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There is this guy I have a huge crush on, and Im almost 100% positive that he feels that same way too. Only, he has a girlfriend.

They have been going out for 2 months and he barely gives her any attention. I rarely ever see them talking, and we all hang out. But I get the biggest vibe that he has a crush on me too. What should I do?

Wait around? Or should I say something? (link)
yes theres this guy i can relate...
he has a girlfriend but i like him and i think he has feelings for me too..
but ive tried winnin back it doesnt work give up maybe theyll brake up and u might go out wit him but for name step back its not worth it it he wanted to go out with u hed brake up with her...

just wait for it


i need help.

badly.

i was a new student this year, i came from a coed school and i transfered to an exclusive school. i'm 14 but i'm in the 10th grade. we've started out third semester.

today, me and three other classmates were playing truth or dare and it pointed to one of my close friends. she insisted on truth and told us that she would tell us who her crush was...

except me.

i didnt know why but she wouldve told me because she knows i'm trustworthy. she even told a girl whom she wasnt close with!

after she told her, the girl said "Ashley! Its you!" I wasnt sure whether to believe her or not because she wasnt a close friend of mine.and i couldnt really tell.

but then...why didnt she tell me who it was? unless she WAS referring to ME...

i tried to ask my other classmates who her crush was to know the truth. but they just said "Its a secret...I dont want to tell you."

But i'm a bit scared. what if it was true? the whole day, i felt awkward around her. but if it wasnt true, whats to be awkward about?

i dont wanna affect our friendship but if it was true, i'd wanna avoid her. but then she'd probably think that someone told me or something.

what should i do? i dont feel the same for her anyway. i dont support girl pairing at all.

please help.

sincerely,
aSHLey



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yikes that is a big problem but maybe i can help...
I personaly think it was a joke because if she didnt want you to no she wouldnt tell anyone else exspecialy a couple people because the secret is bound to get out...
second of all maybe it was a dare from another friend that she played truth or dare with...
if you truley think that its true maybe you should talk to this girl if you trust her and ask her if its true or false...
if she says false to cover it up you'll no it...
you should say to her if its true theres nothing rong with being gay but i dont no if i want to have you over as a sleep over anymore and i dont want to be in a room alone with you...

HOPE I HELPED GOOOOOOOD LUCK...

Merissa x3


My boyfriend is the nicest person I have ever met and he would never tell someone that he didn't want to see them any more or say something in a way which could be offensive or taken the wrong way. But his ex is sooooo overprotective of him and her family puts alot of pressure on him and gives him death stares and stuff coz he broke up with her and he's now going out with me. She tries everything she can to get between us and both their families do alot of things together so it isn't like he can't just stop seeing her. Sometimes we just want to be alone but she is ALWAYS at his place, every single day guarenteed. Their families are pretty close so he doesn't want to cause problems and even when we do want to be alone my bf is too nice to just ask her to go away or whatever. She's always hanging around him and is so jealous and tries so much stuff...my bf is so stressed out and I don't know what to do...
can anyone please help me?! (link)
well maybe you should talk to her for him but ask him first because what if he didnt like that and say to her that your not his girlfriend anymore i m now his life has changed IM SORRY but we wanna spend some time together alone but do it in a nice way dont get in a cat fight wit her... i think shes jelious and is trying to make you mad so that you'll give up BUT DONT GIVE UP hes yours he likes you feal specialer than her because he choses you you no that hes wit YOU...

Merissa x3


so i tryed out for cheerleading at my school and they have like two days before actual tryouts where they teach you the dance the school song the cheer and stunting. i'm not gonna lie i did really good on all of it. and when tryouts came i made sure i looked cute while dancing and everything and when she posted the results afterwards my name wasn't on the list but my best friends was. some of the worst people trying out made it...i don't get it. one of the girls i know tryed out with her friend and they made it because her older sister is captain and her other older sister is coach. girls who were on the team for football season didn't even make it because of attitude". actually the coaches just had their younger sister (the captain) choose almost RANDOMLY without looking at abilities...they also choose favorites.this is so unfair they kicked some of the best girls off just because they don't like them...now i missed cheerleading basketball season and i'm scared to tryout for football season next year. one of my friends moms is going to the athletic director and talking about how the coaches just choose favorites...idk what tooo doo!!! i'm so depressed about not making it!! (link)
i can realate i didnt make it either and im really good to ( not to be all so sure of myself ) and some harible girls made it too and it was because of favorites too its so not fair you should talk to the coach and fight for whats rite or give up and be a loser... GOOD LUCK

