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makinnngout
what things can girls do when theyre making out with a guy. like, what do guys like. not like LETS GET NAKED but like little tips of stuff like what girls can do
sorry that i worded this very badly.
hope you allll understand haha
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I know this sounds really lame, and I'm sure it is ;]
But just go with the flow. I don't really have experience in how to "properly" kiss, nor do I have experience with kissing at all! Can you say prude? ;]
Anyway- if it's your boyfriend/girlfriend- just be honest with him/her. Tell them you're nervous and you don't really know what you're doing. Apparently the people who are less-experienced is a big turn-on to some people.
Do what you feel comfortable with. If something feels awkward or uncomfortable, don't do it. If it feels right, ask the person if they are okay with that, and if they are- then you'll be fine.
There really isn't a CORRECT way to do it. Everyone does what they are comfortable with.
From my weak experience- this is what I can tell you:
1. Don't come on strong- it's really awkward for the other person.
2. Don't slobber all over the other person.
3. Don't stick your tongue all the way down their throat.
My friend on here, Laura, answered a question similar to this, and she gave a great answer. I will copy her answer, but know that credit goes to her.
www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=542699
Honestly, you could read a book about it, and you'd probably forget everything once you went in for the kiss.
Explore. Do what feels right. Make it fun, playful, romantic, whatever you want it to be. Don't make it all about jamming your tongue down his throat, and try not to drool all over him, because it's generally less than desireable to do so.
If you come off as confident it'll be a lot more fun. If all evening you're thinking "Oh my gosh, this is going to be bad" you won't enjoy yourself. Follow his lead at first, if you're truly that nervous.
And really, it's almost impossible to find a truly bad kisser. If anything, they might do something you're not used to; give it a chance before you hate it. Who knows, he might be thinking the same thing right now about you!
Over time, you'll develop your own personal style of kissing/making out, and that's not a bad thing. Do whatever feels good/right to you, and gets a positive reaction. For example, some people love a gentle, or less than gentle, bite of the lip, "necking", and other techniques. Like I already said, experiment & make it fun!
From personal experience I'd advise that you brush your teeth and floss, and have some mild mints with you, like TicTacs. Fruity is usually good, and less overpowering. If you're at a party, don't worry too much about what you're eating if you're both eating the same things, but a huge plate of hummus & extra garlic is a bad choice right before kissing =P. That's where mints come in handy for both of you. Casually offer him one if he's been gorging on something stinky.
--Jack
(17/m)
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Try different place to make out. For instance, try laying down, sitting up, in the dark, on the floor. It's rather fun ;] . The dark was funnest as you can probably imagine. When I'm in the moment, I usually go for the back of the neck. I keep my hands in the back of his neck or on his face, sometimes stroke his back and sometimes I use my fingertips and caress his hair. It really gets us into the moment. And when he's laying on me and we're just relaxing, I go under his shirt and rub his upper back. Also, lightly biting his bottom lip is sexy. Go for it.
Hope I helped
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I think the kissing part has been done. You should kiss his neck, too. Necking is awesome as it could bring that sensual feel to the whole making out session. You should lightly moan, too.. drives a man crazy. but please do it lightly, and if you're with an experienced guy, do it like it you mean it. Don't fake the moan. Ears are a sensitive spot, too. A lil' nibble or tonguing.. and you're good to go. :)
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haha, well you can slide your tongue in and out of his mouth as he sucks on it. some things you can do is suck his top lip, or lightly "explore" his mouth with your tongue, then at the end of the kiss lightly bite his bottom lip. for your hands you can touch his face or neck or sometimes i play with his hair =P
and i enforce the word lightly in all of this.
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