I'm tired of thinking about him. We had a serious relationship for 2 years, and it's killing me it didn't work out. How do I get over this already? It's ruined friendships and has affected my school work.
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But here's what you can do. Sometimes, our pride and ego gets in the way, destroying what we've invested and denying how we truly feel. When did you last contact him? Does he know that you're still thinking about him? There are chances that he still do. Modern men are much more sensitive than people think they are. Are you giving him the cold shoulder? Why not talk to him, by his body language and the way he talks you can roughly gauge where he position you in his life? But you should just make a move and talk to him, for two yr's sake. Pride is nothing in a relationship.
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You honestly have to move on, and the first way to do that is to accept how things have turned out. If you think about him, change your thoughts to something else. Go out more with your girlfriends, flirt with guys and just put yourself out there a little. With some girls, talking and flirting with another guy, or, allowing themselves to fall for another guy helps them get over their ex. So just play around and see what works for you. You have to come to terms with how it ended. I know it is really painful that the relationship didn't work out, but focus on the positive things, like maybe it was just time, or you guys grew apart, it does happen! And remember, good things fall apart, so great things can fall together! Don't be put off by your last relationship.
It's not fair to let en ex, someone from the PAST, affect your present and future, so explain your situation to your friends, and they should help you out. Get some friends to help you with school and the problems you have there!
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forget about him. dont talk to him delete his number dont look at him hang out with your friends do other things keep busy he may pop up in your head but as soon as he does get up and do something else. eventually you will totally move on. it worked for m.e
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