Merissa x3


ok well halloween is practically here. and i have no idea what to be!!!!!!

im a 14/f and a freshamnnn

i mean i have some ideas.. but like it would cost alot of money.
i was gonan be a preppy boy and probably still am. but being a prep? that could be expensive.. and since i would only wear those clothes like once its a waste of money.

or a princess. but i need a dress, which could be expensive.

i need help. i wanna be something like really cute. like if you know what i mean. but where my mom wouldnt say no right to the spot.


kk thnks in advance!!


mwahhz


-Riss
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ok well maybe you could me a bunny or a cat like the cute kinda cat or bunny with the ears and the tail and a skirt and tank like a pink afet you can get them at the store for not that much money or maybe a playboy thats not that bad...

hope i helped... GOOD LUCK

i take it your names merissa too. so is mine

Merissa x3


ok. so i want a flatter stomcach. and everyones liek ohh do crunches and stuff.

but then some people are like well wouldnt that just build muscle under your stomach? so you'll get fatter? (link)
dear, you

muscel isnt fat its a nice body, and if you want to get lose a few pounds just watch what you eat dont eat alot of fried food and greesy food eat your vagtibles and fruits and for dinner some vegitbles and some cooked chicken, exercizing is your answer too! do a couple jumping jacks and pushups and culups run around your yard a few times but dont go nuts you have to eat. eat a good breakfast dont eat to close to when you wanna go to bed ok. you wont have anough time to burn of your food fat. REMEMBER LOOKS ARENT EVERYTHING BEING HEALTHY IS...

i hope i helped GOOD LUCK Merissa x3


im 16, and my boyfriend is weird lol. ive been thinkin about gettin teal or navy blue streaks on the kinda underneath layers in my [blonde] hair for the past year or so, and i think i may do it [semi-permanent cuz my mom wont let me get permanent, ha]. well, his friend has a pic on her myspace of her when she put hot pink streaks all over in her hair, and he left a comment on it sayin somethin about its so awesome or so pimp or somethin like that and she should do it again. then his ex has a pic on her myspace where she temporarily colored her bangs and stuff pink.. and again he commented about how it was so badass or w/e. but when i mention that with my hair hes like just like "uhh.. ok??" like its weird, or else he'll just be like "whatever. its your hair do what you want". i wish he'd give me more of a reaction about what he'd think.. since he does with his friend and his ex... whats up with this ? (link)
maybe hes not the right guy for you if he doesnt give you his feelings about your situuations maybe all he cares about is the outside or maybe he doesnt wanna hert your feelings


15/f
I like my brother's friend (17 years old), and he's really nice to me (says things like "You're magic" and "You're on fire") and he always opens my doors.

But he doesn't look at me much (unless he's talking to me)...even when he's sitting directly across from me, or when it's just me, my brother, and him. When I point something out to my brother, he looks at where I point but doesn't look at me.

By the way, he's very outgoing.

So, why doesn't he look at me? I'm not sure if he hates or likes me. And, could he like me? (link)
I think maybe he doesnt look like u because maybe hes afraid that u dont like him as more than friends i think that you should talk to him privitly and ask him out... GOOD LUCK


I'm a junior in high school, and it's now 2nd quarter. The past few weeks I haven't cared about my grades, and I don't know why. And, so they slipped. Now, I'm caring a lot more. I just need some good study habits to help me. What can get me motivated to study and do realy well on tests and homework? Anything good will help me. Thanks! (link)
Well i think you should get the book your studying sitdown and turn off the tv and study hard study the night before each test and eat a good breakfast... GOOD LUCK




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