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I have a boyfriend but I like someone else
Ok, so me and my boyfriend[Brent] have been dating only a few weeks. Well today at our schools football game, one of his friends showed up[he doesn't even go to our school] his name is Sam.
Well, I was flirting ALOT with Sam. And then when my boyfriend left, I thought about how cute Sam was and how I actually liked him.
Which is pretty weird because he has a girlfriend & I have a boyfriend. But then he would come over and talk to me, and I would catch him staring at me. And then he kept hugging me and patting my back and all of that.
So what do you think?
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stay with your boyfriend and you shouldnt flirt with his friends even if he says he doesnt care .. he does
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Stick w your man.Don't let him go,never let him go...until yu're ready to.
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Just because you like someone else doesn't mean that you have to break up with your current boyfriend over it. You'll always be attracted to people other than the person that you are with. That's very natural. Denying that you are can get you into trouble. It's good that you realize it, but don't think for a minute that need to do anything about it. Liking someone else sucks, but if you let it mess up your current relationship, you're going to have relationship problems for a long time to come. It's a viscious cycle. There's always going to be someone that seems better. The fact is, guys aren't really that different from each other. If you were to leave your current boyfriend for Sam, you'd be disappointed. Sam isn't all he's cracked up to be. Its hard to see his faults because you aren't dating him. He has them though, everyone does. You like your current boyfriend don't you? Give him the fair chance he deserves. I'm sure he's a really great guy. There are tons of people out there that you could be happy with. Don't go out searching for the best one because you're not going to find it. Different guys will have some qualities you like and some you dislike. Stay with the one you have and love should come. He will become the best one just because he is him. Don't go looking for perfection - make perfection out of what you have. It's ok to enjoy your attraction, but don't go any further with it. Good luck. :)
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Well, it's simple really.
It could be lust. All those sexual frustration comes to no good keeping it inside.
How about both of you get it on? No one has to know. Just the both of you, and once you had it.
It'll probably just ends there. And now, you can continue with your boyfriend like nothing happen.
Or you could just deny your needs.
It's probably an infatuation, I have that like nearly every week.
Just sleep it off and enjoy your time with your boyfriend.
Anyways, you don't really know Sam that well.
Just play some harmless flirting and no more than that.
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I think it's really common to have a desire to flirt with another guy even when you have a boyfriends. Sometimes we end up doing it unknowingly. With that said though, that doesn't make it right. I think you really need to think about your feelings. It might be nothing with this guy Sam--just like a random infatuation that will go away. In that case you can just continue with the way things were. Give it a day or so of thinking. If you feel like you don't like your boyfriend as much as you use to or thought you did, then you need to be upfront with him and let him know that your feelings are different. That may be hard to do, but it is the right thing. If you end up ending things with your current boyfriend, don't go running to Sam (if that's who you want) since he has a girlfriend. Just wait it out. If he feels the same he'll be honest with his girlfriend and come to you. Just remember, if there's two guys and you can't--absolutely can't make a choice between the two of them, then you aren't meant with either of them. Keep in mind that you have tons of times to meet new guys and just remember to have fun! :)
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