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boyfriend talk about sex


Question Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 6:08 pm

i was just wondering, how long does it usually take before couples talk about sex? do they even talk about sex? cause i've been dating a guy for almost 4 months...hes such a great guy...the farthest we've gone is making out...but we havent had a "sex talk" yet...and how do you bring it up? i don't really feel comfortable talking about it but i like him so much and i feel so comfortable doing anything but that talk with him....any advice?

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abayabay21296 answered Tuesday November 25 2008, 11:24 am:
just be like i feel really comfortable with you and i seem like the whole sex talk would be the next thing for us and if he agrees just start off like are you a virgin and stuff like that. It will of course climax from there! I hope i can help!

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dottie4 answered Monday November 24 2008, 3:12 pm:
I would say do it in a setting you are comfortable in. There is nothing wrong with just talking about it. If he likes you, he'll be ok with it. But as I was saying, I wouldn't talk about it over the phone. It's better to talk about these things in person. Maybe hanging out at his or your house watching a movie ALONE. Hope I helped.

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SilkStuy answered Sunday November 23 2008, 7:21 pm:
Actually, it depends on how open you are. I talked to a girl about sex the first day we met, but she's very open, and she initiated the whole conversation. You have to learn to be comfortable with the subject, before it pounces on you and give you a bad reaction. You should be able to talk about it with your boyfriend, it's completely natural. Or you should try to hint it as a third person, and maybe you could determine what's his position on the whole subject itself. :)

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Here4U922 answered Sunday November 23 2008, 6:59 pm:
well i would have to say if you aren't confortable with it yet then wait cause you need to feel confortable in order for this type of this thing to happen. if you dont want to wait just ask him what he thinks when it comes to sexual activities.

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