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Question Posted Friday October 27 2006, 10:06 am

i need help.

badly.

i was a new student this year, i came from a coed school and i transfered to an exclusive school. i'm 14 but i'm in the 10th grade. we've started out third semester.

today, me and three other classmates were playing truth or dare and it pointed to one of my close friends. she insisted on truth and told us that she would tell us who her crush was...

except me.

i didnt know why but she wouldve told me because she knows i'm trustworthy. she even told a girl whom she wasnt close with!

after she told her, the girl said "Ashley! Its you!" I wasnt sure whether to believe her or not because she wasnt a close friend of mine.and i couldnt really tell.

but then...why didnt she tell me who it was? unless she WAS referring to ME...

i tried to ask my other classmates who her crush was to know the truth. but they just said "Its a secret...I dont want to tell you."

But i'm a bit scared. what if it was true? the whole day, i felt awkward around her. but if it wasnt true, whats to be awkward about?

i dont wanna affect our friendship but if it was true, i'd wanna avoid her. but then she'd probably think that someone told me or something.

what should i do? i dont feel the same for her anyway. i dont support girl pairing at all.

please help.

sincerely,
aSHLey





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guyinOK answered Friday November 10 2006, 3:54 am:
sorry to tell you this but it sounds like it is you she likes. If you dont support "girl pairing" then tell her. If a boy you liked as a friend liked you more you could deal with it couldnt you? and even stay friends? it is the same thing. she isnt going to force you to be gay. Id tell her how you feel so she can find a better person to be her friend.

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femme.fatale answered Sunday October 29 2006, 3:30 pm:
Even if it turns out to be true, don't avoid her completely. Just because she likes you doesn't mean she's going jump on you the second you're alone with her, whether it's because you've decided not to avoid her or you've just bumped into her by accident. It's not her fault.

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rissaxOxroo answered Friday October 27 2006, 5:57 pm:
yikes that is a big problem but maybe i can help...
I personaly think it was a joke because if she didnt want you to no she wouldnt tell anyone else exspecialy a couple people because the secret is bound to get out...
second of all maybe it was a dare from another friend that she played truth or dare with...
if you truley think that its true maybe you should talk to this girl if you trust her and ask her if its true or false...
if she says false to cover it up you'll no it...
you should say to her if its true theres nothing rong with being gay but i dont no if i want to have you over as a sleep over anymore and i dont want to be in a room alone with you...

HOPE I HELPED GOOOOOOOD LUCK...

Merissa x3

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NinjaNeer answered Friday October 27 2006, 5:06 pm:
Don't do anything stupid like end your friendship because she may have feelings for you.

Even if you are against homosexuality, it's not a crime, and you should be there to support your friend if she does decide to come out to you.

Just because she may have feelings for you doesn't mean that she's going to try anything.

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only_the_truth answered Friday October 27 2006, 1:34 pm:
wow... its DEFINITELY sounds like she likes you. That's freaky. I dont support girl pairing at all either. i suggest you stay away from her, and if she thinks someone told you then that means it is you. And then you tell her that you're not interested and you only found out becuase it was really obvious during truth or dare.

It's

ONLY_THE_TRUTH

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