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Two girls, but it's complicated and keeps changing!
Hi,
I've read a lot of your responses and they seem quite good so lets see how you handle my problem.
OK, I 15/M and have been goin out with my gf for just over a couple of weeks. The problem is she isn't at my school and because it's coming up to GCSEs my parents say i cant have a gf so they dont know and i cant just say to them im going to meet her. Hence, we only get to see each other once or twice a week.
Then there's this other girl. We've been friends for about three years but recently I've started liking her as more than that. We flirt quite a bit and have loads in common, but I'm not sure she likes me back. I decided to leave it when I got together with my gf, but since then we have decided to go to prom together (as my gf could not go with me because she is not at my skwl).
I haven't a clue what to with either girl and would really appriciate any help you can offer.
JD
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I am going to speak yu with harsh reality. It may sound greedly and filled with negativity, but in this world, to each its own.
You are still young(I know you don't think so, but you are)and shouldn't really get too involved with only one partner.
You reminded me of my situation when I was roughly around your age. In fact, it's exactly the same.
Three bestfriend whom I started to have feelings for, and a girlfriend that I just had-but don't really have that bonding the other girl and I share.
But due to me being naive, I sticked it up with my girlfriend, and we stayed on for two years, then broke up because we really didn't have anything in common.
"Having loads in common" in a relationship is essential, JD. I cannot stress the importance enough. It is vital.
I wonder everyday what it would be like if I dumped my girlfriend for my bestfriend till today. Lol.
I suggest you find out whether your friend of 3 yrs have feelings for you. Try to make this discreet so that it would be less awkward for the both of you, if things turned out bad.
Then I would probably choose her instead of the cureent girlfriend.
Then you can go to Prom without feeling guilty,
plus she's in the same school, things are much, much more easier to manage.
Logic, ain't it?
But then again, you have to question yourself, who does your heart belong to?
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